What did you want to be when you were young?
What did you want to be when you were young?
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TheAngryDog

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13,217 posts

238 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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When you were young, what did you want to be? Did you end up being it? If not, what did you end up doing instead? Do you know what you want to be still?

I remember wanting to be a teacher. I was in primary school at the time. I soon grew out of that hehe

I then wanted to follow in my dads footsteps and become an engineer. Trouble was that I was not really mechanically minded or skilled to do such as role. So during secondary school, I switched from CDT To ICT classes and embarked upon a career in IT.

I still work in IT, and have done since the age of 16, and I am now 33. I am not really sure that you could call it IT though, more IT help desk. This is not what I wanted to do, I always wanted to get into the more technical server side of things. Unfortunately for me, I ended up stuck in a job for nigh on 11 years doing help desk supporting some 16bit database. It was my fault, I could've probably left and got into a more technical role, but I was saving for a mortgage, and being poorly paid as it was, I could not afford to take the hit. In hindsight, I should have just done it and dealt with the mortgage later.

I did eventually move into a more technical role, but I was not really allowed to do anything technical - it ended up being more of a catch and dispatch role, so I opted to move on and do the job I do currently, which is as technical as a cucumber.

I am moving again, into a much more technical role, starting at the bottom, but the opportunity to learn a huge amount, which will enable me to eventually move into an even better role.

The problem is, is that I do not know what role that is.

Do I want to continue in IT? Yes. I am not sure that I am as passionate about it as I should be, but hopefully this will not prove to be an issue. I have lacked motivation over the years, but this new role I am moving to is exciting me, and I am very much looking forward to taking it on and making it what I want it to be. I am hoping it will create opportunities for me. I am going to have a lot of spare time as a result, so I am planning on using this positively and studying for various certificates to back up what I will be learning on the job.

I would like to manage, I would like to project manage, I would like to do operation managing, I would not mind looking at contracting role's.

I guess I need some kind of career plan. I have never put one of these together, and I am not sure that at my age it will be that relevant? I am 17 years into a potential 50 year career. Is it too late?

What are your stories?

black1

979 posts

226 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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When I was at school I wanted to be a lolly pop man !














Cos u don't start work till your 65 lol

TheAngryDog

Original Poster:

13,217 posts

238 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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black1 said:
When I was at school I wanted to be a lolly pop man !














Cos u don't start work till your 65 lol
Hows that going for you? Still dream of doing it? hehe

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Firstly a cowboy.

Then a footballer.

Then an astronaut.

OllieC

3,816 posts

243 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Racing Driver !

SGirl

7,924 posts

290 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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A teacher. All the way through school and university, until my final year at university.

I called in on our Professor of German for a chat to say hello after returning from my mandatory year abroad, and the subject turned to where I'd be off to afterwards. So I told him I was planning to do a PGCE. He was rummaging through a filing cabinet at the time, and he just stopped in his tracks! (I don't think I ever saw him lost for words before...) Then he turned back to me, gave me a "WTF?" look and told me I'd be insane to do that because I'd hate it.

Instead, he advised me to go for a job which would allow me to use my language skills, work at my own pace and give me as little contact as possible with the hard-of-thinking. hehe

Fair play to him, he was absolutely, 100% correct. And so I became a translator. Which was my second choice. smile

Flip Martian

23,715 posts

219 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Never really had an idea from an early age apart from perhaps a footballer (nowhere near good enough). I had odd ideas of being a gardener as it got time to leave school - but had really bad hay fever so that ruled that out. Went to college and decided on retail management. Then after 2 years Bus and Mgt diploma decided against that... I fancied being a musician/composer but that's just remained a part time hobby.

Eventually while in a clerical job our office got a database and I showed an interest. So I've done data cleansing/reporting since then. Pays the bills and I'm ok financially now without being "wealthy". My personal life is more important than the job, for me. I know many will make their career the focus of their life but that was never me. I'll never be very rich but that doesn't bother me. No debts, so happy. smile

98elise

32,532 posts

190 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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I wanted to be a pilot. For some reason I just assumed that it was something beyond me so never pursued it.

I even joined the forces, so I could have simply said "pilot" instead of "engineer" when I walked through the recruitment office door!

Ranger 6

7,663 posts

278 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Me too for the pilot - only for me it was helicopters after watching a display at Middle Wallop.

I too joined the Army to work my way in but never made it, I ended up as a FOO. My civvy life is far less interesting hehe

williamp

20,387 posts

302 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Very specifically, in one or these:



No other armed forces, or aircraft would do.

davek_964

11,227 posts

204 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Also wanted to be a fighter pilot (obviously ignoring the fact that people would be shooting at me) - but it shows how impressionable you are when younger because I was told it was extremely difficult to do and I should be more realistic. It's still something I wish I'd tried to do.

I enjoyed computer software when I was a teenager, and did want to do that for a living - and did / do. However, the world has changed and since I am not located in India or China, it's a much harder place to earn a living these days.

Grumfutock

5,274 posts

194 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Wanted to be a soldier so I did until they threw me out 22 years later frown

Other option was well hung porn star. Suffice to say there is no "throw back" blood in the old family line so cant do that one either. Oh DNA thou art a cruel mistress!

knotweed

2,003 posts

205 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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I wanted to be a helicopter pilot. I got no encouragement from my parents so abandoned the idea when I was about 16. I also wanted to be a rally driver because my next-door neighbour was one. I also wanted to be a writer and an artist ... still do smile

rlw

3,583 posts

266 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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The only thing I have ever really wanted to do was join the Merchant Navy and captain a liner but my eyesight let me down.

Photography was my second biggest interest and I actually got a great job with the Post Office Photography Unit who sent me to art school and everything but I just lost interest slowly and walked after two years.

Since then, some 45 years ago, I haven't had a fking clue what I want to do...............

OlberJ

14,101 posts

262 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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Eric Mc said:
Then an astronaut.
Following in your mother's footsteps?

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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She would have been the first female astronaut if she was.

otolith

68,646 posts

233 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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I wanted to be a scientist. A-levels, degree, bit of time as a research assistant, PhD. Ran out of funding before I'd finished writing up. Fell into working in software development. By the time I finished writing up and got my PhD, I couldn't face the pay cut to work in science. I'd also had time as a postgrad to observe what a stty career it is.

mike9009

10,822 posts

272 months

Wednesday 18th June 2014
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I wanted to be an Architect, but flunked my A Levels due to a newly found interest in booze and girls....

So I qualified as a metallurgist and I am engineering manager at a foundry.... not quite what I wanted but not a bad career...

Mike

OlberJ

14,101 posts

262 months

Thursday 19th June 2014
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Eric Mc said:
She would have been the first female astronaut if she was.
Never seen White men can't jump?

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Thursday 19th June 2014
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No.

My mum would have made a good astronaut - pr possibly an even better cosmonaut. Move over Valentina Thereskova - Mrs McLoughlin is taking over.