Good Deed of the day!
Good Deed of the day!
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Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Hi All,

Found a wallet at Sainsburys earlier. Driving Licence, Credit Cards, £20 cash.
Young Guy from his pic on the licence.

Asked at customer services if anyone had come in asking about a wallet. While I was giving my details up comes the guy. Quick thanks, perfunctory hand shake, gone! I would be over the moon if someone gave me back my wallet and cards intact!! On New Years Eve as well!! And yes, it was him from the photo, not some chancer overhearing! Ungrateful Prat!!

Turn7

25,720 posts

250 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Karma will reward you....

Ive done the same, and its just nice to know that not EVERY SINGLE person is out to screw you.

Narcisus

9,076 posts

309 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Short Grain said:
Hi All,

Found a wallet at Sainsburys earlier. Driving Licence, Credit Cards, £20 cash.
Young Guy from his pic on the licence.

Asked at customer services if anyone had come in asking about a wallet. While I was giving my details up comes the guy. Quick thanks, perfunctory hand shake, gone! I would be over the moon if someone gave me back my wallet and cards intact!! On New Years Eve as well!! And yes, it was him from the photo, not some chancer overhearing! Ungrateful Prat!!
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?

ninepoint2

4,088 posts

189 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Narcisus said:
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?
Well said, think I know who the prat is here. No wonder society is going tits up with this sort of attitude!!

sheepman

452 posts

189 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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he should have at least offered the £20 in the wallet!!!







wink

foxbody-87

2,675 posts

195 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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I don't really understand. He thanked you and shook your hand and that's a bad thing?

Pica-Pica

16,592 posts

113 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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I stopped to help a guy change a wheel on Christmas Eve. He was in a bit of a state, with the jack not holding on the cobbles. He was a young guy and had damaged his hand doing so, and was having trouble lining the wheel bolts up, So an old fart like me soon sorted him out. He popped a bottle of wine in my wife’s shopping bag.

cj2013

1,409 posts

155 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Did you make sure to film it, then post it on LinkedIn and Facebook?

I say this on the basis that simply doing a "good deed" isn't about being rewarded, but you're implying that you should have received something in return.

To a young person now (early 20's) I imagine losing a wallet isn't a big deal - you can block cards instantly on a banking app, it costs nothing to replace them, and you can use Google/Apple pay and banking apps to access and spend money until they are replaced.

Cudd Wudd

1,118 posts

154 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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cj2013 said:
...I say this on the basis that simply doing a "good deed" isn't about being rewarded...
As Phoebe found out in Friends, there is no such thing as a selfless good deed.

Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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ninepoint2 said:
Narcisus said:
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?
Well said, think I know who the prat is here. No wonder society is going tits up with this sort of attitude!!
Handing in an intact wallet is me having a 'bad attitude'?? A little more enthusiasm wouldn't have gone amiss!! A mumbled Thanks and a Sheldon like handshake is a poor show of gratitude for getting everything back in your wallet on NYE!!

Sorry, has Glacinda the Troll blown you off on NY?? Need to take your mind off it so go on PH to troll?? (poorly i might add!)

Yours Sincerely,
Prat!!

DoubleD

22,154 posts

137 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Narcisus said:
Short Grain said:
Hi All,

Found a wallet at Sainsburys earlier. Driving Licence, Credit Cards, £20 cash.
Young Guy from his pic on the licence.

Asked at customer services if anyone had come in asking about a wallet. While I was giving my details up comes the guy. Quick thanks, perfunctory hand shake, gone! I would be over the moon if someone gave me back my wallet and cards intact!! On New Years Eve as well!! And yes, it was him from the photo, not some chancer overhearing! Ungrateful Prat!!
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?
I was wondering that.

Short Grain

Original Poster:

3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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cj2013 said:
Did you make sure to film it, then post it on LinkedIn and Facebook?

I say this on the basis that simply doing a "good deed" isn't about being rewarded, but you're implying that you should have received something in return.

NO, I didn't want or expect a reward, merely a genuine thank you. Too much to ask??

To a young person now (early 20's) I imagine losing a wallet isn't a big deal - you can block cards instantly on a banking app, it costs nothing to replace them, and you can use Google/Apple pay and banking apps to access and spend money until they are replaced.
And a couple of days of inconvenience sure. And that was avoided at a time when he was obviously looking to have a good NYE!! What would you rather have to do??

Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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foxbody-87 said:
I don't really understand. He thanked you and shook your hand and that's a bad thing?
It was purely the way/speed he did it! Mumbled thanks, a perfunctory handshake and gone! A little enthusiasm for saving him a load of messing on NYE maybe!!
Obviously I expected too much from todays yoof!! I'm almost sorry for doing the right thing with some of the trolls / keyboard warriors on here!!!

Now off to enjoy my NYE! Have a Good'n! beer

Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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sheepman said:
he should have at least offered the £20 in the wallet!!!
wink
Wouldn't have taken it anyway, I didn't do it for a reward, merely doing what I would have done anyway. A more genuine/enthusiastic Thanks would have been nice though!!

Off to beer now, Cheers!! smile

Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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DoubleD said:
Narcisus said:
Short Grain said:
Hi All,

Found a wallet at Sainsburys earlier. Driving Licence, Credit Cards, £20 cash.
Young Guy from his pic on the licence.

Asked at customer services if anyone had come in asking about a wallet. While I was giving my details up comes the guy. Quick thanks, perfunctory hand shake, gone! I would be over the moon if someone gave me back my wallet and cards intact!! On New Years Eve as well!! And yes, it was him from the photo, not some chancer overhearing! Ungrateful Prat!!
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?
I was wondering that.
Answered earlier. See YA beer

Penelope Stopit

11,209 posts

138 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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You did the right thing, it is no big deal, what else could you have done

Remember, never forget, what you did today may well have a knock on effect, the very person you helped today will possibly help someone another day, on and on it goes until most people are doing it, well this is the theory of it

Think on new years day you can walk tall walk straight and look the world right in the eye

Nicely done, you have helped someone rather than leaving them in more trouble

When you are older and lying there dying you will feel no pain, as you take your last breaths you will see everything nice about your life and go out with a big smile on your face

You're a good person and the world right now needs good people


Narcisus

9,076 posts

309 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Short Grain said:
ninepoint2 said:
Narcisus said:
What exactly did you want him to do lol ! ?
Well said, think I know who the prat is here. No wonder society is going tits up with this sort of attitude!!
Handing in an intact wallet is me having a 'bad attitude'?? A little more enthusiasm wouldn't have gone amiss!! A mumbled Thanks and a Sheldon like handshake is a poor show of gratitude for getting everything back in your wallet on NYE!!

Sorry, has Glacinda the Troll blown you off on NY?? Need to take your mind off it so go on PH to troll?? (poorly i might add!)

Yours Sincerely,
Prat!!
rolleyes Just bizarre ! No one said handing it in was bad ….

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Wait, I know what's going on here.

OP sounded excited it was a young man. Ooh.

Waiting for him to be on his knees, show how grateful he is by the sound of it, too.

None of that happened, so that's why he's started the thread. Vent that frustration...

Short Grain

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3,435 posts

249 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Narcisus said:
rolleyes Just bizarre ! No one said handing it in was bad ….
You called me the prat!! wink

Narcisus

9,076 posts

309 months

Tuesday 31st December 2019
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Short Grain said:
Narcisus said:
rolleyes Just bizarre ! No one said handing it in was bad ….
You called me the prat!! wink
Actually I think you will find I did not ….