Resignation Quandary
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SpunkyGlory

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2,379 posts

188 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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I'd be interested in people's opinions on how best to handle my resignation.

I've been with the current company for 8 years, straight out of university. I applied for a role in a new company last year and have accepted an offer, which will see me start on April 8th. The notice period at the current company is 1 month, so I plan to hand my notice in on March 8th, and envisage I will be placed on garden leave due to the nature of the new role.

So far, pretty straightforward.

However, I've just been told this morning that I need to fly to Dubai for 5 days on March 11th. Due to flight duration, the flight will be business class and that's not a particularly low cost (the company is top 20 worldwide based on revenue so the cost itself is a drop in the ocean).

I understand a lot of people wouldn't say anything and would simply drop the bombshell on March 8th, but this doesn't sit right with me. It's too late for them to get someone else to fly, and I don't want to burn any bridges as this company has been good to work for.

I'm tempted to hand my notice in next Friday with a resignation date of March 8th, and if they put me on garden leave then I assume it would only be one month, leaving a week unpaid. I'm trying to confirm this with HR, but they are beyond useless and don't have a clue what's going on.

What are people's opinions?

Integroo

11,613 posts

108 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Why are you going to Dubai?

If it's for business reasons, I would just hand my notice in on 8 March.

DaveTheRave87

2,155 posts

112 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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SpunkyGlory said:
I'd be interested in people's opinions on how best to handle my resignation.

I've been with the current company for 8 years, straight out of university. I applied for a role in a new company last year and have accepted an offer, which will see me start on April 8th. The notice period at the current company is 1 month, so I plan to hand my notice in on March 8th, and envisage I will be placed on garden leave due to the nature of the new role.

So far, pretty straightforward.

However, I've just been told this morning that I need to fly to Dubai for 5 days on March 11th. Due to flight duration, the flight will be business class and that's not a particularly low cost (the company is top 20 worldwide based on revenue so the cost itself is a drop in the ocean).

I understand a lot of people wouldn't say anything and would simply drop the bombshell on March 8th, but this doesn't sit right with me. It's too late for them to get someone else to fly, and I don't want to burn any bridges as this company has been good to work for.

I'm tempted to hand my notice in next Friday with a resignation date of March 8th, and if they put me on garden leave then I assume it would only be one month, leaving a week unpaid. I'm trying to confirm this with HR, but they are beyond useless and don't have a clue what's going on.

What are people's opinions?
Why worry yourself over a drop in the ocean?

SpunkyGlory

Original Poster:

2,379 posts

188 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Integroo said:
Why are you going to Dubai?

If it's for business reasons, I would just hand my notice in on 8 March.
Yes, business reasons.

DaveTheRave87 said:
Why worry yourself over a drop in the ocean?
I'm conscious that it leaves them in the lurch and effectively burns bridges.

Integroo

11,613 posts

108 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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SpunkyGlory said:
Integroo said:
Why are you going to Dubai?

If it's for business reasons, I would just hand my notice in on 8 March.
Yes, business reasons.

DaveTheRave87 said:
Why worry yourself over a drop in the ocean?
I'm conscious that it leaves them in the lurch and effectively burns bridges.
Not sure why you are worrying. You are going on a business trip, not a jolly. Your notice is a month, so you give a month. It's business, it's not personal.

Pothole

34,367 posts

305 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Why do you think you owe the current company EVEN MORE? You've given them 8 years. you make it sound like they're a pretty big concern and therefore they must know what they're doing, so they'll deal with the business trip scenario very easily. Stick to your original plan.

Mr Pointy

12,841 posts

182 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Be professional. Go to your manager & explain the situation & that you don't want to drop them in it: he can then decide if he wants you to go or not.

They can't fire you or make you submit your resignation early.

55palfers

6,265 posts

187 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Mr Pointy said:
Be professional. Go to your manager & explain the situation & that you don't want to drop them in it: he can then decide if he wants you to go or not.

They can't fire you or make you submit your resignation early.
Very much this. I'd appreciate the heads-up if I was your boss.

Hughesie

12,729 posts

305 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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55palfers said:
Mr Pointy said:
Be professional. Go to your manager & explain the situation & that you don't want to drop them in it: he can then decide if he wants you to go or not.

They can't fire you or make you submit your resignation early.
Very much this. I'd appreciate the heads-up if I was your boss.
Ditto, this is the right thing to do.

QuartzDad

2,772 posts

145 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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If it was me I would hand my notice in on Monday and give my final date of working as April 5th. You don't have to give them exactly one month's notice, more is fine too. Then your boss can decide what to do about Dubai, I've had it both ways - flew to Canada once on business during my notice period.

If they do put you on gardening leave I can't see how they can justify one week as unpaid if you give more than the contractual notice, you should be paid right up until your leaving day.

SpunkyGlory

Original Poster:

2,379 posts

188 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Mr Pointy said:
Be professional. Go to your manager & explain the situation & that you don't want to drop them in it: he can then decide if he wants you to go or not.

They can't fire you or make you submit your resignation early.
I went with this (before I'd seen this post funnily enough), as I've just had my 1:1 and he referred to booking the flights.

It might make for an awkward couple of weeks, but I feel much better having not dropped them in it.

Tall_Paul

1,915 posts

250 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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As above, if the offer has all been confirmed then just give your notice now. At minimum, have a quiet word with your boss and let them know you'll be making it official on xx date.

Also, handing in your notice on the 8th would mean that the 8th would be your last day, you'll need to hand it in on the 5th presuming you don't work weekends, if you want to start on the 8th.

I'm going through a similar thing, I was waiting on background checks to complete which they did yesterday. The big boss isn't in until Monday so I've let my manager know and will make it official on Monday.

A bit of courtesy goes a long way, you never know who you may be working with/for in 5 years time...

Russ T Bolt

1,725 posts

306 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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QuartzDad said:
If it was me I would hand my notice in on Monday and give my final date of working as April 5th. You don't have to give them exactly one month's notice, more is fine too. Then your boss can decide what to do about Dubai, I've had it both ways - flew to Canada once on business during my notice period.

If they do put you on gardening leave I can't see how they can justify one week as unpaid if you give more than the contractual notice, you should be paid right up until your leaving day.
Wasn’t there a thread on here a while back where someone did this and the company accepted his one month notice from that date.

Algarve

2,102 posts

104 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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Hughesie said:
55palfers said:
Mr Pointy said:
Be professional. Go to your manager & explain the situation & that you don't want to drop them in it: he can then decide if he wants you to go or not.

They can't fire you or make you submit your resignation early.
Very much this. I'd appreciate the heads-up if I was your boss.
Ditto, this is the right thing to do.
I would go down this route too.

This manager might could be working anywhere in the next 1, 2, 10 years and you might either want a reference or a job from him. If he feels you strung him along then screwed him over he's going to have no interest at all in helping you.

MitchT

17,089 posts

232 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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I'd hand my notice in immediately, work a month's notice and enjoy some time off before starting my new job. If they decided to still send me on the business trip during my notice period then fine.

Algarve

2,102 posts

104 months

Friday 22nd February 2019
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I guess it depends on financial situation but I wouldn't be willing to give up much/any wage to get an extra weeks holiday in Feb/March.