Anyone else hate missing work owing to illness?
Anyone else hate missing work owing to illness?
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g3org3y

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22,454 posts

220 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Today is the first time I'm missing work owing to illness in a long while.

I've had an on/off cold for the last couple of weeks, living on regular Lemsip (well the Tesco equivalent as I'm tight). However this morning I felt properly terrible, 8/10 severity upper abdo pain and vomiting like a vomiting thing. Crazy sweating too! Bad times. I've not felt that bad in a long time. Had to call work and tell them I couldn't come in today and almost certainly tomorrow.

Pain is better after the vomiting but I still feel absolutely shocking.

I do find there is a certain proportion of people who miss work at the drop of a hat (OMG sore throat for 2 days!!!) but it's certainly a balance. There's no point showing up if you're genuinely unwell as it's unlikely you will be very productive and I suspect you wouldn't be very popular if you infect everyone else.

Particular point of annoyance - it's the work Christmas do this evening. Had been looking forward to it. Oh well, there's always next year. frown

HarryFlatters

4,203 posts

241 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Yep, I certainly do.

What I hate more is when a colleague turns up with a bright red, streaming nose and hacking cough and proceeds to infect the rest of the office.

There's a balance to be struck. If you have a bit of a sniffle you can probably work. If you have Spanish 'flu you should probably be in your house.

SlidingSideways

1,345 posts

261 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Sick days are for being properly poorly. Coughs/colds/hangovers etc... is what working from home if for. I can sit being/feeling unpleasant all on my own without the rest of the office having to put up with it, and without passing it on to them all.
I just wish everyone else were so considerate, but there seems to be some sort of perceived kudos for coming into the office at deaths door. There isn't. We don't think you're dedicated. We don't think you're tough. We just think "Oh great, I'll have that bug next week then. Thanks."

ewenm

28,506 posts

274 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I don't hate missing work (despite not getting sick pay) but I do hate being ill.

Edited by ewenm on Thursday 12th December 09:27

HarryFlatters

4,203 posts

241 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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SlidingSideways said:
Sick days are for being properly poorly.
yes

SlidingSideways said:
hangovers
hehe

BoRED S2upid

21,035 posts

269 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Yes, nobody does my work when im not there so 2 days off sick means 2 days extra work to do! better to suffer through and work at 50% for the sick days IMO.

Miguel Alvarez

5,176 posts

199 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Most places it is a case of you're damned if you do damned if you don't. You come in sick and infect everyone and its an issue. Take a couple days off to get better and again its an issue.

SlidingSideways

1,345 posts

261 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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HarryFlatters said:
SlidingSideways said:
hangovers
hehe
Actually, just rethought that. With two young kids in the house these days, if I ever get to the point where I get a hangover again I'll probably head into the office for the peace and quiet, rather than being assaulted by a pair of over enthusiastic toddlers every time I pop downstairs to make a coffee.

anonymous-user

83 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I hate it too, handily I can work from home so am very rarely sick, my boss knows if I am too sick to even sit on the sofa with my laptop then it must be bad, but thats very rare

theshrew

6,008 posts

213 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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In my last job i did my best to go in even if i was ruff as a bears bottom, just try and struggle on. They looked after me and appreciated what i did.

These days im quite happy to stay off work but only when i really need to. They certainly dont give a feck about me so i dont about them. The work can wait.


Urban Sports

11,321 posts

232 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I detest it, unfortunately due to an ongoing knee condition I have to have a couple of days off here and there every few months as I have to periodically have cortisone injections, tomorrow afternoon being one of them.

I only ever phone in sick if I genuinely cannot physically be there usually owing to the complete rest nedded after the injection.

Other people are off all of the time with sniffles etc, that IMO is not on!

theshrew

6,008 posts

213 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Urban Sports said:
Other people are off all of the time with sniffles etc, that IMO is not on!
I agree - One bloke that i work with has a lot more days off sick than he has holidays. Thats every year !


NerveAgent

3,841 posts

249 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I find a lot of people that come in when they are really ill generally do naff all when they are in. They are actually bad for the company and just using it for their own personal gain/presenteeism/bragging on online forums or whatever.

I don't like take days off work because I don't get paid. I will if I need to though.

Badgerboy

1,794 posts

221 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Never had a day off sick. If I do get 'ill', which is rare, it's always on a weekend.

Seems my body schedules infections on my downtime.

evenflow

8,875 posts

311 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Lemsip doesn't have any effect on AIDS, sorry frown

shirt

25,377 posts

230 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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i don't hate missing work for any reason, but it annoys me that people always assume it's a skive. i am known for being honest - admitting to sleeping in on occasion, will work from home if i cba'd going in etc. - but still this persists.

i worked almost 4 months straight over summer with only 2 days off the job. have only taken 6 days leave total and will likely have to surrender some leave days at the end of the year. yet people piss and moan as i took 2 days off for illness. says more about those who point the finger really.


Mr Snap

2,364 posts

186 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Like lots of people I have a chest condition that means, whenever I catch a cold, I'll probably get a 'secondary' lung infection to follow and, if I'm really unlucky, full blown pneumonia. I think that the people who drag themselves in are a menace and I regularly send employees home.



Type R Tom

4,305 posts

178 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I’m quite lucky; I just don’t really get sick. In 10 years of working I’ve had 2 weeks off, 3 years ago, for my leg in a cast and that’s it. Not needed any time off due to being ill in the traditional sense.

I sometime think I single handily keep my teams sickness average up on my own; some of the “illnesses” people phone in for are beyond a joke. Think it goes back to being a kid, unless I was pretty much dead I was going to school!

shed driver

3,059 posts

189 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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I'm a nurse and when I worked on a respiratory medicine / pulmonary transplant unit our sickness rate was unbelievable - probably about 12 - 15%.

Typical public sector I can hear the PH massive already sharpening their goatees and aiming their cans of redbull.

However, my colleagues ad I used to get some pretty weird and wonderful bugs coughed or spat onto us, we inhaled more sputum, snot and general nastiness than I care to think of. Sometimes we became ill from this - now if we had come into work we could have killed some of the immuno-suppressed patients - so it was a disciplinary offence to come in when we thought we were unwell. There was also no way we could work from home, so we were off, usually for 1 - 2 weeks at a time.

I'm not sure when (I've left this specialty), but it's now all about performance management and staff being afraid to be off sick - I just wonder have we gone a little too far?

SD.

TheJimi

27,662 posts

272 months

Thursday 12th December 2013
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Don't particularly care about missing work but I *hate* not being able to train if I'm ill.