Can I Get........
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IN51GHT

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9,073 posts

241 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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This really bugs me and has for some time.

Standing in the queue to but a coffee this morning and no joke, every single person ahead of me said "can I get". Notice it all over the place these days.

I'm not old fashioned but surely it should be "Can I please have", Please can I have, or " may I please have".

If it were me behind the counter confronted with a "can I get" I'd say "of course and then serve the next customer. The inevitable "where's my coffee" would come along to which the response would be "oh, I thought you were getting it"


227bhp

10,203 posts

159 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Jesus Christ do I get sick of reading this kind of st constantly on PH, stick it in the 'Annoys me beyond reason' thread and leave it there FFS.

Impasse

15,099 posts

272 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Can I get far too many dots for my ellipsis please? Thanks........

Ari

19,828 posts

246 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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227bhp said:
Jesus Christ do I get sick of reading this kind of st constantly on PH, stick it in the 'Annoys me beyond reason' thread and leave it there FFS.
Why are you asking us, don't you know? confused

227bhp

10,203 posts

159 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Ari said:
227bhp said:
Jesus Christ do I get sick of reading this kind of st constantly on PH, stick it in the 'Annoys me beyond reason' thread and leave it there FFS.
Why are you asking us, don't you know? confused
I do. wink

vetrof

3,044 posts

204 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Language evolves, who'da thunk it?

sly fox

2,437 posts

250 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Think of it this way:

The Phrase you mention does not annoy you, you let it annoy you. It's your problem not theirs, life is too short to worry about stupid stuff like how someone may ask for their coffee. And then posting it on an internet forum.

Re "can i get" No - i don't like Americanisms creeping into our language either, but there is not much you can do about it.

J4CKO

47,022 posts

231 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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I saw this evolving in action, was on a course in London and all the Londonites said it, there was this spod from the back end of beyond and he clocked them saying it and started saying it, he sounded like Harry Enfield as Kevin the teenager doing his posh voice.

It evolves but doesnt mean it doesnt annoy, I think if you are over 40 then you will probably just grumble about it and never say it, unless you are pretending to be "down with the kids".

It does pale into insignificance compared to the whole "Brought" thing, "I brought a new car", that is just wrong, that isnt evolving, that is regressing, Bought = purchased and brought is the past tense of bring, to convey, to come with.

Neil H

15,418 posts

282 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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There are special threads for just these kind of complaints.

NiceCupOfTea

25,607 posts

282 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Neil H said:
There are special threads for just these kind of complaints.
Do we have a "complaining about complaints" thread? silly

xjay1337

15,966 posts

149 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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It mildly irriates me also.

"Can I get ...."


vixen1700

29,287 posts

301 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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anonymous-user

85 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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vetrof said:
Language evolves, who'da thunk it?
/thread.

cheesesliceking

1,577 posts

271 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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J4CKO said:
I saw this evolving in action, was on a course in London and all the Londonites said it, there was this spod from the back end of beyond and he clocked them saying it and started saying it, he sounded like Harry Enfield as Kevin the teenager doing his posh voice.

It evolves but doesnt mean it doesnt annoy, I think if you are over 40 then you will probably just grumble about it and never say it, unless you are pretending to be "down with the kids".

It does pale into insignificance compared to the whole "Brought" thing, "I brought a new car", that is just wrong, that isnt evolving, that is regressing, Bought = purchased and brought is the past tense of bring, to convey, to come with.
WTF is a SPOD?

Ari

19,828 posts

246 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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Is stupid people unable to understand (or simply uncaring of) what they're actually saying really a language evolving though? Or is it just the hard of thinking trotting out what they heard on telly without actually thinking about what it is they are saying.

Bit like lose and loose, plenty of stupid people write 'heads you win, tails you loose' but that's not language evolvement, it's just stupid people getting it wrong.

jr6yam

1,363 posts

214 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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cheesesliceking said:
WTF is a SPOD?
A dim witted person

Quhet

2,954 posts

177 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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I must confess I say "Please can I get a ...", I've got a slight stammer though and I find it easier to ask for things like that as it is consistent and I don't struggle for the words boxedin

Goaty Bill 2

3,595 posts

150 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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I hate it so much I taught myself to stop saying it years ago.

That said, go back 30 years to when "the <requested item> is off" was such a common response from waiting staff in pubs and restaurants, there may have been a certain validity in asking "can I get?", as it asked the real question.

NiceCupOfTea

25,607 posts

282 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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jr6yam said:
cheesesliceking said:
WTF is a SPOD?
A dim witted person
Not a new term. I first heard it in 1993 - seemed to refer to nerdy/geeky people. Using computers for online MUGs, messageboards, etc. was "spodding". In fact in our house now it's general internet browsing.

zoom star

519 posts

182 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2016
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The other Americanism flooding in over my counter these days is.''have a nice day''as well as the ''can I get''