What's the perfect car for picking up a first date?
What's the perfect car for picking up a first date?
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white_goodman

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4,522 posts

220 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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As it's Valentines day, what would be the perfect car to pick a girl (or boy) up in for a first date?

I would want to maintain an air of mystery/intrigue.
Nothing too flash but not a banger either and not something that looks like I borrowed it from my mum. Not so slow that you have to rev the nuts off it but no so fast that you drive like a d***!

I think a tidy one of these would fit the bill quite nicely.



You could make fairly swift progress without drawing attention to it and comfortable and a good heater too. Stick a non-tacky private plate on it and they wouldn't necessarily know it's a 20+ year old car.

If it was a summer date or maybe a second date, once you have discovered they're actually a fun person then the convertible equivalent would do very nicely!



or this:



Having owned old convertibles though, they can be quite noisy hood up and hood down to hold a conversation and water dripping onto your date's lap in heavy rain probably isn't going to endear you to them either!

Just for the record, I have been married for 3.5 years so haven't had a first date for a while and I got it totally wrong (but obviously it didn't matter).

1st date - didn't pick her up but arrived in a diesel Beetle Cabriolet (maybe a bit too effeminate but it was a company car)

2nd date - picked her up in a new Golf GTI (MkV) borrowed from a colleague (a bit too flash and drove too fast)

3rd date - went to lunch with her and her parents and turned up in my own white E30 325i Cabriolet (probably looked like a drug dealer/pimp).

Her parents also probably thought I was a professional car thief what with all the different cars!

Edited by white_goodman on Friday 14th February 18:52

skyrover

12,700 posts

233 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Something with a big back seat and lots of room

benjj

6,787 posts

192 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Never, ever fails.

Krikkit

27,938 posts

210 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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For a first date you want something not too flashy, but something that shows you aren't a loser. (Generally) Something that doesn't single you out as being a car nerd - they're boring.

Hence, Audi anything. White, diesel, big wheels. Hateful cars, but the apex of successful yet un-flashy for normal folks these days.

andy-xr

13,204 posts

233 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Um...in my case it was a green diesel Peugeot, but you know, we're still together (touchwood)

I think a good reference for this was the old TG cool wall, but adapted into more lemonade pockets / champagne tongue styles.

Anything too 'out there' is a no-no, just comes off as odd. Like that guy who had a Lambo, except it was like a £2k tractor and he just had the keyring for that ponceyness factor. Not really digging that one.

Pablo16v

2,918 posts

226 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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I once picked up a girl in a 1988 V12 Jag XJS, which didn't impress her at all. For our second date i used my scruffy 1983 Range Rover, and I was ever so slightly surprised when she said it was cool.

HumbleJim

29,004 posts

212 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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benjj said:


Never, ever fails.
Close thread.

skyrover

12,700 posts

233 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Pablo16v said:
I once picked up a girl in a 1988 V12 Jag XJS, which didn't impress her at all. For our second date i used my scruffy 1983 Range Rover, and I was ever so slightly surprised when she said it was cool.
Girls LOVE SUV's

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

RichB

56,275 posts

313 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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HumbleJim said:
benjj said:
Never, ever fails.
Close thread.
Amusingly when people say that it never happens laugh

Davey S2

13,394 posts

283 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Don't forget the diamond encrusted watch, open necked shirt and remember to keep calling her 'Princess'


HumbleJim

29,004 posts

212 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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I was collected by a girl driving a Mazda pickup (her dad was a farmer). I liked that.

Spanna

3,737 posts

205 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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A Lexus GS430H.

It's quiet. It's elegant. It's comfortable. It's safe. It's swift. It's understated yet good looking. It's decent on fuel. You can say you drive a hybrid (to certain females). It's modern and flash enough to say 'successful'. It's not an Audi or BMW or Merc so it adds mystery.





havingabarth

36 posts

200 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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motorhole

692 posts

249 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Sadly, probably an Audi A3. Women love Audis. The A3 isn't particularly flashy. And it's less likely of being viewed as a 'girl's' car, unlike a Mini, a Beetle or a 500.

Or if it's warm and dry, pick her up on a bike - just remember the spare helmet smile

sgtbash

766 posts

165 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Davey S2 said:
Don't forget the diamond encrusted watch, open necked shirt and remember to keep calling her 'Princess'
Whats going on with the front bumper?

POORCARDEALER

8,663 posts

270 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Girls like cars and money.

Never forget it.

Impasse

15,099 posts

270 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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havingabarth said:
Going for the lesbian vote. Good call.

white_goodman

Original Poster:

4,522 posts

220 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Krikkit said:
For a first date you want something not too flashy, but something that shows you aren't a loser. (Generally) Something that doesn't single you out as being a car nerd - they're boring.

Hence, Audi anything. White, diesel, big wheels. Hateful cars, but the apex of successful yet un-flashy for normal folks these days.
Diesel?

N Dentressangle

3,453 posts

251 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Any car.

Most women are about as interested in cars as most men are in shoes.

If they tell you any different, they're just humoring you. wink

supertouring

2,228 posts

262 months

Friday 14th February 2014
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Megane R26R - you can cop a bit of a feel when doing up the harnesses for her.