A bit of advice?
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gman88667733

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1,196 posts

97 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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My partner and I are both 21 and we rent somewhere together. The situation is that her car is costing us a fortune to run in fuel, insurance and repair costs. It's MOT is due in March and so we are wanting to sell it with a full MOT and then get a different car (Honda CRV) the current one is worth about £1500 on a very very good day and the replacement car would be at least £2500. My partner is on a very low income as she doing a degree part time and so for her, her half of the £1000-£2000 extra needed for the new car would be a very big struggle.
I am the situation where I have a good amount of savings and save about £350 a month at least.
Is it an okay thing for me to do to essentially loan/give her the extra money she needs? My parents think I shouldn't just spend out a load of money for her, but I think it's a better investment really as we would hopefully be saving an awful lot of money.
What do you all think of this?
Cheers

Butter Face

34,857 posts

190 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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If you do, just give it and forget about it.

If your relationship ever ends, just pretend you never have any money and be done with it.

Sebastian Tombs

2,159 posts

222 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Buy a car in your own name and put her on the insurance. Let her sell her car and keep 100% of the proceeds.
Then you have not loaned/given her the car or the cash, buy you have a new car..

oldbanger

4,328 posts

268 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Sebastian Tombs said:
Buy a car in your own name and put her on the insurance. Let her sell her car and keep 100% of the proceeds.
Then you have not loaned/given her the car or the cash, buy you have a new car..
This, but make sure the insurance policy has her as main driver (you as reg keeper) if she is going to run it as her own car.



Edited by oldbanger on Wednesday 30th January 20:15

gman88667733

Original Poster:

1,196 posts

97 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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But I already have a perfectly good car. Would it make sense for me to have 2? It's mean I'd have to have an insurance policy with 0 NCB.

mike9009

10,876 posts

273 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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gman88667733 said:
But I already have a perfectly good car. Would it make sense for me to have 2? It's mean I'd have to have an insurance policy with 0 NCB.
Her NCB should transfer to the new insurance policy - but you will be the registered keeper. As registered keeper, this is not necessarily proof of ownership, so have the receipt for the car in your name.

You will need to declare yourself as the registered keeper and her as the main driver.

I think that is right - else someone will correct me!! smile

Mike

gman88667733

Original Poster:

1,196 posts

97 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Why would that be better than me just bumping up her savings so that she can afford it?

randlemarcus

13,646 posts

261 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Loves young dream has starry eyed. Cynical old guys like us don't.
Choose between a nice gift to enable her to buy a car, or buying yourself a second car that you can take away when it all goes tits.

anonymous-user

84 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Butter Face said:
If you do, just give it and forget about it.

If your relationship ever ends, just pretend you never have any money and be done with it.
THIS. Ignore the cynical lock changers, live your own life

dundarach

6,227 posts

258 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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I'm in for about 100k with two ex wives...

The current Mrs Dundarach has taken the rest.

Spend away and enjoy chuck, spend away!


gman88667733

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1,196 posts

97 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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I don't really want to live thinking that it's going to go tits up!
It's a case of overall savings. I think we will save more in repairs (hopefully) and fuel and insurance than we would have to put in to get the car, over the life of the car

Butter Face

34,857 posts

190 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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gman88667733 said:
I don't really want to live thinking that it's going to go tits up!
Welcome to Pistonheads hehe

Lots of people here think every relationship is doomed from the start.

mikeiow

8,157 posts

160 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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You say you have some decent savings: presumably the sum won't be a massive lump of those: live your life, give her the money, insist on whatever favourable repayment terms suit you (fnurk fnurk!) and be happy smile

gman88667733

Original Poster:

1,196 posts

97 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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Realistically I'd only need to give her 3 months savings maximum. (Assuming I didn't save much in those months). So it really isn't the end of the world. We would be much happier if we did get the new car, she would have more money at the end of the month and we would use it more.
It makes a lot of sense to me, but I just needed some reassurance I think.

Mark-C

7,645 posts

235 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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dundarach said:
I'm in for about 100k with two ex wives...

The current Mrs Dundarach has taken the rest.

Spend away and enjoy chuck, spend away!

Similar here ...

OP - buy her a car. Don't worry about what might happen if it all goes wrong - that's no way to live your life!

JapanRed

1,591 posts

141 months

Wednesday 30th January 2019
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If you are loaning her the money and genuinely want it paid back you need to draw up some form of contract. Need to both sign and date. Need to include amount loaned and method/date(s) of repayment.

It’s not bullet proof but I’ve heard of things like this holding weight in small claims court. You could have a repayment period of 2 years and if you are still together write another document that says she no longer has to pay it back.

In the eyes of the law either it’s a gift or a loan. It can’t be a gift initially but then when/if you split you retrospectively decide it was a loan.

Sebastian Tombs

2,159 posts

222 months

Thursday 31st January 2019
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gman88667733 said:
But I already have a perfectly good car. Would it make sense for me to have 2?
You've not been on Pistonheads long have you? :-D

MondeoMan1981

2,458 posts

213 months

Thursday 31st January 2019
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At your age OP, don't dare gift anything huge or get into any finance or pay-ups for someone else. The risk of it ending in tears is too risky.

As others have said, if you are paying for it, it's your car - but she can insure and drive it.

Then if love's young dream becomes love's young nightmare, you get your car back.

LivingTheDream

1,768 posts

209 months

Thursday 31st January 2019
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Blimey!! some cynical stuff on here.

OP - you're together, you live together - live your life together. Give her the money and get on with it.

BUT - more importantly - have you actually worked out that a CR-V is going to cost you less? I thought they were quite expensive to run, particularly on fuel?

What is the current car?

gman88667733

Original Poster:

1,196 posts

97 months

Thursday 31st January 2019
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It'd be the 2.2L diesel manual CRV that we get, so would get probably 15mpg better than our 2003 auto 2.5L Kia Sorento. Plus the 4wd system on the Kia seems to only work half the time which is no good to us really.