1st visit to gym - advice needed!
1st visit to gym - advice needed!
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tim0409

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5,939 posts

188 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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Hi,

A bit of background - I'm 45, 6ft, 11st 9lb, and for the last six weeks I've been exercising in part to help with depression. I love cycling and swimming, and have been burning 1000 calories a day by doing this 5/7 days a week; I've felt so much better as a result, with the added benefit of shedding 5lb. I eat really healthily (I don't drink or eat refined sugar, which incidentally really helps with my depression). The next step in my masterplan was to visit the gym to build some muscle/definition; I've been putting it off for a while as I've never been inside a gym and I find the idea quite intimidating. I took out a six week membership for a local hotel health spa, mainly for the pool and the fact the gym is probably the least intimidating (I was swimming yesterday and saw a very old lady with two walking sticks with her personal trainer attempting to mount the exercise bike!)

So today I went for my first attempt - I tried the chest press machine first and quickly found I needed the lowest weight (7kg) to complete 10 reps(?), and this quickly confirmed my suspicion that I'm pretty weak having never used these muscles in a very long time. I did slightly better with the leg press, probably due to cycling, but after 45 minutes I left feeling like a big wobbly mess and pretty demoralised.

I take it this is just a matter of perseverance, and will get easier over time? I appreciate that is probably an obvious statement, but any advice would be gratefully received as I don't want to give up. I know that a personal trainer would be a good move but I'd rather not spend the money on that at the moment.

Thanks!

Tim

alabbasi

3,219 posts

116 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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You're doing it wrong. If you're going to spend an hour in the gym. 30 minutes should be in front of the flexing the rest of the time resting on one of the machines so that nobody else uses it.

Joke aside, yes if your body is not used to resistance training , you'll need to start light and work up. It will come quick, just keep at it.

Funky Squirrel

494 posts

101 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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That feeling of wobbly mess is a good thing when leaving the gym. It means your body has had a workout!

Keep at it you will be amazed how quickly your body adapts and becomes stronger.

InitialDave

15,085 posts

148 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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Yes, it will get better/easier, but if you've never done any gym work before, you should probably get some guidance on choice of programme and proper form/technique.

This can be a formal PT session, or doing your own research online and watching YouTube stuff - but be aware, there are a lot of idiots out there who really don't understand what they're talking about.


gregs656

12,350 posts

210 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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You need a structure; a progressive overload program that you can track (on paper, or on your phone).

There are tons of them. How often are you planning to go?


Hoofy

80,044 posts

311 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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It never gets easier. As you get stronger, you just put more weight on so it's just as hard to shift the load. biggrin

Take your time, develop slowly, listen to your body.

boyse7en

8,175 posts

194 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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Are the staff at the gym able to help you with a program? My (council owned) gym will create a free plan for you based on your aims, but then they leave you to get on with it so no extra charge.

The main thing i remember from starting out was totally overdoing it. I then couldn't lift my arms for several days they were so sore.

Hoofy

80,044 posts

311 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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boyse7en said:
Are the staff at the gym able to help you with a program? My (council owned) gym will create a free plan for you based on your aims, but then they leave you to get on with it so no extra charge.

The main thing i remember from starting out was totally overdoing it. I then couldn't lift my arms for several days they were so sore.

tim0409

Original Poster:

5,939 posts

188 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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boyse7en said:
Are the staff at the gym able to help you with a program? My (council owned) gym will create a free plan for you based on your aims, but then they leave you to get on with it so no extra charge.

The main thing i remember from starting out was totally overdoing it. I then couldn't lift my arms for several days they were so sore.
That's pretty much how I feel right now; raising my hands to type this is an effort smile

I will ask at the hotel gym although they are a bit shambolic in terms of organisation. I've just been appointed as a voluntary non exec director of a leisure trust (slightly ironic), which runs 6 leisure centres so will ask around after the first meeting...

magarta

32 posts

123 months

Thursday 15th August 2019
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tim0409 said:
Hi,

A bit of background - I'm 45, 6ft, 11st 9lb, and for the last six weeks I've been exercising in part to help with depression. I love cycling and swimming, and have been burning 1000 calories a day by doing this 5/7 days a week; I've felt so much better as a result, with the added benefit of shedding 5lb. I eat really healthily (I don't drink or eat refined sugar, which incidentally really helps with my depression). The next step in my masterplan was to visit the gym to build some muscle/definition; I've been putting it off for a while as I've never been inside a gym and I find the idea quite intimidating. I took out a six week membership for a local hotel health spa, mainly for the pool and the fact the gym is probably the least intimidating (I was swimming yesterday and saw a very old lady with two walking sticks with her personal trainer attempting to mount the exercise bike!)

So today I went for my first attempt - I tried the chest press machine first and quickly found I needed the lowest weight (7kg) to complete 10 reps(?), and this quickly confirmed my suspicion that I'm pretty weak having never used these muscles in a very long time. I did slightly better with the leg press, probably due to cycling, but after 45 minutes I left feeling like a big wobbly mess and pretty demoralised.

I take it this is just a matter of perseverance, and will get easier over time? I appreciate that is probably an obvious statement, but any advice would be gratefully received as I don't want to give up. I know that a personal trainer would be a good move but I'd rather not spend the money on that at the moment.

Thanks!

Tim
As a beginner I would suggest starting with a 3 day full body workout split. Something like this:

Day 1
Squats
Ham Leg Curl
Decline Bench Press
Lat Pulldown
Military Press
Bicep Curls

Day 2
Romanian Deadlifts
Leg Extensions
Bent over barbell row
Flat Bench Press
Tricep Pushdowns
Side Raises

Day 3
Leg Press
Calf Raise
Incline Bench Press
Low Row
Precher Curls
Tri Extensions

Start light, record your weights and try and add a little each week. You will quickly see improvements with something like this.

Plate spinner

18,084 posts

229 months

Friday 16th August 2019
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My only advice is start very light and work you’re way up.

Nothing more satisfying than selecting the weight you couldn’t previously do.. and finding your body can now do it.

Also remember to eat little and often. When I first started going to the gym, I wasn’t eating more to counter the calories the body was consuming. I’d then feel tired the next day and not have the energy to work out for long.

I’m no expert though, my theory is just perseverance. Good luck though!

Edited by Plate spinner on Saturday 17th August 07:20

V1nce Fox

5,508 posts

97 months

Friday 16th August 2019
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Don't get bogged down worrying about the weight numbers you're moving. There are a lot of different reasons someone might be using lower weights and they're all valid. Guy I fight with is a monster and he often does low weight stuff. It doesn't reflect negatively on you in any way at all.

Keep at it, you've won by walking in there. Good luck dude.

Frenchda

1,343 posts

262 months

Friday 16th August 2019
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Much as the answer to any car related query is a MX5 I will throw in the "magic pill" for the gym!

Stronglifts 5 x 5. Starts very light and increases each session. I have used a few times in the past and found it works very well. Very very good app, well supported facebook group and is very simple.

www.stronglifts.com

JapanRed

1,591 posts

140 months

Friday 16th August 2019
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As a general rule I say do 4 sets per exercise, with 8-15 reps per set.

Start off light for the first 2-3 weeks. On the 4th week go all out.

If you can hit 15 reps increase the weight.
If you can’t quite manage 8 reps then drop the weight.

Feel free to PM me if you want any more advice.