MacMillan Nurses.

Poll: MacMillan Nurses.

Total Members Polled: 30

Shrewd business practice: 17%
Rather insensitive: 50%
Coincidence: 33%
Author
Discussion

So

Original Poster:

28,176 posts

251 months

Thursday 7th November 2019
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A family member has cancer and is going in for a major operation in a few days.

She has asked MacMillan Nurses for advice in relation to her condition over the past weeks and has previously been a donor.

This morning she has received a letter from them offering a free will writing service and the opportunity to make Macmillan a beneficiary of it.

She was rather hoping not to die during her operation.

So, which of the above is it?


PostHeads123

1,180 posts

164 months

Friday 8th November 2019
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May be sent in error, but saying that my dad passed away from brain cancer in June and during the last 6 months received both MacMillian and Hospice care, until you are in the thick of it you don't realise how important both are not only for the patient but family as well. My father wasn't in a fit state to change his Will to leave them something but he wanted to and in total we donated over £30k. The reality of it was his end of life was managed by the hospice and Macmillan rather than the NHS directly and I am forever grateful to the care hospice and Macmillan gave to my dad and the family.

Edited by PostHeads123 on Friday 8th November 14:11


Edited by PostHeads123 on Friday 8th November 14:12

SteveR1979

601 posts

170 months

Friday 8th November 2019
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I notice you only have what seem to be negative polling options.

I don't see an issue.

Its a charity, they have to fund somehow. If they had cared for me and given me some dignity in death I'd be happy to be given an opporunity to help pay for the next poor bd who needed them.

So

Original Poster:

28,176 posts

251 months

Friday 8th November 2019
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SteveR1979 said:
I notice you only have what seem to be negative polling options.

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I think option 1 is positive, and coincidence is neutral right?

Wonderman

3,032 posts

224 months

Friday 8th November 2019
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Marketing/ fundraising shouldn't have any access to info on those in active treatment / support so likely to be a general mailshot rather than a targeted letter.

Wacky Racer

41,302 posts

276 months

Friday 8th November 2019
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So said:
A family member has cancer and is going in for a major operation in a few days.

She has asked MacMillan Nurses for advice in relation to her condition over the past weeks and has previously been a donor.

This morning she has received a letter from them offering a free will writing service and the opportunity to make Macmillan a beneficiary of it.

She was rather hoping not to die during her operation.

So, which of the above is it?
Good luck to her, I hope she will be OK.

surveyor

18,690 posts

213 months

Monday 25th November 2019
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My aunt was a District Nurse, when then moved over to Macmillan Nursing.

It was a new degree of hard for her, visiting patients who pretty much without fail were going to die. Some dealing with it better than others. In my view it takes a special kind of person to provide that care and to dismiss an entire organisation which does so much good for the patients is just wrong.

WyrleyD

2,330 posts

177 months

Monday 25th November 2019
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They were superb in looking after my mother when she was in her last days with multiple cancers, were able to give me a break whenever I needed it.

1ians

399 posts

222 months

Monday 25th November 2019
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Genuinely glad to hear about the positive impact they’ve made for people.

I feel annoyance every time I hear their name following a single minor negative interaction with one of their nurses at an emotional time.

Although it does look like they’ve been insensitive again. Hmm.

So

Original Poster:

28,176 posts

251 months

Tuesday 26th November 2019
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1ians said:
Genuinely glad to hear about the positive impact they’ve made for people.

I feel annoyance every time I hear their name following a single minor negative interaction with one of their nurses at an emotional time.

Although it does look like they’ve been insensitive again. Hmm.
I think possibly their commercial side and nursing side are divergent.

They have been quite disrespectful about bombarding me with spam, after I once donated a lump sum. Even after writing to the CEO the almost daily spam continued. But I know their nurses do a good job.

iphonedyou

10,413 posts

186 months

Tuesday 26th November 2019
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I don't believe my FIL could have actually survived without the assistance they rendered during my MIL's last weeks.

A truly fantastic organisation. That relies on private funding to do what they do.

dhutch

17,754 posts

226 months

Wednesday 27th November 2019
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Its not the best of timing, and people are often sensitive about talking about death.

However, its is likely coincidence "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." most things are incompetence rather than conspiracy, and making a will is an important thing to do, and funding has to come from somewhere.

No service is perfect, but they MacMillan Nurses where a lifesaver to my partners family when her father passed away earlier this year.


Daniel