Tips what are your feelings
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paulwd

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206 posts

251 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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What do you think? Do you leave a tip regardless of the level of service you recieve or are you happy to leave nothing if you feel that was what the level of service given deserved,

devnull

3,859 posts

186 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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There are literally zillions of threads about this on PH. Search is your friend!

paulwd

Original Poster:

206 posts

251 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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Good point just lazy and fed up with crap service

andburg

8,720 posts

198 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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We live in the UK where staff have to be paid at least a minimum wage so no I don't.
Abroad where there is no minimum wage or a low minimum wage and then yes I tip, just returned from morocco where the minimum wage imposed is less than £1/hr when converted.

jep

1,183 posts

238 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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paulwd said:
devnull said:
There are literally zillions of threads about this on PH. Search is your friend!
Good point just lazy and fed up with crap service
hehe well, I'm definitely not tipping the OP then...

andburg

8,720 posts

198 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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thelittleegg said:
I assume that when you say abroad do you also include London?
I stay away that rat infested self important hellhole

Shaolin

2,955 posts

218 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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I rarely tip, if I do it's often just rounding up and no more than 2 or 3 pounds. 10% or so can be an additional hours pay or more for serving just one table, they are being paid already as mentioned.

red_slr

20,646 posts

218 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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10% if the service is good.
If its bad then nothing.

soad

34,627 posts

205 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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NordicCrankShaft

1,956 posts

144 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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Depends what sort of establishment it is, if it's one ofbtjese places where you have to go and order your own food and the like then rarely will I tip but if I'm out for proper food I always tip having worked in the industry I can appreciate the money is crap.

My biggest gripe with tipping again having worked as a chef they hardly ever declare it as taxable income.

H.....

483 posts

176 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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Purity14 said:
I do not tip.

The Waiter/Waitress is paid by the restaurant to present me with a menu, take my order, and to bring out my food.

I pay what it says on the menu, or if the prices aren't on the menu, then the price on the bill.
What do you do if (on the menu) it says "service charge included 12.5%"?

paulwirral

3,815 posts

164 months

Tuesday 11th August 2015
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H..... said:
What do you do if (on the menu) it says "service charge included 12.5%"?
Deduct it from the total and pay only for your food , leave a cash tip to your server if you think they deserve it .

zygalski

7,759 posts

174 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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I tip cash. About 10% if service & food is average, up to 20% if it's excellent. Nothing if it falls short.

GT03ROB

14,019 posts

250 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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Purity14 said:
I do not tip.

The Waiter/Waitress is paid by the restaurant to present me with a menu, take my order, and to bring out my food.

I pay what it says on the menu, or if the prices aren't on the menu, then the price on the bill.
So we all have a different expectations. Sounds a pretty characterless experience you are looking for. Must be fun being out for a meal.

grumbledoak

32,562 posts

262 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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These days I tip, but in cash.

I like the Japanese "chase you down the street with your change" approach. The French "pourboire" was a nice custom too - not a tip, just 10c per table so they could get a free drink at the end of the day. All changing courtesy of our American friends spreading their absence of culture worldwide.

HTP99

25,125 posts

169 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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The wife; having worked as a waitress in her early years, will always tip, regardless.

Me; I tip if the service is good; had a lovely Indian meal in Westminster earlier on in the year and the service was impeccable, both the waitress and front of house manager were very friendly and seemed genuinely interested when we were chatting to them, I left a decent tip.

The miserable girl in Pizza Express was left nothing, the wife did have a whinge at me for not doing so, but even she said she was miserable; why leave a tip then.

What really gets on my tits though; we were at an evening wedding reception last weekend, whilst queueing at the bar a guy behind us in the queue let us know that a 12.5% "discretionary service charge" is automatically added to the bill so ask for it to be removed. 12.5% to pour a fking massively overpriced drink; 2 JD and Cokes and a glass of Rose' were £26.00 with the "service charge" removed, the cheek.

227bhp

10,203 posts

157 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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HTP99 said:
The miserable girl in Pizza Express was left nothing, the wife did have a whinge at me for not doing so, but even she said she was miserable; why leave a tip then.
If she was having a bad day then a few quid and someone caring might have helped cheer her up.

That aside, God not the weekly 'do you tip thread' again, OP, I leave you 2p. banghead

GT03ROB

14,019 posts

250 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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Purity14 said:
GT03ROB said:
Purity14 said:
I do not tip.

The Waiter/Waitress is paid by the restaurant to present me with a menu, take my order, and to bring out my food.

I pay what it says on the menu, or if the prices aren't on the menu, then the price on the bill.
So we all have a different expectations. Sounds a pretty characterless experience you are looking for. Must be fun being out for a meal.
If I put a £10 note down on the table moments before we leave, would we have had a better dining experience?
Would it now be full of character, would you have had more fun should I have done that?

When does the fun begin; after I tip? Or before?
My comment was aimed at your expectations not your tipping or otherwise. You describe a bland soulless experience as your expectation. Functional but nothing more. If I received your description then there would be no tip. The basic service you describe is included in the meal price for me as you say. Somebody offers more than that they get extra, a tip. If I get the basic service I won't be back either.

dazco

4,281 posts

218 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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andburg said:
We live in the UK where staff have to be paid at least a minimum wage so no I don't.
Abroad where there is no minimum wage or a low minimum wage and then yes I tip, just returned from morocco where the minimum wage imposed is less than £1/hr when converted.
Do you live on minimum wage?

dazco

4,281 posts

218 months

Wednesday 12th August 2015
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grumbledoak said:
These days I tip, but in cash.

I like the Japanese "chase you down the street with your change" approach. The French "pourboire" was a nice custom too - not a tip, just 10c per table so they could get a free drink at the end of the day. All changing courtesy of our American friends spreading their absence of culture worldwide.
Tipping is an English custom and has spread from England