Travelling a good distance for food
Travelling a good distance for food
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Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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My partner is bloody awkward when it comes to food and will only buy from Marks and Spencers. The nearest M and S is 20 miles away and this is a trip each sunday.

I tell my partner that now they stand every chance of being stopped by the Police and receiving an on the spot fine, of course an argument follows and says that there is nothing in the guidelines about where to do essential food shopping, the local ASDA is half a mile away.

What do you guys think, at risk of a fine or not?

Edited by Parkette on Wednesday 1st April 19:04

Pericoloso

44,044 posts

189 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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If you get fined ,she pays.

That'll learn her.....biggrin

craigjm

20,895 posts

226 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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I’m not in the UK at the moment but I can’t imagine that it has turned into that much of a police state that you can’t drive 20 miles. Of course on the way back you will have the groceries to show so it’s a one way journey you seem worried about. I think they have bigger fish to fry with people going to beaches, having bbqs and parties etc.

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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There are news clips of the Police pulling cars off the road and asking the drivers where are you going and why.

She will do what she wants anyway but my concern is that the coppers will say to her, you live 20 miles away its not an essential for you to make this journey.

Magooagain

12,856 posts

196 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
There are news clips of the Police pulling cars off the road and asking the drivers where are you going and why.

She will do what she wants anyway but my concern is that the coppers will say to her, you live 20 miles away its not an essential for you to make this journey.
And that's all you are concerned about?

ApOrbital

10,549 posts

144 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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I have my letter i can drive where i want if must be.

Riley Blue

23,116 posts

252 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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ApOrbital said:
I have my letter i can drive where i want if must be.
How does help the OP?

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Magooagain said:
And that's all you are concerned about?
a) I will be paying the fine
b) she doesnt need to go, we have food
c) I am trying to fully lock down, I dont want her bringing the virus home

Pothole

34,367 posts

308 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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More reading required. You are unlikely to get fined immediately. Just go, or tell her to stop being such a fussy nonsense. Unless she'll be physically sick eating food from Asda, she's basically Hyacinth Bucket.

Pericoloso

44,044 posts

189 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
a) I will be paying the fine
b) she doesnt need to go, we have food
c) I am trying to fully lock down, I dont want her bringing the virus home
d) Find a shop that sells apostrophes.

I'm not taking this seriously.....tongue out

ApOrbital

10,549 posts

144 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Riley Blue said:
ApOrbital said:
I have my letter i can drive where i want if must be.
How does help the OP?
Not sure i was eating cheese when i posted that.

C70R

17,596 posts

130 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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ApOrbital said:
Riley Blue said:
ApOrbital said:
I have my letter i can drive where i want if must be.
How does help the OP?
Not sure i was eating cheese when i posted that.
Then what were you eating?

(Punctuation is important)

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Pothole said:
More reading required. You are unlikely to get fined immediately. Just go, or tell her to stop being such a fussy nonsense. Unless she'll be physically sick eating food from Asda, she's basically Hyacinth Bucket.
Thank you for the advice, the Hyacinth Bucket comparison isn't too far off the target.

I told her to chill a bit from the fussy nonsense some years ago, she will never change.

For example, I do the laundry and buy household stuff. She said that the washing looked cleaner and smelt better, had I started using a different program on the washing machine. I told her I had stopped using Ariel and now used Lidl detergent, she insisted that I go back to Ariel.

Total biatch at every opportunity,

Gameface

16,565 posts

103 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
She will do what she wants anyway
Then putting it politely, she's extremely selfish, under current conditions.

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Gameface said:
Then putting it politely, she's extremely selfish, under current conditions.
She is extremely selfish under any condition, she will blame anyone and everyone else if she gets fined for the journey including me.

anonymous-user

80 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
a) I will be paying the fine
b) she doesnt need to go, we have food
c) I am trying to fully lock down, I dont want her bringing the virus home
You need to remind her of C as much as you can.
Whilst it could be argued there’s just as much chance picking up the virus in any shop, she isn’t helping in slowing the spread.
Your area “might” be fairly lightly infected at the moment, with the M&S twenty miles away being a cesspit of contamination. Or vice versa.

Edited by anonymous-user on Wednesday 1st April 19:43

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Ok thanks guys, I think the conclusion is that a fine may not be likely but there are far more important considerations, not that she cares.

Pothole

34,367 posts

308 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
Gameface said:
Then putting it politely, she's extremely selfish, under current conditions.
She is extremely selfish under any condition, she will blame anyone and everyone else if she gets fined for the journey including me.
WIIFY?

Parkette

Original Poster:

702 posts

87 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Pothole said:
WIIFY?
Not a reet lot.



Pothole

34,367 posts

308 months

Wednesday 1st April 2020
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Parkette said:
Pothole said:
WIIFY?
Not a reet lot.
Seems like now would be a good time to isolate...from her...