Going Back To Childhood Haunts
Going Back To Childhood Haunts
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anonymous-user

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84 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Hi
In a different lifetime, 30+ years ago, I had my first job in a not celebrated town & first proper girlfriend lived there, happy days
I’ve not been there since, but just say 15 miles away!
Do you folks visit your old haunts, or avoid to saviour the memories?

V8mate

45,899 posts

219 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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She'll have moved on, dude. Just let her go.

Rich1973

1,283 posts

207 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I used to go camping with school every year to Torver, just outside Coniston.
Went back a few years ago to the lakes after what was a 20 year abstinence. To be honest it felt safe and comforting to be back amongst the places that gave me such pleasure in my formative years, and the memories it invoked.

Last Visit

3,697 posts

218 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Maybe it's a sign of getting older, I'm now early 40s, but recently I've been back to a place in Scotland that my parents took the family to on many an occasion on holiday when I was young (5-13yrs old) which holds many happy memories.
Also went to see a house and street I grew up in, as I found myself within 20 miles of it for the first time in 30 years.

I'm not a morbid person but being aware of my own mortality has focused me a little more on memories, the good ones that is.

sc0tt

18,296 posts

231 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I went to a pub the other night. Popped out to the terrace to have a smoke and realised it was where I told my ex fiance I didn’t want to get married (not childhood granted but feels like a long time ago).

Was a very odd experience and I replayed the whole conversation through my head again.

Was horrendous hehe

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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V8mate said:
She'll have moved on, dude. Just let her go.
Fair point, I bet she’s fatter than me now smile

Spare tyre

12,593 posts

160 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Walking my parents dog for them in my childhood area a few weeks back

Thought I'd cut through the woods from one lake to another, got there no paths, just overgrown bushes and woods

Probably had the best time of my life playing in there when I was a kid

Different times cry

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Rich1973 said:
I used to go camping with school every year to Torver, just outside Coniston.
Went back a few years ago to the lakes after what was a 20 year abstinence. To be honest it felt safe and comforting to be back amongst the places that gave me such pleasure in my formative years, and the memories it invoked.
Very nice thought, I should go back to retrace those steps

rossub

5,982 posts

220 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Spare tyre said:
Walking my parents dog for them in my childhood area a few weeks back

Thought I'd cut through the woods from one lake to another, got there no paths, just overgrown bushes and woods

Probably had the best time of my life playing in there when I was a kid

Different times cry
Better that than it having become full of houses like one of my old childhood playgrounds...I remember when it were all fields etc...

Newky Brown

1,757 posts

258 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I go back fairly often to the area I lived in when I was very young.

Our house was directly opposite fields and my brother and I along with the other kids in the area spent many happy hours building dens in hedges and climbing trees. Carefree days.

Hereward

5,121 posts

260 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Nostalgia is a hugely powerful emotion.

mfmman

3,243 posts

213 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I think there is fair bit of wanting to show someone else a place with good memories

We family holidayed in Lyme Regis four times by time I was 12. Taken my wife and kids there loads of times, not even thought about going there in between the two.

sc0tt

18,296 posts

231 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Hereward said:
Nostalgia is a hugely powerful emotion.
Agreed. Sometimes it should be left for what it is though.

hondafanatic

4,969 posts

231 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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Fitting topic for me.

From late Thursday night I have had the worst 24 hours of my life. More than when my dad died when I was 19 and he was and still is my hero (I’m a few months off 40).

On the Saturday I drove from Lancaster to where I grew up... Govan. I went to my old street to see the house i grew up in. I went to my primary school. I went to the supermarket we went to for the family shopping that has its car park on the roof. I parked up and went across the road to where my dad used to take me for ice cream and I had what I always had while Mum was shopping... square (lorne) sausage bun followed by two scoops of vanilla ice cream.

I had a quiet moment to myself. I gathered myself together. I drove back down, past Lancaster to Manchester airport terminal one to pick my mum up from her holiday. I gave her the biggest hug I’ve ever given her... drove back to Lancaster and dropped her off.

Nobody knows I did that.

It helped an awful lot.

As did posting this... o and so has putting a deposit on a C63 Estate that I’m picking up on Friday. smile

sc0tt

18,296 posts

231 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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hondafanatic said:
Fitting topic for me.

From late Thursday night I have had the worst 24 hours of my life. More than when my dad died when I was 19 and he was and still is my hero (I’m a few months off 40).

On the Saturday I drove from Lancaster to where I grew up... Govan. I went to my old street to see the house i grew up in. I went to my primary school. I went to the supermarket we went to for the family shopping that has its car park on the roof. I parked up and went across the road to where my dad used to take me for ice cream and I had what I always had while Mum was shopping... square (lorne) sausage bun followed by two scoops of vanilla ice cream.

I had a quiet moment to myself. I gathered myself together. I drove back down, past Lancaster to Manchester airport terminal one to pick my mum up from her holiday. I gave her the biggest hug I’ve ever given her... drove back to Lancaster and dropped her off.

Nobody knows I did that.

It helped an awful lot.

As did posting this... o and so has putting a deposit on a C63 Estate that I’m picking up on Friday. smile
Sometimes it is good to talk.

bimsb6

8,785 posts

251 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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sc0tt said:
hondafanatic said:
Fitting topic for me.

From late Thursday night I have had the worst 24 hours of my life. More than when my dad died when I was 19 and he was and still is my hero (I’m a few months off 40).

On the Saturday I drove from Lancaster to where I grew up... Govan. I went to my old street to see the house i grew up in. I went to my primary school. I went to the supermarket we went to for the family shopping that has its car park on the roof. I parked up and went across the road to where my dad used to take me for ice cream and I had what I always had while Mum was shopping... square (lorne) sausage bun followed by two scoops of vanilla ice cream.

I had a quiet moment to myself. I gathered myself together. I drove back down, past Lancaster to Manchester airport terminal one to pick my mum up from her holiday. I gave her the biggest hug I’ve ever given her... drove back to Lancaster and dropped her off.

Nobody knows I did that.

It helped an awful lot.

As did posting this... o and so has putting a deposit on a C63 Estate that I’m picking up on Friday. smile
Sometimes it is good to talk.
.



Sounds like time for a logon name change as well.

Moonhawk

10,730 posts

249 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I do from time to time.

I drive round my old paper round route every now and again if i'm up that way visiting family.

I also go to the local park I had at the top of my street as a kid for bonfire night (they have a council firework display on).

Many of my old haunts (one rather ironically called "the haunty") no longer exist though - having been filled in or built on years ago.

hondafanatic

4,969 posts

231 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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bimsb6 said:
sc0tt said:
hondafanatic said:
Fitting topic for me.

From late Thursday night I have had the worst 24 hours of my life. More than when my dad died when I was 19 and he was and still is my hero (I’m a few months off 40).

On the Saturday I drove from Lancaster to where I grew up... Govan. I went to my old street to see the house i grew up in. I went to my primary school. I went to the supermarket we went to for the family shopping that has its car park on the roof. I parked up and went across the road to where my dad used to take me for ice cream and I had what I always had while Mum was shopping... square (lorne) sausage bun followed by two scoops of vanilla ice cream.

I had a quiet moment to myself. I gathered myself together. I drove back down, past Lancaster to Manchester airport terminal one to pick my mum up from her holiday. I gave her the biggest hug I’ve ever given her... drove back to Lancaster and dropped her off.

Nobody knows I did that.

It helped an awful lot.

As did posting this... o and so has putting a deposit on a C63 Estate that I’m picking up on Friday. smile
Sometimes it is good to talk.
.



Sounds like time for a logon name change as well.
Cheers chaps. smile

anonymous-user

Original Poster:

84 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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I’ve visited my old middle and secondary school. Was surreal as they brought back a mix of good and bad. The main thing was how small everything was biggrin

Dermot O'Logical

3,779 posts

159 months

Tuesday 6th February 2018
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When I were a lad my parents used to take my sister and I to Swanage in Dorset on holiday. In the early years we had a Morris 8, which would be loaded up with everything including the tv, and when times improved a (new) VW Beetle. The journey was around 60 miles, and seemed to take forever, but it was part of the holiday.

Nowadays I live about ten miles closer, and often get up early and reach Swanage in time for a full English breakfast. I'll then visit a few old haunts and head home in the evening. The world seems to have become smaller.