Is lying really rape?
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Ari

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19,779 posts

239 months

Thursday 26th September 2019
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Woman goes to bed with man and willingly has sex with him. Turns out man has lied about having the snip. So now he's (legally) a rapist.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-49127545

Not saying what he did was right, in fact it was very wrong. But people lie all the time, I know of girls who have got 'accidentally pregnant' when it's been very clear that it was done to trap the man. Are those women rapists too..?

Men are constantly being told 'if you don't want to take the risk, bag up'. Different for women?

Evanivitch

26,002 posts

146 months

Thursday 26th September 2019
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Ari said:
But people lie all the time, I know of girls who have got 'accidentally pregnant' when it's been very clear that it was done to trap the man. Are those women rapists too..?
Yes.

Butter Face

34,111 posts

184 months

Venturist

3,472 posts

219 months

Thursday 26th September 2019
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This really pisses me off because it’s just diluting the concept of rape, which should remain considered an abhorrent act. You start lumping in all this kind of stuff (and to be fair should also include the reverse, the “oops forgot my pill now I’m pregnant and I’m keeping it and you’re paying”) and you just give the real victims and real offenders less of the impact that they deserve