OV62 GZH Land Rover and parent child parking
OV62 GZH Land Rover and parent child parking
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Captainawesome

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1,817 posts

192 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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So sitting in the Parent and child parking in Sainsbury's, Banbury today feeding my daughter before going in. There is one space left in the P and C area. Mr asshole in big shiny black LR pulls in and gets out. No child. I open my door and inform hime that this is parent and child parking and that he has taken the last space. Guy simply says 'so?, I'm not answerable to you' I inform him that he is as I find it a right PITA getting my child seat out in the very small normal spaces and also inform him that he is an asshole. To which he replies that I am the asshole.

Never noticed this much before but had my first child 4 months ago and the amount of people I see using these spaces with no kids is starting to really boil my piss. Particularly the people who think it's ok to park there as they have child seats but no child. Surely they must find it annoying when there are none available.

What really annoyed me today though was this guy's attitude. Hopefully I'll see him again when I don't have my daughter with me and I'll let him know what a really bad attitude is all about. So if anyone knows him tell him he is a tt from me please.

wker. I despair for my daughter growing up in this world.

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V8mate

45,899 posts

218 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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You had a kid. So what? The world doesn't suddenly owe you a living.

jamieduff1981

8,092 posts

169 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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I try not to get worked up about it, but I invariably hold the opinion that anyone using said spaces without children present is a self-absorbed c**t.

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

279 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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Captainawesome said:
Hopefully I'll see him again when I don't have my daughter with me and I'll let him know what a really bad attitude is all about. So if anyone knows him tell him he is a tt from me please.
Good idea. You'll then find out he's some unhinged nutter with a knife in his car, and you become another statistic. That'll show him.

OriginUnknown

16,952 posts

229 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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V8mate said:
You had a kid. So what? The world doesn't suddenly owe you a living.
Do you think P&C spaces should be abolished then?

Greeny

1,423 posts

288 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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What is the age limit of the child before you can not use these spaces anymore

mike-r

1,539 posts

220 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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If you put the kid in the boot and drove into spaces forwards you'd always have enough room.

Motorrad

6,811 posts

216 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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Personally I'd just think 'tt' to myself rather than commenting to the person about it and then posting a thread on a forum about it.

Otherwise I'd constantly be confronting people and posting threads on a forum about such minor irritations as s that don't hold doors open for other people or assholes in the supermarket who don't put the little divider thingy down on the belt after their shopping. KILL THEM, kill them all.

Or alternatively live and let live in the case of these minor annoyances. It's not as if people with children are disabled and unable to get around. The person in question is setting themselves up for some paint restoration in any case. The last place I'd park is next to people with kids who are more worried about keeping their offspring safe than bashing their trolley or door into my car.

Captainawesome

Original Poster:

1,817 posts

192 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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V8mate said:
You had a kid. So what? The world doesn't suddenly owe you a living.
No but it's bloody difficult to get a car seat out in a small space without risking putting a dent in someone's door. Thats why they have the big spaces to make it easier. Particularly when most people in supermarket car parks seem incapable of parking properly further compounding the problem. I wouldn't have minded so much had there been plenty of spaces left but that was the last one and when I went into the shop there were loads of normal spaces empty.

Do you really want someone to be struggling to get their baby seat out using both hands and not paying attention to how close their door is to your P and J???? I don't.

Cyder

7,186 posts

249 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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OriginUnknown said:
V8mate said:
You had a kid. So what? The world doesn't suddenly owe you a living.
Do you think P&C spaces should be abolished then?
Personally I do, then I'd redistribute the width across the rest of the car park and give every parking space a slightly wider space to stop the door bashing culture.

dibblecorse

7,607 posts

221 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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OriginUnknown said:
V8mate said:
You had a kid. So what? The world doesn't suddenly owe you a living.
Do you think P&C spaces should be abolished then?
Yeah, why not, the world won't stop turning and having a kid doesn't mean you can't walk 500ft to the front doors of a car park !!!!

Never understood why people believe having a kid means they should be treated more favorably than anyone else ....

Disabled bays on the other hand ..... definitely agree with those.

martinnitram

244 posts

230 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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Parent & child spaces = more room each side = you dont get your nice car dented as easily by some careless chav swinging doors wide open.
If i nip to tesco's i'll use the p&c spaces for exactly this reason, but i take my son with me so i can do it legally.

cocopop

1,300 posts

234 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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What are the PH feelings on using P&C spaces when taking your parents shopping?

Captainawesome

Original Poster:

1,817 posts

192 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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Cyder said:
Personally I do, then I'd redistribute the width across the rest of the car park and give every parking space a slightly wider space to stop the door bashing culture.
Thats a pretty good idea.

Cars get bigger every year but the space don't.

Today annoyed me because the guy didn't even say I know, I'm just nipping in. Just a bad 'fk you' attitude. Whilst I was finishing off feeding there was a car with children in come round and then have to head into the normal car park so no doubt someone will be coming back to a nice big ding in their door.

Davel

8,982 posts

287 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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Same thing happens in Disabled Spaces.

There have been various rants about this in the past.

Greeny

1,423 posts

288 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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cocopop said:
What are the PH feelings on using P&C spaces when taking your parents shopping?
When I do this, I use the disabled spaces, they are closer

The Vambo

7,714 posts

170 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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OP is is spot on about not wanting to damage other cars, wish there were more like him.

However, the P&C spaces should be away right at the back of the car park. If you want extra space, you walk further not everyone else.

Captainawesome

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1,817 posts

192 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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The Vambo said:
OP is is spot on about not wanting to damage other cars, wish there were more like him.

However, the P&C spaces should be away right at the back of the car park. If you want extra space, you walk further not everyone else.
Maybe this is the solution, then lazy tts wouldn't steal them, I wouldn't mind an extra minute or 2 of walking.

TonyHetherington

32,091 posts

279 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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I think they should put them a little further from the door. Not out of pettyness - quite the opposite in fact. If they put P&C spaces at the back of the carpark, take all the space and time you need, as there will be loads, and people won't use them just to nip in.

It involves walking further across the car park of course, but you're just about to walk around a shop for 45mins, so 1min further won't be so bad. If it's raining not ideal, but they can be put along the centre isle of the car park for example, with the covered walk way to the main door.

duffy78

483 posts

168 months

Thursday 13th February 2014
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The Vambo said:
OP is is spot on about not wanting to damage other cars, wish there were more like him.

However, the P&C spaces should be away right at the back of the car park. If you want extra space, you walk further not everyone else.
They are at my local Tesco but it doesnt stop people using them.