Stressed, Depressed and or Ill?
Stressed, Depressed and or Ill?
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Healthyornot

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108 months

Saturday 23rd September 2017
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Long time poster using a new login ...

The last 3 to 6 months I have noticed my hair starting to fall out, my temper fraying, feel miserable and to top it all off I woke last week to what looks like a small number of growth(s) on the inside of my lip (Dr on Monday).

I am struggling at the moment, every time something good happens its immediately followed by something bad (I think its HPV above).

My wife is really supportive and holding me together at the moment as I seem to go through these really dark moods every 3/4 months.

Work is rubbish and I have no motivation nor any challenge, I am bored and have started to search for a new role with the last two I failed at the final stage post F2F, which isn't great for my confidence going forward although both have given positive feedback.

I am 30-odd, happy with my wife and no kids, good money, no worries financially but I just feel empty?

Lots of stress at the moment though with a number of things, perhaps this could be indlucecing me!?

Anyone else had similar?

EL11SEG

1,849 posts

209 months

Sunday 24th September 2017
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Yes. My neck just siezed up one day while I was boarding a flight to go on holiday. No trauma/injury just locked up. I have been battling it coming up for a year now and it is totally stress related. A few months ago I went from rattling 8 co-codomol a day to survive the pain to 1 a day in the space of a week or so. I decided to focus on a career change and that really helped. I was snappy mummy for a while (tho I still can have those days) but back then I was not a nice mummy at all frown Even the doctors knew this was all down to stress. I don't really take anything much now however is still have the feeling that someone is sitting on my shoulders but its not as bad as it was. Hopsfully the doctor can speak about options. I was given antidepressants which did not work well for me as it stopped me functioning as a parent,

Good luck with it.

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