daughter , ears pinned back
daughter , ears pinned back
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davidc1

Original Poster:

1,644 posts

191 months

Tuesday 17th May 2016
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Has anyone got experience of having this done , or a family member? My daughter is 8 and she needs to have the procedure.she has inherited my lug holes unfortunately....
I have private medical cover which I will add her to , so that I can get it done.
Thanks.

Crush

15,078 posts

198 months

Tuesday 17th May 2016
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My sister had it done about 24 years ago. I think the short term slight pain (and bandage turban) were worth it as she looked like a SETI array. If her ears had stayed at their original orientation, I dread to think of the emotional trouble she'd have had through bullying frown

My sister was a bit younger than your daughter, but the surgeon demonstrated the procedure on her favourite toy bunny (including bandage) during the pre-op talk which put her mind at ease.

-Michael-

4,079 posts

204 months

Tuesday 17th May 2016
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I had this done when I was a child, about 16 years ago, my parents had enough of the bullying I had suffered as a child and the effect it had on me, you cant tell I've had it done unless I told you

ClaphamGT3

12,232 posts

272 months

Tuesday 17th May 2016
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We're about to have our 6 year-old daughter's ears done. We're going for the clip method, where they insert a metal clip into the ear, rather than the traditional pinning method. I'll speak to Mrs Clapham and get some details if you're interested.

davidc1

Original Poster:

1,644 posts

191 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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Thanks for the replies all.
Gt3 , if you would be good enough to pm the details , this would be terrific.
David.

GroundEffect

13,864 posts

185 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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Seriously, cosmetic surgery on someone less than 10 years old?

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steveT350C

6,728 posts

190 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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A summary on Great Ormond Street's website....

http://www.gosh.nhs.uk/medical-information-0/proce...

pushthebutton

1,099 posts

211 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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GroundEffect said:
Seriously, cosmetic surgery on someone less than 10 years old?

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Yes, most definitely.

A friend had it done whilst we were at primary school and it's had a huge impact on his life in his own words. IMO, in some cases, there's more to it than simple vanity.

-Michael-

4,079 posts

204 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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GroundEffect said:
Seriously, cosmetic surgery on someone less than 10 years old?

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You underestimate what bullying can do to a person, especially a child

dandarez

14,010 posts

312 months

Wednesday 18th May 2016
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If she is having problems, taunts etc, then yes, but ONLY if she is in agreement, no pressure on her.

If no problems of taunting etc, from someone born jug ears! I'd say a massive, big NO to otoplasty!

Leave it till she is old enough to decide for herself.
Most girls (obviously not all) will grow their hair long, effectively hiding their ears.
Most boys don't fall into this category. Doesn't stop you having a problem with them, of course, either way.

Remember, you are never too old to have corrective ear surgery.
One famous footballer, none other than ex Spurs, Real Madrid and Wales, Gareth Bale had his done while at Spurs.

All surgery, even simple procedures, carry risk.

Multitudes of people, rich, famous, indifferent, live with jug ears.
Multitudes have them altered. There are non-surgery options of clips, plastic and adhesive. Usually rip off cost.

If you're not squeamish, have a look. What amazes me is I wouldn't call those ears big ...at all!
But then cosmetic surgery is BIG money!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oS0xrnYUJ0

When I was a kid I used to get called really nasty names.
My way out then, to these mugs who called me 'jugs' was to give them a good thump, no docs or surgery for me, this was far more satisfying. Don't worry, I did grow up! LOL




Edited by dandarez on Wednesday 18th May 21:49

j4ckos mate

3,431 posts

199 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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My mum got mine done,
my grandfather on my dads side had a head ling a wingnut,

only thing i will say is dont let her scratch them, i did and a little bit of gristle is visible underneath the skin above the earlobe.
mine was nhs it was years ago when we used to have one





ClaphamGT3

12,232 posts

272 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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John D.

20,958 posts

238 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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A mate of mine had it done in his mid to late twenties. Can't recall anyone taking the possibility out of his ears (I didn't go to school with him, but have known him since we were around 14-15).

I think it made him look odd.

Evolved

4,079 posts

216 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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John D. said:
A mate of mine had it done in his mid to late twenties. Can't recall anyone taking the possibility out of his ears (I didn't go to school with him, but have known him since we were around 14-15).

I think it made him look odd.
Well anything that changes a persons appearance compared to what you're used to would look 'odd' initially but it's something you'd grow to not even notice after a while, then looking back you'd think the original was odd looking.

I'm sure he probably felt more confident in himself though.

John D.

20,958 posts

238 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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Nope. He still looks odd!

Completely didn't need it doing.

Evolved

4,079 posts

216 months

Thursday 19th May 2016
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John D. said:
Nope. He still looks odd!

Completely didn't need it doing.
Top mate laugh

anonymous-user

83 months

Sunday 22nd May 2016
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Best mate had it done at school, I went to visit him the day after and he was fine, his bandages were so OTT he looked like Toad from Mario kart.
Perfect ammunition for childhood ribbing.