Help - need to convince the wife on a new car for her
Help - need to convince the wife on a new car for her
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Welshbeef

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49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Been thinking hard about changing the wife's car for some time now

Budget £6k

I'm pushing for a used Eclass S211 320CDI (Estate) she is saying 7 seat Touran Sport 2.0 TDI

She thinks the Merc is too big possibly and not as good as the Touran, I'd assume her reasoning for this is a friend of hers had one and took her in it with her two kids many times and it did everything they needed therefore it should be fine.

Am I wrong in pushing for the better car here Merc (need to get her a test drive - but used ones at this or lower price point are not local - whereas she has spotted one local in a colour she likes....).

204bhp 6 speed auto leather sleek estate with cam chain
140tdi 6 speed manuals cambelt change higher centre of gravity.


She is keen so am I on the S Max but at £6k they are not looking good you need £10k really for the spec we need and when doing 3k a year it doesn't make financial sense (maybe the next one?)



Edited by Welshbeef on Saturday 8th March 10:04

Dave Hedgehog

16,328 posts

233 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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huge mistake

i always make a short list of 4-6 cars, she goes drives them and buys the one she likes, normally one thats not on the list lol

one less thing to be nagged about

Troubleatmill

10,210 posts

188 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Porsche 944 for the win.



Buy her whatever she wants, not what you want. It will make for a happier life.

carinaman

25,171 posts

201 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Troubleatmill said:
Porsche 944 for the win.

Buy her whatever she wants, not what you want. It will make for a happier life.
Down the hill from where the Audi was sourced, an ex and I may have got intimate with a Mars Bar. Should that feat be repeated I'll put it in the fridge first.

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

255 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Let her decide. That way, when you next want to change your car you'll be able to say, "But you chose what you wanted...."

Alfahorn

7,825 posts

237 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Let her have what she wants.

My Mrs despite being very comfortably off , own business , lovely house (we don't live together) insists on driving a battered 51 plate Golf GTI even though she could easily afford something much, much better. I've given up trying to convince her to buy anything. Lol

McSam

6,753 posts

204 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Push as far as getting her to have a serious look at one of the E-classes, and preferably a drive in one, but no further. If she likes it, great. But if she still thinks the Touran will be better because she prefers it, then leave her to it.

I've had this kind of situation and it's evenly split whether someone will suddenly "see the light" and realise they can have something five classes above what they expected, and those who don't care about the things that we value as making a car better and simply want what they originally saw themselves in.

If it's only financial worries "a big Mercedes must be so much more expensive to run than a good little VW" then you can soon put those to rest. But don't discount the possibility that she just likes the Touran better, if that's the case, then let her have one!

Welshbeef

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49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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A question she has just asked does the Touran have 3 separate rear seats as in do all 3 have isofix whereas the Merc would only have two.

Looking at pics they appear to be 3 independant seats - do the also move back and forth?

10 Pence Short

32,880 posts

246 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Outgrown the S2000?

Welshbeef

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49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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10 Pence Short said:
Outgrown the S2000?
Change of circumstance another bun in the oven

carinaman

25,171 posts

201 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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It's not just the RS6 you open the taps in then is it.

CraigyMc

18,369 posts

265 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Welshbeef said:
10 Pence Short said:
Outgrown the S2000?
Change of circumstance another bun in the oven
Do not contradict a pregnant anything, especially a pregnant wife.

wiliferus

4,214 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Hate to sound like a PH broken record, but if it's only going to do 3k a year, why are you thinking diesel? If you go petrol you'll get more car for your money.

Welshbeef

Original Poster:

49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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wiliferus said:
Hate to sound like a PH broken record, but if it's only going to do 3k a year, why are you thinking diesel? If you go petrol you'll get more car for your money.
Actually looking on auto trader it could pick a Touran up local for £3.1k which has 160k miles rather than £6k which seems to buy half the milage.

As for diesel v petrol from what I can see there are not many petrols for sale in the first place /possibly down to such a smaller % sold in the first place.
I'd happily have either - she currently runs a Leon Cupra 1.8T

McSam

6,753 posts

204 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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CraigyMc said:
Do not contradict a pregnant anything, especially a pregnant wife.
Add this to my post too hehe

Welshbeef

Original Poster:

49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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wiliferus said:
Hate to sound like a PH broken record, but if it's only going to do 3k a year, why are you thinking diesel? If you go petrol you'll get more car for your money.
Putting the search onto nationwide (but but keeping the sport spec) there are 268 diesels for sale and 12 petrols of those 12 and only 5 within budget and then only 3 being 7 seat options. Closest is 70 miles away to view - it could be great but that's a long way to go and its the normally aspired 2ltr petrol FSI

So given the above diesel makes more sense there is simply much more choice.

vtecyo

2,122 posts

158 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Who's paying?

Welshbeef

Original Poster:

49,633 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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vtecyo said:
Who's paying?
She's a kept lady. wink.

sawman

5,168 posts

259 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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some friends of ours had a touran a couple of years ago, cant recall what age (might have been an 05/06 plate?) it was but everytime it went to the dealer it cost a grand for some issue or another

wiliferus

4,214 posts

227 months

Saturday 8th March 2014
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Welshbeef said:
wiliferus said:
Hate to sound like a PH broken record, but if it's only going to do 3k a year, why are you thinking diesel? If you go petrol you'll get more car for your money.
Putting the search onto nationwide (but but keeping the sport spec) there are 268 diesels for sale and 12 petrols of those 12 and only 5 within budget and then only 3 being 7 seat options. Closest is 70 miles away to view - it could be great but that's a long way to go and its the normally aspired 2ltr petrol FSI

So given the above diesel makes more sense there is simply much more choice.
Good point, well presented smile

FWIW I bought a 2005 Touran 2.0tdi 140 Sport for my wife.

It had a full VWSH, 12 months ticket and is a good unabused example. I wouldn't buy another. It's been plagued with wheel alignment problems, eating the edges of tyres, front and rear, for fun! I've lost count of the bushes and 4 wheel alignments I've had done. Research of relevant forums shows it to be a common issue.
Also suffers a hot start issue which although it starts, it kind of thumps into life. Allegedly it's a software issue that VW have denied all knowledge of.

That said, it's an effective tool, comfy with an acceptable turn of pace for long family motorway runs. Handling is ok but steering feedback is nil. I've never got my driving position as I want it as it's like driving a van, you're over the pedals instead of in front of them.

I'd look around at equivalent vehicles before committing to a Touran.



Edited by wiliferus on Saturday 8th March 12:13