Taking Parent & Child Parking A Bit Far ?
Taking Parent & Child Parking A Bit Far ?
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snuffy

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13,248 posts

314 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Today in sunny Chester I watched a women park her car in a Parent & Child parking space. There were only 2 people in the car, the driver, a women in her 60s, and the passenger, a women in in 80s. It was a fair bet the women in her 80s was the mother of the driver - so yes, technically they were fine - it was indeed Parent & Child !!

R36vw

451 posts

176 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Ha.ha my mother is a nightmare for this..."can you give us a hand with the shopping." Then parks in the mother and child bays.
She's a mother of 5 with the youngest approaching 30 and done it to all of us.....and we aren't going to argue with her

panholio

1,109 posts

178 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Simpletons. The spaces are for people with young children to provide more space for getting them in and out.

nickofh

604 posts

148 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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snuffy said:
Today in sunny Chester I watched a women park her car in a Parent & Child parking space. There were only 2 people in the car, the driver, a women in her 60s, and the passenger, a women in in 80s. It was a fair bet the women in her 80s was the mother of the driver - so yes, technically they were fine - it was indeed Parent & Child !!
My thoughts on this are that it is perfectly acceptable for an 80 year old to use the parent and child parking. I have taken a gran shopping with she was still with us at the age of 86 , the extra walk in the car park could be a bit much.

With our first on the way I don't think I will change where I park , which is usually out of the way at the bottom , pushing a pram is easy enough and there is usually plenty of space at the bottom of the car park.

Steffan

10,362 posts

258 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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R36vw said:
Ha.ha my mother is a nightmare for this..."can you give us a hand with the shopping." Then parks in the mother and child bays.
She's a mother of 5 with the youngest approaching 30 and done it to all of us.....and we aren't going to argue with her
If you are lucky as I undoubtedly was your Mother becomes your best friend. Absolutely delightful woman with humility, fortiitude and a passion for education that was joy to behold. Glorious lady.

Back on topic the provision of disabled and M&C spaces convenient to the store are really critical to many shoppers. Trouble is there are never enough. Sign of the crowded country we live in I think.

Presuming Ed

1,700 posts

238 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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I'd bet the 80 year old needed the space to get in and out far more then some spotty yute.

Presuming Ed

1,700 posts

238 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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I'd bet the 80 year old needed the space to get in and out far more then some spotty yute.

MrGman

1,664 posts

236 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Presuming Ed said:
I'd bet the 80 year old needed the space to get in and out far more then some spotty yute.
My first thought, I certainly wouldn't get upset had i of seen this.

Sheepshanks

41,045 posts

149 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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snuffy said:
Today in sunny Chester I watched a women park her car in a Parent & Child parking space. There were only 2 people in the car, the driver, a women in her 60s, and the passenger, a women in in 80s. It was a fair bet the women in her 80s was the mother of the driver - so yes, technically they were fine - it was indeed Parent & Child !!
We called in at Asda Huyton and I had a brain-fart and parked in a parent and child row - I'm certain it was a normal size space and didn't think both sides of the row were P&C.

An angry mob quickly formed and I was only saved by the trolley-lad!

nickofh

604 posts

148 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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MrGman said:
Presuming Ed said:
I'd bet the 80 year old needed the space to get in and out far more then some spotty yute.
My first thought, I certainly wouldn't get upset had i of seen this.
Well thank god for you two , when I saw one of the previous posts , something about simpletons. That started to bother me , I used to help my gran get in and out and when we have a child shortly I will be quite capable of pushing a pram from the quiet end of the car park ( where no one really parks next to your pride and joy ). So I definitely think the elderly have a right to use them.

t400ble

1,804 posts

151 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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My Moms about 5ft and 63
I'm 6ft 3 and 33

I park in parent and child spaces, as that's what they are for.

Even the little sign is of me and her.

Riley Blue

23,205 posts

256 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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I used to take my 90 year old Mum shopping and park in a parent and child space to amuse her. Seeing my elderly Mum laugh because her little boy was with her was well worth it.

paranoid airbag

2,679 posts

189 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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IIRC they're normally pretty defined as to what counts as a "child". Usually under 5 and definitely under 18.

OTOH:

Presuming Ed said:
I'd bet the 80 year old needed the space to get in and out far more then some spotty yute.
wot 'e said. Much like the "eco" spaces they're not going to be policed anyway.

Mave

8,217 posts

245 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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nickofh said:
when we have a child shortly I will be quite capable of pushing a pram from the quiet end of the car park ( where no one really parks next to your pride and joy ).
When you've got more than one young child and you end up having to leave one in the pushchair in the road whilst you squeeze the other into the child seat through a 14" gap, you'll realise it's not about distance from the entrance...

Mave

8,217 posts

245 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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t400ble said:
My Moms about 5ft and 63
I'm 6ft 3 and 33

I park in parent and child spaces, as that's what they are for.

Even the little sign is of me and her.
Consider yourself a child do you?

nickofh

604 posts

148 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Mave said:
When you've got more than one young child and you end up having to leave one in the pushchair in the road whilst you squeeze the other into the child seat through a 14" gap, you'll realise it's not about distance from the entrance...
I already realise that its not all about the distance, which I touched on in my previous post. At the bottom of the car park there are usually no cars within the next two or three bays ( at the places I use ) so ample room for getting in / out and keeping children safe.

Not to mention keeping my cars doors from being dinged! :-)

Roo

11,504 posts

237 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Mave said:
nickofh said:
when we have a child shortly I will be quite capable of pushing a pram from the quiet end of the car park ( where no one really parks next to your pride and joy ).
When you've got more than one young child and you end up having to leave one in the pushchair in the road whilst you squeeze the other into the child seat through a 14" gap, you'll realise it's not about distance from the entrance...
Correct, it's nothing about distance to the shop at all.

It's all about drawing in customers.

matty8v

74 posts

158 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Apparently ASDA, Morrisons and Sainsburys all charge for parking in a parent child space if you are not entitled to it. Tescos you might get away with it.

I'm not sure how they police this though.

If there are plenty of P+C spaces available I don't see the drama in people parking in them when they shouldn't be, however, if it's busy people should have the courtesy to leave the spaces for those who really need them, otherwise I think it's quite ignorant.

Mercury00

4,250 posts

186 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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panholio said:
Simpletons. The spaces are for people with young children to provide more space for getting them in and out.
Old people probably need more space getting out than kids do.

matty8v

74 posts

158 months

Saturday 23rd August 2014
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Mercury00 said:
Old people probably need more space getting out than kids do.
Agreed however some supermarkets do also have disabled parking. A single parent trying to deal with kids and shopping all in one go is a flipping epic though and the additional space between car parking spaces does make life a lot easier and you are a lot less likely to accidentally ding someone else's car with your doors getting kids in and out.

One thing that grips my s**t is seeing old people 'making up' their own car parking space on the end of a row next to the supermarket entrance just because they think they should be entitled to because of their age. I think some people forget the concept of personal pride and dignity.