Is David Beckham the nicest man in the world?
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He's definitely always struck me as being one of the good guys.
It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical
It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical

I have a distant friend who did some security "guarding" for the family. DB was a really nice guy and would chat and tell jokes just like any bloke. Other half was v formal and insisted she was addressed as Mrs Beckham and no first names were permitted to be used by any of the staff.
TheJimi said:
It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
I fully agree. Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
Like when he signed for PSG and instantly declared he was giving a chunk of his wages to charity, why even mention it unless he was getting something out of it?
Tuvra said:
I fully agree.
Like when he signed for PSG and instantly declared he was giving a chunk of his wages to charity, why even mention it unless he was getting something out of it?
Because it makes news headlines around the world and provides publicity for the charity, encouraging other to donate?Like when he signed for PSG and instantly declared he was giving a chunk of his wages to charity, why even mention it unless he was getting something out of it?
If anyone asks, I'd tell them that I donate every month to the Samaritans because I'd like people to know about the charity and maybe think about donating to it (or another one).
I'm not sure what he would get out of it though. A sense of helping? Warm glow inside? Why would you deny him or anyone else that?
Millions of people donate, these people who donate will donate what they can afford, be it £5 or £500,000 or £5mill or their wages.
If I had £200mill I also wouldn't mind paying £30 grand here and there for life saving operations for kids but it's out of my reach at the moment. Same for most of us.
Edited by PAULJ5555 on Tuesday 2nd February 12:27
TheJimi said:
He's definitely always struck me as being one of the good guys.
It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical
I once bought ice cream for the day-guard shift on a frighteningly hot day (for Britain, it was probably 25 degrees). There was no thought in my mind about what I might get out of it, I just drove through the gate on my way to do my OO rounds and saw the state they were in, so did what I could to help.It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical

I don't see why Becks would behave any differently.
Of course there's the other angle that this won't be a one-off. This isn't the only small gesture of kindness he's made. Others will have gone unreported, known only to himself and the beneficiary.
Ask yourself this. Are you capable of entirely selfless acts of kindness? Chucking a quid into a busker's cap, helping a nanna cross the road, loosening the wheelnuts on a small man's stricken car. If no, proceed straight to hospital. If yes, then why are you different from Becks?
Cynical fine. Aliens at Roswell, the CIA assassinating Kennedy, the moon landings filmed in Nevada, all fine things about which to be cynical. But to assume that human kindness ceases to exist the minute someone has more money than your average Joe? Come on.
ferrariF50lover said:
TheJimi said:
He's definitely always struck me as being one of the good guys.
It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical
I once bought ice cream for the day-guard shift on a frighteningly hot day (for Britain, it was probably 25 degrees). There was no thought in my mind about what I might get out of it, I just drove through the gate on my way to do my OO rounds and saw the state they were in, so did what I could to help.It's equally hard not to be cynical about stuff like this, because it's essentially free positive publicity for him.
Did he do it without really thinking about it, or did he do it considering the upside?
It sucks being cynical

I don't see why Becks would behave any differently.
Of course there's the other angle that this won't be a one-off. This isn't the only small gesture of kindness he's made. Others will have gone unreported, known only to himself and the beneficiary.
Ask yourself this. Are you capable of entirely selfless acts of kindness? Chucking a quid into a busker's cap, helping a nanna cross the road, loosening the wheelnuts on a small man's stricken car. If no, proceed straight to hospital. If yes, then why are you different from Becks?
Cynical fine. Aliens at Roswell, the CIA assassinating Kennedy, the moon landings filmed in Nevada, all fine things about which to be cynical. But to assume that human kindness ceases to exist the minute someone has more money than your average Joe? Come on.
Thing is, I'm not arguably the most famous guy in the world; a brand in my own right. Beckham IS that person. As soon as he does something like this, it ceases to become simply a nice gesture and becomes "look what Beckham did" - which is exactly what happened here.
I'd love to believe that he bought the coffee/tea selflessly and without any thought, but I have my doubts.
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