Calling in sick
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romeogolf

Original Poster:

2,112 posts

142 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Interested in both sides, as employer/boss and as the employee.

What level of detail do you give or expect when calling in sick to work? Does an employer have the right to inquire as to the cause/severity of the ailment?

Question prompted by an employee calling in today giving far too much detail about their upset stomach to the point that I assumed they were making it up and going over the top to disguise it.

Dr Jekyll

23,820 posts

284 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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As a manager, it depends on whether they are a good worker, in which case I don't care what the issue is I know they wouldn't call in sick without a good reason. Or someone who will take the pi55. In the latter case a back to work interview is the time to grill them enquire sympathetically into their wellbeing.

p4cks

7,349 posts

222 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Dr Jekyll said:
As a manager, it depends on whether they are a good worker, in which case I don't care what the issue is I know they wouldn't call in sick without a good reason. Or someone who will take the pi55. In the latter case a back to work interview is the time to grill them enquire sympathetically into their wellbeing.
This.

When I have anyone on the phone I only need to know two things... what's wrong with you and when do you think you'll be back. Everything else can be discussed at their RTWI as well as supporting the snowflakes to get out of bed more often

djc206

13,411 posts

148 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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My name, my staff number and my expected return date. The nature of the illness goes on the sick form that authorises payment for the days missed which gets filled in upon RTW.

geeks

11,152 posts

162 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Some people overshare in general and some don't.

If they are known for oversharing in general I wouldn't give it much thought, if it is unusual for them to talk that much I would be interested in organising RTWI and subtly implying you know they pulled a fast one.

That also said, if it's their first ever day off and they are otherwise good, I'd leave it alone!

bristolbaron

5,334 posts

235 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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As long as they use their ‘sick voice’ regardless of what’s wrong it’s definitely genuine, right?

xjay1337

15,966 posts

141 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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I've never had to provide the reason.
Not sure I'd be happy to, then again I haven't had a sick day in 3 yrs (some sort of record for me!)

Gary29

4,899 posts

122 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Where I work, there is certainly no 'fairness' in this kind of thing.

There are the same old suspects who seem to have a couple of 'sick' days a month, wild excuses are given, nothing ever gets said. And then there are those who never have any time off sick (5 years and counting for me).


HTP99

24,712 posts

163 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Gary29 said:
Where I work, there is certainly no 'fairness' in this kind of thing.

There are the same old suspects who seem to have a couple of 'sick' days a month, wild excuses are given, nothing ever gets said. And then there are those who never have any time off sick (5 years and counting for me).
Same here; the usual suspects who always seem to be off and then my department (sales) who are rarely off, probably due to being commission based so if you have a day off, you could well lose out, also we are generally made of hardier stuff!!

My manager is ok with a text or WhatsApp as he knows we don't take the piss, however we all have to fill in a back to work form, or whatever it's called, with details of the issue.

Kev_Mk3

3,426 posts

118 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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My manager is great I call in explain i wont be in because of said issue and I will keep him updated with any changes, which i would. I dont take the piddle with sickness and he knows this so is fine. We are meant to phone in daily but depending on whats up my boss lets it slide. Once back in work we have a back to work meeting to discuss and see if they can help in any way. This is good imo as he genuinely wants to help if he can with anything and is aware of any circumstances if he needs to act fast. Realistically if anyone is off due to say kids etc they make the time back rather than have it as sickness which works in everyone's favour.


Where as my last manager would expect a call daily, even when signed off sick would call you daily to see whats going on then grill the f**k out of you putting you on a report like a child once back.

Barga

12,241 posts

229 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Is the RTWI a way to discourage “sickies” or to catch out?
Asking as an employer who doesn’t do RTWI.

M4cruiser

4,896 posts

173 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Most employers / managers do want to know what the ailment is, but actually they have no right to that information.

It comes from the disability legislation, you cannot force someone to disclose their disability, or even if they have one, so forcing someone to reveal what they're off sick with could be seen to be forcing them to reveal the disability. Google this for more info.




p4cks

7,349 posts

222 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Barga said:
Is the RTWI a way to discourage “sickies” or to catch out?
Asking as an employer who doesn’t do RTWI.
Both really.

It demonstrates that your focus is on helping your employees as some may have underlying medical conditions that you're unaware of.

They can also (in extreme cases) help with disciplinary proceedings if you agree to set attendance targets but in my experience there's an incredibly fine line that has to be trodden along if you're going down this route. It can take years!

wiggy001

7,040 posts

294 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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I don't ask for full details, but a category of the illness must be entered into our HR system when they return. I'm rarely off sick but when I am I say roughly what it is and when I expect to be back, just to help set expectations.

Allowing staff to work from home massively reduces the amount of days taken sick in my experience and my place is pretty flexible for that. One of my team (based in Belfast, I'm in London) has quite a bad sick record but is an awesome team member otherwise. Since taking over the team in January I have almost enforced the team to work at home regularly - the work still gets done (they are a 1st line support team) and the level of sickness has gone down (vital in a team of 3).

In 10 years as a consultant working a mix of on client sites and at home (so no daily commute) I was rarely off sick. I do wonder if an expectation of long hours coupled with ever-longer commutes is a factor in sickness levels.

xjay1337

15,966 posts

141 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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To be fair wiggy you hit a valid point, working from home as often as I do (probably 4 days a week on average for the last few years), that certainly helps in terms of not being as tired , groggy feeling , cold-sniffly (so many dirty buggers in offices).


ozzuk

1,397 posts

150 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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"Hi boss, I can't come in today, I'm sick"
"How sick are you?"




"I just shagged my sister".



RedWhiteMonkey

8,677 posts

205 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Not quite calling in sick but my wife’s colleague asked her boss for time off so that said colleague could attend their mother’s funeral. The boss asked her if it was really necessary for her to attend.

Speckle

3,555 posts

239 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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The chap who works for me 'texts' in sick, rather than phoning which I don't like but, the companies staff handbook says he can so, nothing I can do about that. I think if he had to call, there might be fewer 'mysterious' post-weekend stomach bugs and the like.

Having said that, he doesn't get paid for time off sick so perhaps I'm being too cynical.

TonyRPH

13,472 posts

191 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Gary29 said:
Where I work, there is certainly no 'fairness' in this kind of thing.

There are the same old suspects who seem to have a couple of 'sick' days a month, wild excuses are given, nothing ever gets said. And then there are those who never have any time off sick (5 years and counting for me).
Are you one of those people who come to work regardless, and then make those around you ill, or do you just never get poorly?

Because if the former, that would really piss me off if you were a colleague of mine, as I've lost count of the amount of times colleague(s) have come to work full of flu etc. and then promptly made several others around them ill.

I'm particularly prone to catching colds / flu, and when I do it 'knocks me for a six' (e.g. can't function for a day or two), through no fault of my own.


anonymous-user

77 months

Wednesday 10th April 2019
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Too much detail always screams ‘lie’ to me.