Swingers

[Ari]

Following on from the High Class Escort thread, I thought rather than derail that one it would be better to start a new one.

So, any swingers amongst us, or tales of swinging derring do about 'friends'?

Call me a voyeur if you will, but I think it's a fascinating subject, and if you can detach sex from emotion it must offer up a world of interesting possibilities .

[Orchid1]

[alorotom]

Not personally but always had suspicions when I was younger about a couple who lived opposite my parents, never holidayed together and when I was working In a city centre bar and nightclub they came in with a large group of friends one night and she was sat on some other chaps lap and he was snogging the face off one of the other women ... potentially suspicion confirmed. Nice enough couple though and seemed happy enough (they are still together some 15yrs on)

[Oakey]

Years ago my brother (he must have been 15 at the time) somehow found the mother of his mate (both of which also happened to be our neighbours) on a swinging site.

A few years back same brother informed me there was a local group on Motherless full of pics and vids of local girls so I was trawling through them and found a set of photos of the girl who lived a few doors away from me. Her face was average (marred by a big nose) but her body always looked cracking. Big tits. Unfortunately the photos revealed they were fake and had horrible scars. The best part was they had her fabswingers username on them so I googled that and her and her husbands profile came up. I was somewhat surprised to find out he was Bi considering he's a huge bodybuilding meathead who hangs around with some of the local wannabe gangsters

[Patch1875]

[ColinM50]

We have a very nice olde worlde pub nearby, The Anchor at Tempsford which turned into a swingers club five years or so ago and renamed itself Vanilla Alternative. Just looking through their website and under the prices tab it says **Gentlemen have limited entry. ROFL.

https://www.thevanillaalternative.co.uk

BTW, Never been so don't know what it's like, but there's often quite a few cars in the car park at weekends

[Hainey]

I have a friend who is a swinger, both him and his long term girlfriend. They have toned it down a lot now since they had a baby but it's genuinely 'so what' as a form of fun. I like to play with cars, they like to play with people.

Why is sex and sexual desire still such a taboo for so many?

[can't remember]

I was looking for a bungalow for my mum and came across this place.

http://www.primelocation.com/for-sale/details/4221...


I make no comment on the current owners but if you flick through the pictures you will see that the Pampas grass is only the start.

[Falsey]

What do you want to know?

[Oakey]

can't remember said:

I was looking for a bungalow for my mum and came across this place.

http://www.primelocation.com/for-sale/details/4221...


I make no comment on the current owners but if you flick through the pictures you will see that the Pampas grass is only the start.

"SWimming Pool" --- is it really? Really?!?!

[steveo3002]

sex pond

[can't remember]

Oakey said:

can't remember said:

I was looking for a bungalow for my mum and came across this place.

http://www.primelocation.com/for-sale/details/4221...


I make no comment on the current owners but if you flick through the pictures you will see that the Pampas grass is only the start.

"SWimming Pool" --- is it really? Really?!?!

It's probably swimming in many things you wouldn't want to come in contact with.

[boyse7en]

can't remember said:

I was looking for a bungalow for my mum and came across this place.

http://www.primelocation.com/for-sale/details/4221...


I make no comment on the current owners but if you flick through the pictures you will see that the Pampas grass is only the start.

I must be missing something?

[steveo3002]

boyse7en said:

I must be missing something?

led sex pond and mirrored wall in lounge?

[Hoofy]

boyse7en said:

can't remember said:

I was looking for a bungalow for my mum and came across this place.

http://www.primelocation.com/for-sale/details/4221...


I make no comment on the current owners but if you flick through the pictures you will see that the Pampas grass is only the start.

I must be missing something?

Depends how your mind wanders. The see-through tables, the chairs facing each other, the full length mirrors, the disco sex pond.

[Falsey]

My eye was drawn to the second bedroom which appears to have a full height mirror wall and a video camera under a sheet.

[LordHaveMurci]

Used to know a friend of a friend, him & his missus used to contribute to webcam sites (paid) & regularly attend swingers parties, his missus was Bi apparently.

He was well known for showing anybody & everybody how well endowed he was, thankfully I had very little contact with him & was spared that particular delight.

I suspect he was seen as a 'bit of rough'.

[Alex_225]

Hainey said:

Why is sex and sexual desire still such a taboo for so many?

I guess it's very much up to the individual. I personally wouldn't want to watch my other half take a pounding from another bloke in the same way she wouldn't want to see me ride someone else into battle. Stirring another man's porridge isn't my bag.

I worked with someone who decided to get into swinging and made some friends that way. Trouble was the partner she was with caused some awkward situations and sounded like jealous ensued. Guess you have to have a specific mentality for it.

[Hainey]

Alex_225 said:

Hainey said:

Why is sex and sexual desire still such a taboo for so many?

I guess it's very much up to the individual. I personally wouldn't want to watch my other half take a pounding from another bloke in the same way she wouldn't want to see me ride someone else into battle. Stirring another man's porridge isn't my bag.

I worked with someone who decided to get into swinging and made some friends that way. Trouble was the partner she was with caused some awkward situations and sounded like jealous ensued. Guess you have to have a specific mentality for it.

I was referencing the discussion of the acts themselves, not the desire to be involved. If someone wants to watch their missus get it on with another bloke ('same room' I believe its called) or nip into the other room and have a go on the other blokes bird, so what? It might not be my thing but I don't see why it causes most of the adult population to suddenly turn into a load of sniggering 10 yr old's at a sex ed lesson the minute they talk about it.

[xjay1337]

Hainey said:

I have a friend who is a swinger, both him and his long term girlfriend. They have toned it down a lot now since they had a baby but it's genuinely 'so what' as a form of fun. I like to play with cars, they like to play with people.

Why is sex and sexual desire still such a taboo for so many?

I don't think it's taboo at all.

Fair play to those who like it.

But I think those who do it, need to accept it is not the social "norm" as many of us are monogamous in our relationships.

Personally, while I could imagine 2 women, I couldn't imagine another man being involved.


That would definitely take the wood out of my tree.

I certainly wouldn't find being with multiple sexual partners at once, while in a relationship, appealing.

Certainly, under 30's, fine, most swingers tend to be well north of 40 and into caravanning, I suspect they do it because they have nothing better to do.

I won't judge