My sister is marrying a "holiday romance" Turkish waiter
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Oh this has Jeremy Kyle all over it!
My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
What the hell goes on in these women's heads? Does she imagine the home office are going to let him in? It beggars belief - is Turkey just full of these young chaps that prey on insecure older women? "You have such beautiful eyes" "You only woman for me" "I never met anyone like you" "I wait for you and never touch another wonam".
This isn't the type of thing I usually post on PH as it's of a personal nature but I'm simply gobsmacked at her gullibility. What the hell is she smoking?
A quick Google brings up no end of these stupid women...
https://www.google.co.uk/search?site=&source=h...
My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
What the hell goes on in these women's heads? Does she imagine the home office are going to let him in? It beggars belief - is Turkey just full of these young chaps that prey on insecure older women? "You have such beautiful eyes" "You only woman for me" "I never met anyone like you" "I wait for you and never touch another wonam".
This isn't the type of thing I usually post on PH as it's of a personal nature but I'm simply gobsmacked at her gullibility. What the hell is she smoking?
A quick Google brings up no end of these stupid women...
https://www.google.co.uk/search?site=&source=h...
I've always thought it is an age thing perhaps, women get to a certain age and start to panic they will never get married/be alone forever so anyone that pays them compliments suddenly becomes the love of their life, just look at the amount of women who go bankrupt sending money abroad to their younger 'lovers' who often end up being married or in a relationship with a girl from their own country anyway
The fact they are getting married means that probably isn't the case, maybe Turkish boys just like English women?
The fact they are getting married means that probably isn't the case, maybe Turkish boys just like English women?
I'm connected to a girl on facebook from my school days who has just married a Turkish bloke and seems very happy, but I also remember posts from her a while back complaining that he wasn't allowed into this country; she's now moved out there to live with him. Is your sister aware that in order to be together, he's unlikely to be able to join her here? On the other hand, if she's only really interested in earning money for holidays, maybe she quite fancies living out in Turkey with him?
Dog Star said:
Oh this has Jeremy Kyle all over it!
My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
What the hell goes on in these women's heads? Does she imagine the home office are going to let him in?
It's possible, there's a process for it. My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
What the hell goes on in these women's heads? Does she imagine the home office are going to let him in?
My sister married an Algerian guy, he had to go through a load of stuff as he was a bit illegal at the time they got together. He sorted it out and eventually got British citizenship, though it took a while after they were married to get there. He still has problems with travel to some places, but mostly it's fine.
He pays taxes and does the same things as anyone else would.
Your sister could actually want to do the things she's doing. You could support her and hope she's happy, and be there for her if it all goes pinky ponky. Or you could be bitter and twisted about the whole thing, make out that you're ashamed of her and call her a dumb f
k, then laugh at her mistakes. Up to you I guess. Whilst the majority are probably in it to get to this country or get some money it does sometimes work out.
One of my friends in childhood (our mums were close friends) met one whilst on a family holiday in Turkey, romance occurred (unfortunately it did destroy a marriage) when they got back she booked a flight to go back almost immediately.
He then moved here for about two years then they including the children all moved to Australia, this was about 14 years ago and they all seem extremely happy.
Only downside is that the lads have only seen their dad maybe once or twice in that period which is a shame as I only have good memories of him and he seemed like a nice guy.
One of my friends in childhood (our mums were close friends) met one whilst on a family holiday in Turkey, romance occurred (unfortunately it did destroy a marriage) when they got back she booked a flight to go back almost immediately.
He then moved here for about two years then they including the children all moved to Australia, this was about 14 years ago and they all seem extremely happy.
Only downside is that the lads have only seen their dad maybe once or twice in that period which is a shame as I only have good memories of him and he seemed like a nice guy.
My mates mum married one, he has lived over here for about 10 years, nice enough chap, works 20 hours a week for the council.
My mate said he was not bothered as his mum had no money and lived in a council house so theirs nothing for him to con her out of - well maybe her life insurance.
My mate said he was not bothered as his mum had no money and lived in a council house so theirs nothing for him to con her out of - well maybe her life insurance.
A friend of mine started dating a turkish hospital porter where she worked. Within two days, Russell (like fk was that his actual name), had bought her a mobile and was already starting to control her.
To make matters worse, we double dated once and when he followed my Girlfriend and I to the restaurant he had his front fog lights on. and it wasn't foggy. I was told off for flashing my rear foglight at him.
k was that his actual name), had bought her a mobile and was already starting to control her. To make matters worse, we double dated once and when he followed my Girlfriend and I to the restaurant he had his front fog lights on. and it wasn't foggy. I was told off for flashing my rear foglight at him.
My dad and his wife moved to Turkey (a really quiet beautiful part, not Bodrum or one of those st-holes) and we always joked about her 'running off with a Turk'.
Low and behold, 2 years in, she (at 65) moves out with a 35 y/o Turk, into a house she pays for. Oh yeah, and she has also 'lent' him some money to set up a business, which he promises to pay back.
He doesn't live with her during the summer really, he spends his time living with mates near his shop in a more touristy area. Comes home during the winter for food and a roof over his head.
I hope it works for your sister. I also hope it works for my step-mother, as I don't want her to go back anywhere near my old man!
Although it won't.
t-holes) and we always joked about her 'running off with a Turk'.Low and behold, 2 years in, she (at 65) moves out with a 35 y/o Turk, into a house she pays for. Oh yeah, and she has also 'lent' him some money to set up a business, which he promises to pay back.
He doesn't live with her during the summer really, he spends his time living with mates near his shop in a more touristy area. Comes home during the winter for food and a roof over his head.
I hope it works for your sister. I also hope it works for my step-mother, as I don't want her to go back anywhere near my old man!
Although it won't.
Dog Star said:
She's very bright but
Oh no she's not!Oh dear, oh dear. Sadly, middle age women deprived of love, attention and sex (or lack, thereof) are easy targets for these Turkish gigolos.
Let's hope all us sceptics are wrong.....hang on, just getting a call from Cameron Diaz inviting me out for a night of??????????, shut the front door.
Dog Star said:
Oh this has Jeremy Kyle all over it!
My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
Would it be better if it was your sister writing something like this.My sister is in her mid-40s, about 5'11", slim blonde. You lot can't have pictures but she is very attractive.
She is also incredibly childish and naive sometimes. She's very bright but just holds down a very crappy job which is solely to fund holidays. To cut a long story short she met a Turkish waiter on holiday a couple of years ago. He's been over here once, seems nice enough, but he's (surprise surprise) half her age, muslim for what that matters. My dad wouldn't even meet the guy.
So she went off to Turkey again yesterday and I've just found out that it is to marry this guy.
My brother is in his mid-40's tall , dark , reasonably good looking.............he's went off to Turkey and come back with a Turkish girl half his age. Mum's in tears as she hates the idea but they've just announced they are going getting married.
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To the OP
my sister did exactly the same as yours -(dumb bint)
the turkish husband was allowed into the UK - this was about 5 years ago - couldn't settle and fked off back to turkey after about 2 years , I think she's still married to him. (third husband lol)
clever girl but not much 'common sense'
my sister did exactly the same as yours -(dumb bint)
the turkish husband was allowed into the UK - this was about 5 years ago - couldn't settle and f
ked off back to turkey after about 2 years , I think she's still married to him. (third husband lol)clever girl but not much 'common sense'
Bellatrix said:
Would it be better if it was your sister writing something like this.
My brother is in his mid-40's tall , dark , reasonably good looking.............he's went off to Turkey and come back with a Turkish girl half his age. Mum's in tears as she hates the idea but they've just announced they are going getting married.
Wouldn't happen, because I'm not a mug. I'm also not so stupid as to think that a woman in her 20s is going to be the remotest bit interested in me. I'd also like to protect my assets. I'd also not like to look like an idiot in front of friends and family who would all be facepalming.My brother is in his mid-40's tall , dark , reasonably good looking.............he's went off to Turkey and come back with a Turkish girl half his age. Mum's in tears as she hates the idea but they've just announced they are going getting married.
The above would apply to anyone.
It would apply 100 times more strongly if the internet and papers were absolutely full of stories of similar mugs.
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