Lost my Dad - Some advice please regarding will.
Lost my Dad - Some advice please regarding will.
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MarshPhantom

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9,658 posts

167 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Great start to the New Year, my Dad died last Sunday. He told me he'd made his will and appointed an executor, so I've been to see him today. Very surprised the solicitor had absolutely no idea about my Dad's assets or what would be coming my way. It's all coming to me (as an only child) but he didn't know what. It's going to be around £30k I guess, one way or another, but I'm shocked he has nothing on record about exactly what or why. I don't exactly know myself.

Is this in any way normal, as it feels like rather poor practice. It was almost completely pointless going to see the chap.




227bhp

10,203 posts

158 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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I was in a similar situation recently (except i'm getting nothing) I had to go to his bank to sign the forms, can you contact them and ask?

MarshPhantom

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9,658 posts

167 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Sorry for your loss, been to my Dad's house and filled the car with paperwork that I need to go through. I don't even know who he banked with.

Slushbox

1,484 posts

135 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Sorry to hear of your loss.

Executor wouldn't know about assets unless specifically informed. What Exec. will do is set up a probate account, inform interested parties like bank, close various services like council tax. gas/elec and so on, and eventually provide a final account for beneficiaries and IRS. So expect exec. fees.

It can take some months to inform all parties, get final probate values on account, pay bills, and so forth. It's worth keeping every scrap of paper, as stuff appears out of nowhere for months/years afterwards.

Sheepshanks

41,218 posts

149 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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languagetimothy said:
Sometimes it can be quite high or perhaps worse, a percentage Based on the estate total value,
If it really is a £30K estate then a percentage may well be cheaper.

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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It's perfectly normal.

I am still finding stuff my father had and he died over 2 years ago.

MarshPhantom

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9,658 posts

167 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Thanks for all the replies so far. Most helpful.

I think my Dad may have paid whatever fee there was already.

Much appreciated.

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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MarshPhantom said:
Thanks for all the replies so far. Most helpful.

I think my Dad may have paid whatever fee there was already.

Much appreciated.
You really need to check that, as that wouldn't be usual.


MarshPhantom

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167 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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languagetimothy said:
Just to ask, so the solicitor was named by your father and is acting as executor?
Yes, that's correct. I should at least ask what the fees may be.

don4l

10,058 posts

206 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Sorry for your loss.

My father passed away a few years ago. It took over two years to track down everything, and we cannot be sure that we did actually find everything.

I would also be surprised if the executor's fees were pre-paid. I would check into this as soon as possible.


MarshPhantom

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Friday 13th January 2017
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Sheepshanks said:
languagetimothy said:
Sometimes it can be quite high or perhaps worse, a percentage Based on the estate total value,
If it really is a £30K estate then a percentage may well be cheaper.
AFAIK it's roughly £20k life insurance, a few thousand pounds worth of Premium Bonds and a bit of money in a couple of bank accounts.

He owned his own house but "owes" £160k on that, and I can't see it going for much more than that.

MarshPhantom

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Friday 13th January 2017
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Cheers Don4L.


Robertj21a

18,009 posts

135 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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MarshPhantom said:
Great start to the New Year, my Dad died last Sunday. He told me he'd made his will and appointed an executor, so I've been to see him today. Very surprised the solicitor had absolutely no idea about my Dad's assets or what would be coming my way. It's all coming to me (as an only child) but he didn't know what. It's going to be around £30k I guess, one way or another, but I'm shocked he has nothing on record about exactly what or why. I don't exactly know myself.

Is this in any way normal, as it feels like rather poor practice. It was almost completely pointless going to see the chap.
Sorry to hear your sad news.

The executor will not normally need to know much about the finances of the individual, that's not what they are there for. The executor is there to ensure that the Will, once proved to be valid, is dealt with in accordance with the wishes outlined therein by the deceased. His role will finish once he has ensured that all of the instructions have been complied with, and all debts/fees/charges have been paid.

The details of Bank/savings accounts/Premium Bonds will need to be provided by whoever has access to that information (presumably you?)- along with details of the house/mortgage etc.

The whole procedure may take as little as, say, 2 months or can be very lengthy if there are any problems, disputes or the house has to be sold before proceeds can be distributed.

I'm sure others on here can help you find your way - it's not difficult stuff, but can be time consuming and frustrating.

MarshPhantom

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Friday 13th January 2017
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Thanks Robert, most informative. I don't really have a clue what needs to be done.

Damp Logs

990 posts

164 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Once you have confirmed the solicitors charges, you could take on the role of executor if the solicitor is agreeable.
If your fathers assets are as you think, the process of probate is straightforward and the forms are on the web.
Are you sure you are the only beneficiary?
It took over three years to sort my dads estate, but was largely due to dispute with brothers

Good luck

MarshPhantom

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167 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Damp Logs said:
Are you sure you are the only beneficiary?
Yes, that was the only thing the solicitor confirmed really. Anything happens to me and it goes to my girlfriend. Buried my Mum last Christmas and no children of my own.

Mr-B

5,109 posts

224 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Sorry for your loss.

Th solicitor is likely to charge a %age of total estate value (ask for a quote) and if the estate is small (£30k is small) there may be a minimum fee (poss £1000+) You could try and do it yourself (you will need the solicitor to renounce his position as exec where he may try and persuade you otherwise due to him losing a potential fee) or try googling for probate brokers, they will try and get a lower quote, you may be able to save a hefty chunk on the fees this way (still expect to pay £500++) Or look for Trust Corporations that work on fixed fees for probate work.

Also the solicitor or any other professional exec is likely to take 6 months or more, if you know what you are doing it can be done a lot quicker than that. There are only 2 forms to fill in (probate and tax return, tax being the more difficult ) but the bulk of the time comes from tracing assets.

elanfan

5,527 posts

257 months

Friday 13th January 2017
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Administer it yourself, if you have the time it's not difficult just take your time.

Regarding the house, I presume it's mortgaged? Wonder how he managed to get close to 100% of the value owing? Anyway get the mortgage changed over and let it out. Rent ought to more than cover the repayments and will eventually be paid for and all yours

MarshPhantom

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167 months

Saturday 14th January 2017
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Thanks for those. Trouble with doing it myself is I live 150+ miles away, 3 hours on a good day. If the fees are around a grand I think I will go with that option. I really must find out.

The money he owed is down to him being very deep in debt (around £100k) by his mid 70s and came up with some scheme where he was bailed out, but the loan company pretty much got the money from the house when he died, upto a maximum of £160k. He's never been great with money, not extravagant, just always spending a bit more than they had. The house's value has also been affected by the fact HS2, if it ever happens, will run just a few hundred feet from the top of the garden.

Thanks all for the help provided so far.



tjl

392 posts

202 months

Saturday 14th January 2017
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Sorry for your loss.

My advice would be to get hold of old bank statements and cheque boook stubs if you can (or get copies from the bank). From these you might be able to piece together your dads financial affairs. Who he was getting money from and who he was paying it to. Once you've figured this out you know which companies to call (pensions, life policies etc) who will be very used to helping you. When my dad passed a couple of years ago , alll the big companies we talked to had specialist bereavement departments who were very used to helping in this type of situation. They were all fantastically good to be fair and I was pleasantly surprised.