Going, gone grey...
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21TonyK

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13,291 posts

238 months

Monday 29th April 2019
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So in my late 20's I started getting a few whisps of silver (dark brown otherwise). By mid 30's it was sides and a few streaks, now late 40's I am "silver" all over.

Wet the hair and add some product and its darker with silver streaks which to me I am comfortable with... yes I know its just vanity.

Is this it or anything else to darken things down a little?

anonymous-user

83 months

Monday 29th April 2019
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Don't worry about it. Mine did that. I now have a full head of white hair.

On the plus side you may not go bald. My family don't and my father and GF both had full heads of hair when they died in their 90s

Ashtray83

588 posts

197 months

Tuesday 30th April 2019
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Same... fought it for a while which was pointless looking back at some old photos I tried to hide it for to long.

markcoznottz

7,155 posts

253 months

Wednesday 1st May 2019
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21TonyK said:
So in my late 20's I started getting a few whisps of silver (dark brown otherwise). By mid 30's it was sides and a few streaks, now late 40's I am "silver" all over.

Wet the hair and add some product and its darker with silver streaks which to me I am comfortable with... yes I know its just vanity.

Is this it or anything else to darken things down a little?
You only have one option if you want to do things properly and that's dye it, either at home or at a salon etc. You will get a new hole ripped on ph for even contemplating this, not popular here. Despite what some think, the newer stuff is very good, and works well.

Bill

58,630 posts

284 months

Wednesday 1st May 2019
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IMO being fat and/or badly dressed ages men far more than the grey.





(48 and going grey, so I might just be deluding myself...)


ETA I can't get away with leaving a haircut as long as I'd like any more though.

Edited by Bill on Wednesday 1st May 16:46

CharlieH89

9,080 posts

194 months

Saturday 4th May 2019
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I'm 29 and I have a streak similar to Pepe le pew's and silver on the sides coming through when my hair grows.
I get a half back and sides which sorts them out for a couple of weeks but it is the sliver or silver on the top that is distinctive if you think of my hair cut similar to a shorter Zac Efron's faux hawk.

Have thought about dying it. Might give it a try sometime. My barber did suggest it a few weeks ago and he is mid 20's.

RC1807

13,673 posts

197 months

Monday 6th May 2019
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Embrace the grey!

I'm blonde but have been going whiter on the sides for some years.... when I get my haircut, and it's usually fairly short anyway, my hairdresser knows it's #1 or #2 clippered on the sides .
I think as hair turnes grey your skin tone changes too, so coloouring hair often means a mismatch vs. skin tone.
(There's a guy at work who wishes he was still early 30s, but he's more mid-late 50s, and his dyed black hair looks almost purple in the office lights. NOT GOOD!)

Mastodon2

14,324 posts

194 months

Monday 6th May 2019
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Blokes colouring their hair, so obvious to everyone except the bloke using the dye. There's nothing undignified about going grey, there's something a bit desperate about trying to halt the inevitable. The unnatural shades, the roots coming in if its not done often enough, it's not a good look.

One of my friends started going grey on the sides in his mid twenties, he used to get his girlfriend to pluck the greys out every night with tweezers. He had to stop once his hair was noticably thin in the back and sides where the grey patches had been plucked away.

Bill

58,630 posts

284 months

Monday 6th May 2019
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My dad used to talk about a boss he had who had a series of slightly longer wigs. Every 8 weeks or so he would announce he was off for a haircut and come in the next day with the shortest.

Don't be that guy! hehe

Trophy Husband

3,924 posts

136 months

Monday 6th May 2019
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I was very dark haired and at 51 am now a dignified silver. I love the silver. Better shiny hair than a shiny head! Go with it. With a good tan it looks quite special!

davhill

5,263 posts

213 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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Combination brown/copper coloured Barnet here, which began whitening
during my early 30s. Grey as a badger (or a badger's tadger) now and couldn't care less.
Like most, I've a one-age hairstyle (70s long) but I can produce a white beard and 'tache now.

My mate calls ne Catweazle now but he's wrong, I've a goatee, not a Van Dyke.

untakenname

5,350 posts

221 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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I've managed to skip grey and go straight to white which isn't that great a look frown

Currently I'd say less than 5% of my hair is white but it's quite noticeable as the rest of my hair is dark brown.

I'm tempted to dye it but as the white hairs seem randomly placed and not just on th e sides I'd have to dye all my hair, in my mid thirties so to be expected I guess.


Steve7777

245 posts

178 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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I’ve got 3 months of paternity leave coming up, and as I won’t be in work to get the piss ripped out of me, I’m thinking about dying my now very grey hair back to something more original.

What’s the best way of doing it? One of those shampoos that does it gradually sounds appealing. Is anyone on here up for posting real before and after photos?

technodup

7,661 posts

159 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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untakenname said:
I've managed to skip grey and go straight to white which isn't that great a look frown

Currently I'd say less than 5% of my hair is white but it's quite noticeable as the rest of my hair is dark brown.

I'm tempted to dye it but as the white hairs seem randomly placed and not just on th e sides I'd have to dye all my hair, in my mid thirties so to be expected I guess.
That's what grey hair is, white mixed in with the normal colour, not literally grey hairs. Or so my hairdresser ex told me anyway.

Either way dying it is tragic imo. I know a couple of guys who do, and I know they do because it looks unnatural and pretty ridiculous. I'm embracing the silver fox look myself.

markcoznottz

7,155 posts

253 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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Steve7777 said:
I’ve got 3 months of paternity leave coming up, and as I won’t be in work to get the piss ripped out of me, I’m thinking about dying my now very grey hair back to something more original.

What’s the best way of doing it? One of those shampoos that does it gradually sounds appealing. Is anyone on here up for posting real before and after photos?
That shampoo doesn't work, I'm amazed they're allowed to advertise it. Don't waste your money. If you are going to do it, you want the old style plain jfm in a box, just that. If your actual hair colour pre gray is close to the dye colour then it will be better, the closer the better. Chuck the disposable gloves they give you away get some nitrile ones. Mix, comb in carefully, wipe any bits immediately of the skin with a damp microfibre cloth, leave 5 minutes, rinse out. Done.

21TonyK

Original Poster:

13,291 posts

238 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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Cheers all, answers my question. Sounds like the answer is keep it short and stick a bit of wax in it to break it up a bit.

Sammo123

2,187 posts

210 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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I’m in my early 30’s and have plenty of greys appearing. They started off along the sides but now they’re sprouting up all over. They don’t really bother me and I have no intention of ever dying my hair. Embrace the silver fox look 👍🏼

Rewe

1,016 posts

121 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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keirik said:
my father and GF both had full heads of hair when they died in their 90s
Condolences for the loss of your girlfriend. frown Had you been together long?

Twig62

763 posts

125 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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markcoznottz said:
That shampoo doesn't work, I'm amazed they're allowed to advertise it. Don't waste your money. If you are going to do it, you want the old style plain jfm in a box, just that. If your actual hair colour pre gray is close to the dye colour then it will be better, the closer the better. Chuck the disposable gloves they give you away get some nitrile ones. Mix, comb in carefully, wipe any bits immediately of the skin with a damp microfibre cloth, leave 5 minutes, rinse out. Done.
The shampoo didn't work for me either. Absolutely no difference to my hair colour by the time I had finished the bottle ! Just For Men works well and I used it for many years, but have given up now and am just letting nature take its course especially as my bald spot is getting bigger and it was a case of chucking good money after bad :-(

colin_p

4,503 posts

241 months

Tuesday 7th May 2019
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I'm also late 40's and cannot wait to become a Silver Fox thumbup

Currently in the salt and pepper stage with things getting more salty as each month passes.