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Lostprophet

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2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Hi Gents,

Someone on FB posted a picture of a vandalized statue of Churchill. I responded by saying I dont agree with his political views however vandalising the statue is unacceptable.

This chap responds to me with abuse, we get into a few message exchanges, which I end up reporting to FB as they were abusive. FB later remove his posts.

This chap then tracks me down on LinkedIn and emails my directors at work and sends screenshots of the posts. I personally do not see anything wrong with what I wrote. Unfortunately it was posted when I was taking a breather, i.e. a break so its company time. Anyway he then go and posts on FB where I work and what he did, i.e. email the directors of the business.

I was appauled by this. I was able to see where he worked as he viewed my profile and his details came up. I called his employers, spoke to the PA of the HR director and explained their employee is subjecting to me abuse on their company time. They advised me they will investigate.

I am outraged. I do feel maybe I shouldn't have contacted their HR department. What would you do if you were me?

davepoth

29,395 posts

230 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Have a think about your company's IT policy before posting inflammatory comments on Facebook on company time, I think.

Adenauer

18,982 posts

267 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I don't suppose that now they know you post on FB during company time they'll have a look on PH will they?

As for the other bloke, he sounds like a complete and utter cocksocket.

Johnnytheboy

24,499 posts

217 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Didn't he say he was on a break?

jmorgan

36,010 posts

315 months

Lostprophet

Original Poster:

2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I don't think there are any IT policies on this. I haven't seen any or signed any agreement when I joined.

I did not think they are inflammatory comments but i guess someone might not like me saying I don't agree with Churchill's views.

It works out his employment details on LinkedIn are old.

Anyway I guess I should turn my notifications off on my phone and not post during office hours.

Check out his comments:

First Comment:
Ian Thomas- Don't worry Dave, I am just waiting for a reply to my email that I sent to the directors of xxxx in the Netherlands with a screen shot of this post asking if they agree with this sentiment. You know how grateful the Dutch were for Churchills war effort after being occupied from 1939.


Second Comment:
Ian Thomas- Thought this might be useful. https://www.gov.uk/contact-jobcentre-plus

TTwiggy

11,884 posts

235 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I thought it was just unemployed single mothers from Croydon who got into a 'beef' on Facebook?

JungleJim

2,430 posts

243 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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you emailed each others employers? Over something on facebook?

Is this for real?

Eric Mc

125,873 posts

296 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Facebook - fun for all.

eldar

25,341 posts

227 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Lostprophet said:
Hi Gents,

Someone on FB posted a picture of a vandalized statue of Churchill. I responded by saying I dont agree with his political views however vandalising the statue is unacceptable.

This chap responds to me with abuse, we get into a few message exchanges, which I end up reporting to FB as they were abusive. FB later remove his posts.

This chap then tracks me down on LinkedIn and emails my directors at work and sends screenshots of the posts. I personally do not see anything wrong with what I wrote. Unfortunately it was posted when I was taking a breather, i.e. a break so its company time. Anyway he then go and posts on FB where I work and what he did, i.e. email the directors of the business.

I was appauled by this. I was able to see where he worked as he viewed my profile and his details came up. I called his employers, spoke to the PA of the HR director and explained their employee is subjecting to me abuse on their company time. They advised me they will investigate.

I am outraged. I do feel maybe I shouldn't have contacted their HR department. What would you do if you were me?
Avoid facebook and choose your friends a little more carefully?

CaptainSlow

13,179 posts

243 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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<Eric>The Netherlands were occupied from 1940. </Eric>

StevieBee

15,478 posts

286 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Eric Mc said:
Facebook - fun for all.
Quite.

OP: Best form of defence on this is do nothing. Don't respond in any way despite the burning desire to do so.

I've often likened Facebook to a gun; Benign but useful in the right hands for the right reasons but let the nutters and numpties loose with it....

Simple rules:

Friends with your friends - people who you have physically met and know well
Post only things that are interesting, funny or useful

...and that's it.

Lostprophet

Original Poster:

2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Stevie, you are so so right. I was waiting, like a sado for 6pm, to post this:


"Ian your behavior is disgraceful. What sort of person stalks someone, finds out where they work by going onto LinkedIn and then proceeds to email directors? You are nothing short of a weasel.

My views are not a reflection of my employers. I do not state where I work on Facebook either. Directors may have other views on Churchill. It has no bearing on my views.

I stand by my view, Churchill was a racist, and there is plenty of evidence to suggest this. I furthermore I stand by my opening comments. I do not agree with any public property being defaced, even if it is Churchill."

But... I wont now. I think you are right. This Ian chap is a fool.



Edited by Lostprophet on Thursday 12th November 18:05

Lostprophet

Original Poster:

2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I get lured into discussions, which is my weakness, so I guess the advice is good. I will avoid these type of confrontations.

I didn't email his employer... I dont know where he works!

Rollin

6,338 posts

276 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Lostprophet said:
I get lured into discussions, which is my weakness, so I guess the advice is good. I will avoid these type of confrontations.

I didn't email his employer... I dont know where he works!
Lostprophet said:
I was able to see where he worked as he viewed my profile and his details came up. I called his employers, spoke to the PA of the HR director and explained their employee is subjecting to me abuse on their company time. They advised me they will investigate.
confused

CoolHands

23,673 posts

226 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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You should be sacked for being a pleb.


Lostprophet

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2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I called his company in the hope of speaking to him. Wanted to know why he emailed my posts to the directors.

The reception asked why I wanted to speak to this guy. They forwarded me to the HR department. I guess because he wasn't working there.

Considering he contacted my employers I am I think within my rights to speak to him!

Thanks for the troll comments. Helpful.

Edited by Lostprophet on Thursday 12th November 18:32

BrabusMog

21,818 posts

217 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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This is something I expect a 14 year old to ask about. Not a grown man FFS!

Lostprophet

Original Poster:

2,549 posts

200 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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I think essentially, that is why I asked, what would you do.

I felt annoyed he contacted senior directors. What would you have done?

DuraAce

4,272 posts

191 months

Thursday 12th November 2015
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Delete Facebook. Its just pointless.