Pavement etiquette?
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FreeLitres

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6,128 posts

207 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Another pressing matter to discuss on PH - what is the correct etiquette in this pavement situation?



Mr Orange is running along a pavement that is not quite wide enough for 3 people to stand side by side. One side of the pavement is joined by a fairly busy road (with cars approaching from behind) and the other side by a wall.

Two chaps are in conversation walking side by side. (Mr Blue and Mr Green)

Question 1) In general, how should these 3 individuals negotiate this situation

Question 2) If you are Mr Orange and you notice that Mr Blue and Mr Green continue their course and make absolutely no effort to accommodate a smooth passing on the pavement, what do you do?

anonymous-user

84 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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i find that if you have a slight look of metal about you most cede to you. Maybe talking to yourself helps as well.

manracer

1,548 posts

127 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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I've been thinking about this very subject today.
I go for a walk at lunch around a business park that has lovely walks around the lakes and forest and usually in on my own and encounter 2, 3 or 4 people in a group coming the other way, more often than not I found myself taking to the grass to avoid a head on, so to speak.

It seems to me that Mr green should move out of the way.

I got fed up of moving so now if they bump into me a tell them how it is. It's rude not to have even a little common courtesy or awareness.

Wacky Racer

41,363 posts

277 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Well if I were Mr Blue or Green I would move into single file( one behind the other for a few seconds) to avoid slowing the runner down...(he might be timing his run), apart from the fact that Mr Blue and Green are being selfish taking up all the narrow pavement.



Chainsaw Rebuild

2,138 posts

132 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Mr Blue and Mr Green should go single file, if it was safe to do so I might just use the road to go around them.

lucido grigio

44,044 posts

193 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Yes ,green should move over.

I do a fair bit on foot and find many groups don't think it necessary to accommodate people coming in the other direction.....irked

FreeLitres

Original Poster:

6,128 posts

207 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Your comments are generaslly in line with my thinking too.

I would definitely make some kind of effort to fall back and tuck in slightly to accommodate the runner on the pavement.

Well, this situation happened today and I was Mr Orange out on a rare run. The two guys coming the other way were Students - of which we have many particularly arrogant and superior examples. I was so surprised that they made no effort to accommodate me that I had to step down into the road to get passed them. Luckily there was a small gap in the traffic.

I'm just planning my move for if I come across this situation again.

To my shame, when I was particularly drunk a number of years ago, I performed a full on shoulder barge on an unsuspecting pavement hogger in the passed in a similar situation. I don't want to do that again, but I'm thinking of my options....

Ayahuasca

27,584 posts

309 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Mr Green should beware of Mr Orange shoving him into the path of an oncoming bus.

cuprabob

19,751 posts

244 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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If it was in Glasgow, I suspect Mr Orange and Mr Blue would kick the st out of Mr Green smile

Ayahuasca

27,584 posts

309 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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If I were the runner and no effort was made to make space for me, I would come to a complete stop and make them walk around me.

JagerT

455 posts

137 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Ayahuasca said:
Mr Green should beware of Mr Orange shoving him into the path of an oncoming bus.
Darn,beat me to it.

FreeLitres

Original Poster:

6,128 posts

207 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Ayahuasca said:
If I were the runner and no effort was made to make space for me, I would come to a complete stop and make them walk around me.
Yep, I think this will by my approach next time. Not quite as aggressive as the other options I had considered. I'm not stepping into the road ever again for these arrogant chumps.

Ayahuasca

27,584 posts

309 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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JagerT said:
Ayahuasca said:
Mr Green should beware of Mr Orange shoving him into the path of an oncoming bus.
Darn,beat me to it.
Gotta be fast in this game!

Wacky Racer

41,363 posts

277 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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They were students.

Probably high on weed.

smile

hyphen

26,262 posts

120 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Ayahuasca said:
If I were the runner and no effort was made to make space for me, I would come to a complete stop and make them walk around me.
This is generally what I do, as a walker rather than a runner though.

Usual suspects tend to be women lost in conversation, and dressed up, slighly older couples out on an evening in moneyed parts of London.

If space is there then fine to squeeze past, but going onto the road is just not on.

OP did you actually go to the trouble to draw that pic rather than just describing? Very thorough, and anbit weird laugh

Yipper

5,964 posts

120 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Dominate the pavement.

Gargamel

16,384 posts

291 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Yipper said:
Dominate the pavement.
You should kerb that kind of comment.



Strudul

1,599 posts

115 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Get this a lot (though only walking, not running).

Tends to be females that refuse to move over and lack the courtesy to thank you if you do.

If it happens to you again you should stop in front of them and start doing star jumps that take up the whole pavement until they concede - can't let your heart rate drop,

Johnnytheboy

24,499 posts

216 months

Monday 30th October 2017
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Thankfully I no longer live in London but I used to encounter this when I did.

Being a big chap, I'd just move as close to the edge of the pavement as I could without stepping in to the road then walk straight in to them if they didn't give me enough room.

Alucidnation

16,810 posts

200 months