Ever been back to your old workplace?
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Mate and I currently work together, and previously used to work together a few years ago at another employer.
Before Christmas he had some time off work and popped into our former employer. Partly cause he was nearby, partly cause he was bored. And spent 30+mins there chatting with everyone. Turns out my mate has numerous times re-visited this and other old employers. Several of my current work mates have also done similar at other places.
Seems I'm in a minority here. Having only visited 1 employer after I left because I got a "mates rates" discount on some things. I wasn't there just to chew the fat. Apparently our mutual former workmates asked after me since they'd not seen me since and most contact was the odd comment under a picture on InstaBook or the generic "Happy birthday" post
Apparently this is a bad thing, but tbh who really wants to have a forced "you alright? How's the kids" type conversation? That's not to say I don't like some of these people, but if they're working they don't need me hanging around like a bad smell!
So is my mate overly sentimental. Or am I anti-social?
Before Christmas he had some time off work and popped into our former employer. Partly cause he was nearby, partly cause he was bored. And spent 30+mins there chatting with everyone. Turns out my mate has numerous times re-visited this and other old employers. Several of my current work mates have also done similar at other places.
Seems I'm in a minority here. Having only visited 1 employer after I left because I got a "mates rates" discount on some things. I wasn't there just to chew the fat. Apparently our mutual former workmates asked after me since they'd not seen me since and most contact was the odd comment under a picture on InstaBook or the generic "Happy birthday" post
Apparently this is a bad thing, but tbh who really wants to have a forced "you alright? How's the kids" type conversation? That's not to say I don't like some of these people, but if they're working they don't need me hanging around like a bad smell!

So is my mate overly sentimental. Or am I anti-social?

Edited by S1KRR on Tuesday 5th February 22:02
If you consider your old workmates as mates then I don't see the problem.
I also don't see the problem with not giving a flying f
k about them.
I 'visited' my previous employer a few times, simply because it was my local supermarket! I got along well with the people I worked with and we went out together and round each others houses pretty regularly, so I had no problem chatting to them if I saw them about. I didn't go out of my way just to visit them though.
I also don't see the problem with not giving a flying f
k about them.I 'visited' my previous employer a few times, simply because it was my local supermarket! I got along well with the people I worked with and we went out together and round each others houses pretty regularly, so I had no problem chatting to them if I saw them about. I didn't go out of my way just to visit them though.
Yep, left "old" workplace 15 years ago. Been back five times since for 1-6 month periods, at every increasing hrly rates to fix old problems.
Always warmly welcomed.
Always remember why I left and jack my rate up each time I'm re-approached but still get gigs there.
New day job bosses cracking down on out of hours contracting so may not be back again...........
Always warmly welcomed.
Always remember why I left and jack my rate up each time I'm re-approached but still get gigs there.
New day job bosses cracking down on out of hours contracting so may not be back again...........
I would say no, normally I never look back after leaving and rarely keep in touch with colleagues, but I have been back to one employer recently
I built a whole load of stuff in Flash around 17 years ago for a client. Back end of last year they contacted me and said they needed to convert them to HTML5, update the accessibility and couldn't find the original build files.
Was good to visit and catch up which has led to picking up another contract.
I built a whole load of stuff in Flash around 17 years ago for a client. Back end of last year they contacted me and said they needed to convert them to HTML5, update the accessibility and couldn't find the original build files.
Was good to visit and catch up which has led to picking up another contract.
Buzz84 said:
Suppose it depends on how you left. voluntarily, forced, good terms or bad etc.
Pretty much this. I have stayed in touch with people regardless of what circumstances I left. I have popped back to visit places before but maybe twice in 19 years of working.
I have never liked a job enough to feel the need to pop back and visit the entire office, just keep in touch with the people I choose to instead.
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