Nursery Drop Off Help
Nursery Drop Off Help
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dogz

Original Poster:

352 posts

286 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Hi,

I'm currently contracting and lucky to have a contract which is close to home. I'm conscious that this will not always be the case so I'm keen to understand how people address getting their kids dropped off at nursery if they aren't there

I'm responsible for the nursery run on a Wednesday and Thursday morning only with my Mrs doing the pick up

She often leaves for work around 6:15

I'd need someone to be at our house before the Mrs leaves and to get the kids up, dressed and drop them off at nursery between 7:30 & 8:00

We have no family close who could help

I'm wondering how people who have found themselves in this predicament have sorted it?

Hopefully my next contract in 3 months will also be close to home but I'd rather know my options now so I can plan

Thanks

Matt Cup

3,266 posts

134 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Look for a local Childminder.

mekondelta

721 posts

290 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Schools can have Early Bird drop-offs, otherwise you can look into sharing with other families where you look after their children for a couple of days in the morning and they look after yours. Failing that there are paid child carers who can do the school run part for you. Contact the school and other parents would be my first thought.

WinstonWolf

72,863 posts

269 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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One or the other of you will probably have to make career sacrifices for the benefit of your kids. That's how I did it...

Hub

7,134 posts

228 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Option a) childminder, though I doubt they'd come round and get them up and dressed - you'd probably have to drop off at their place. (otherwise you'll need a nanny!)
Option b) work from home on those days?
Option c) arrange flexible working hours so you can go in to work a bit later?

Edited by Hub on Thursday 28th February 13:30

anonymous-user

84 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Similar situation here. I start work at 9 on those days. Drop kids off 7:30-7:45 and an hours run into the office.

James76G

366 posts

214 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Have some friends in a similar situation. She has big job in London, he is a contractor often working 2 hours away, they have one child.

They employ somebody to come to the house, who helps with getting their 4yr old ready and she then drives him to nursery three days a week. This works because that person also happens to work at the nursery in question.

The parents then plan to collect by 6pm but on the occasion where that isn't possible that same person can sometimes help or on rare occasions I've done it for them while collecting my own children, but it requires either two trips or my wife to join me at collection due to only having two car seats per car.

We were also similar but the solution we came up with was that I left my job in London with 50% travel for one much closer to home with no travel and now 3 years later my wife has done the same. I'd had enough of management consultancy anyway so I was fine with it.


TIGA84

5,592 posts

261 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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I don't know any school near me that doesn't have a breakfast club, most schools do and usually from 7-7:30 in the morning + afterschool clubs till 4:30-5:00.

PistonBroker

2,719 posts

256 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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The private school over the back fence opened a Nursery recently and 7.30-7.45 seems to be a peak drop-off time. The staff seem to be in a bit earlier than that though.

It's dog walk time for me. ;-)

James76G

366 posts

214 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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OP is talking about nursery, not school. Most nurseries don't open before 8am, and some not until 8.30am.

vikingaero

13,330 posts

199 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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James76G said:
OP is talking about nursery, not school. Most nurseries don't open before 8am, and some not until 8.30am.
Most of our local nurseries open from 7am as the norm and one or two are 6:30am.

LemonParty

618 posts

266 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Have you got room for an au pair?

James76G

366 posts

214 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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vikingaero said:
James76G said:
OP is talking about nursery, not school. Most nurseries don't open before 8am, and some not until 8.30am.
Most of our local nurseries open from 7am as the norm and one or two are 6:30am.
That is pleasantly surprising. One here (Guildford) at 7.00am to suit the shift patterns of those working at the hospital opposite but all the others 8am earliest. Well, all that I've investigated at least.

dogz

Original Poster:

352 posts

286 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Its to drop 2 children at nursery. The nursery they are in starts at 7:30 which is the earliest drop off time

My Mrs will leave for work around 6:15 / 6:30. So ideally need help from 6:00 to drop off at 7:30 / 8:00 on a Wednesday and Thursday

Asking the nursery staff is a good shout. We have one who babysits for us if we go out and is the assistant manager

dogz

Original Poster:

352 posts

286 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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LemonParty said:
Have you got room for an au pair?
Yes we do but I'd like to not have people living with us

sjg

7,677 posts

295 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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It varies a lot - our nursery is from 7, but for a while they were also spending some time in another local one which was from 8.

Sounds like a good fit for a (school age) childminder who could fit that in before school dropoff. But our solution was that I switched roles and am almost always based at home so I can easily do the nursery runs.

LosingGrip

8,869 posts

189 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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dogz said:
Yes we do but I'd like to not have people living with us
Sure your kids aren't that bad wink

valiant

14,201 posts

190 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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DPD do timed deliveries don’t they?

Cost a bit extra mind..

essayer

10,410 posts

224 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Pretty bum deal for a childminder though, two hours pay to get up early, take two kids to nursery, plus other children, then be on call for the inevitable emergencies ..

A live-out nanny would probably make sense if they are preschool - you could stop some of the nursery afternoons etc to bring the cost down. Better care than a nursery too *ducks*

Vaud

59,598 posts

185 months

Thursday 28th February 2019
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Ask at the nursery. They may have a member of staff wanting to earn some extra money.