Black tie??
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maxrider

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2,481 posts

265 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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I have to go to a business awards ceremony next month as my company has been nominated. The directors will be downstairs at the 'main table' for a full on meal, the rest of the plebs and managers (me included) will be in the balcony of this concert hall place with a 'finger buffet' (at £45 a head good job companys paying)

The memo states evening dress/black tie.

Never having been to this type of do before and wanting to avoid hiring the full penguin suit if poss what exactly is acceptable attire for this sort of bash? Bearing in mind that we wont actually be mingling with the hoi-poloi to much extent (plus I'd imagine the directors will want us well out of the way as there's a FREE BAR!!)

mrs fish

30,018 posts

287 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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If it states evening dress/black tie then I would take it as meaning exactly that. So get hiring

Plotloss

67,280 posts

299 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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Dinner suit.

Dinner shirt

Bow tie.

Lois

14,706 posts

281 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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Have a look at the BTaP pics, actually second thoughts best not!

pzero64

2,145 posts

270 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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maxrider said:
The memo states evening dress/black tie.

Go for the dress, it makes a nice change.

lotuslad

5,253 posts

283 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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Got to be a dinner suit I'm afraid.

If you're not mixing with the directors or the hoi polloi, who on earth will you be mixing with?

tonyhetherington

32,091 posts

279 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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Yup...black tie is exactly that. If you try to get away with just a suit jacket and bow tie (for example) then you'll stand out like a sore thumb!

Though it's not what you wanted to hear...get hiring!!

maxrider

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2,481 posts

265 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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anonymous said:
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BT&P must be interesting then..

maxrider

Original Poster:

2,481 posts

265 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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lotuslad said:
Got to be a dinner suit I'm afraid.

If you're not mixing with the directors or the hoi polloi, who on earth will you be mixing with?


Jack Daniels, Jim Beam, Johnnie Walker.....

ErnestM

11,621 posts

296 months

Thursday 7th April 2005
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Every man should have a good quality DJ in his closet. You never can tell...

...even better is to have the full black penguin suit with a nice ivory/off white jacket for those cocktail receptions in more tropical climes/cruise ships.


ErnestM

PS: Oh, and bow tie please, none of this noncomformist "regular tie" masquerading as a formal tie thing - unless you're going to a funeral

shirepro

11,838 posts

264 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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Try

www.clermontdirect.co.uk/index.php?cPath=35

I bought one recently from here for a cheap suit they are spot on, you can get exact sizes without paying the earth They'll also sell you a dress shirt and bow tie for £15.

NiceCupOfTea

25,586 posts

280 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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Moss Bros are quite good for that sort of thing, as are M&S. My work DJ is M&S and although getting a bit tatty now it's given 10 long years' service!

If you want to hire, Moss Bros again.

Or if you want to do it properly, white tie & tails

Marki

15,763 posts

299 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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"Times may change but standard must remain"

Get a smoking and do it properly

rude-boy

22,227 posts

262 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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Yep you got to get a DJ mate. Last time I looked it was about £40 to hire one and you get all the carp like having to be especially careful you don't wreck it, etc. Bought one a few years ago for £150. Nothing special but it does the job for the 4 or 5 times a year I have to wear one.

Get a good dress shirt, avoid anything too frilly if you can, and get it with a collar one size bigger than your work shirts - trust me on this. After a hard evening eating and drinking you heat up and the collar can get tight so (rather than look like the chav at a wedding with the top button undone and bow-tie swinging around you neck) that extra inch makes all the difference (no jokes please ladies).

Don't go for braces, you'll look a tw@t.

Don't forget that with dress shirts you have to have cuff links. Dare I admit it but the laminated book of dreams provided me with a great pair that looks like F1 cars. (Well I like them and have been asked about them a number of times.)

Some dress shirts will also require that you buy studs as well - check you'll feel a right prat at 6 on Saturday night when dressing to see that you've forgotten those!

If you are on the round side a cumber band is a good idea and also hides that post stuffing your face loosening of the top button on your trousers! Be careful on the colour.

Simple ready tied hook and eye bow-tie unless you are really confident (if you are buy one as well just in case). Black only. Don't even look at the comedy ones.

Shoes should be plain, highly polished, black, leather soled and comfortable. I recommend Chinneys or Church's if you have the wallet for them. Have to say I have two pairs which I alternate every day and which are both 3 years old now so you get your money's worth! If you haven't already got good suit shoes and don't want to splash out please buy a cheap pair. Nothing shouts 'strategically shaved gorilla in a suit' more than a pair of Kickers with a DJ.

All IMO

jessica

6,321 posts

281 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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ErnestM said:
Every man should have a good quality DJ in his closet. You never can tell...

...even better is to have the full black penguin suit with a nice ivory/off white jacket for those cocktail receptions in more tropical climes/cruise ships.


ErnestM

PS: Oh, and bow tie please, none of this noncomformist "regular tie" masquerading as a formal tie thing - unless you're going to a funeral


OOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
I do like a man with class

Size Nine Elm

5,167 posts

313 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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jessica said:

OOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
I do like a man with class

Is that Michael Jackson with 3C?

cosmoschick

7,977 posts

278 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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jessica said:
OOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
I do like a man with class


vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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There'd no denying the fact that..

I look sexy in a Bikini.

Jaglover

46,737 posts

264 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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vixpy1 said:
There'd no denying the fact that..

I look sexy in a Bikini.



Please Vixpy Nooooo

Where is some of that mind bleach that Birdbrain was talking about?.

vixpy1

42,699 posts

293 months

Friday 8th April 2005
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Or Dj..

Damn this alcohol!