Growing longer hair
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popegregory

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1,915 posts

163 months

Friday 7th August 2020
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I always used to have fairly short hair that was cut every 6-7 weeks, but now it hasn’t been cut in about six months and for quite a while it’s been growing on me (pun intended). Now I’m toying with keeping it long(ish) and was wondering what product people with longer hair use and how they go about styling it.

Yes, I have just read all that back and am still pressing submit!

voyds9

8,490 posts

312 months

Friday 7th August 2020
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Shampoo, conditioner, towel, brush

Einion Yrth

19,575 posts

273 months

Friday 7th August 2020
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voyds9 said:
Shampoo, conditioner, towel, brush
And under no circumstances, ever use a hair dryer. (although these days hair is increasingly something that happens to other people.)

quigonjay

1,860 posts

250 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Had long hair for about 25 years. Previous to that used products on shorter hair, never used any since

LunarOne

7,317 posts

166 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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popegregory said:
Yes, I have just read all that back and am still pressing submit!
Since you're feeling brave, why not show us a photo of you with your hair as it is now. If you're going for the Con Air Nicolas Cage look then I'd say turn back now. If you've got a good beard and the right physique to pull off a Jason Momoa, then I say go for it! Your wife probably won't be thrilled though!

Funkmachine7

81 posts

133 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Glasses to keep the tips from stabbing you in the eyes.

jdw100

5,488 posts

193 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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what's wrong with you man?

get yourself to the barbers for a short back & sides.

good lord!


Pat H

8,058 posts

285 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Frizz Ease to, erm, ease the frizz.

And step away from the hair drier.

hippy

StevieBee

15,313 posts

284 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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My daughter read that shampoo and conditioner damage your hair and you get a better barnet if you just run water through it. This does mean you have endure two or three weeks of greasy hair and scratchy head but soon enough the natural oils start to condition it. She gave it a go at the start of lockdown and I have to say, it works very well. From nothing other than a water wash, she has stunning looking hair!

I have longish hair. I just use whatever shower gel I happen to have, blob of moose and let it dry naturally.

softtop

3,172 posts

276 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Which way is Mumsnet? laugh

Scrump

23,933 posts

187 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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StevieBee said:
I have longish hair. I just use whatever shower gel I happen to have, blob of moose and let it dry naturally.
Looks like a bit more than just a blob.


whistle

ambuletz

11,751 posts

210 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Einion Yrth said:
voyds9 said:
Shampoo, conditioner, towel, brush
And under no circumstances, ever use a hair dryer. (although these days hair is increasingly something that happens to other people.)
all of this is wrong.

it really depends on what your hair is like.


shampoo and conditioner yes. never use the 2in1 stuff. depending on your hair it might be good to get a leave in conditioner or oils. as for a hair dryer, you can use one...again it depends on your hair type. just don't be blasting it on high with hot air.

bigandclever

14,356 posts

267 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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No one likes a show off, coming here with your ‘I can grow hair on my head’ bragging.

Vincecj

498 posts

152 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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I use the 2-1. Is that why I'm going grey? Sorry I'm sideways!

98elise

32,573 posts

190 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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voyds9 said:
Shampoo, conditioner, towel, brush
Conditioner?

anonymous-user

83 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Wheres Mat777 / ChemicalChaos? He'll get you out of a long haired bond with style and sophistication.

You'll need white jeans, cowboy boots and hat to team it with next. He's good at that, too.

V1nce Fox

5,508 posts

97 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Long hair most of my adult life. It's currently a bit longer than collarbone length. Once it's over a certain length, most products aren't going to make a lot of difference. Couple of things I have learnt over the years tho:

1. Always at least have stubble or preferably some form of beard. Failure to do this can result in looking like a cruise ship drag act on their night off.

2. You are allowed to tie it up higher if it's really hot. Just tell people to fk off.

3. The amount of women who like blokes with long hair is quite reduced. Best I can work out it's like blokes who like women with short hair; it happens, but less often.

I've only ever been comfy with long hair and a beard, but if you're growing it out now be patient. And under no circumstance undercut the sides. Once you do that you're on countdown to chopping the lot off.


ETA I agree about not using a hairdryer. Also, conditioner isn't necessary if you have a good shampoo and don't use too much.

Edited by V1nce Fox on Saturday 8th August 15:18

CubanPete

3,803 posts

217 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Main 'n' Tail shampoo and a Verticoli brush

C n C

3,913 posts

250 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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quigonjay said:
Had long hair for about 25 years. Previous to that used products on shorter hair, never used any since
StevieBee said:
My daughter read that shampoo and conditioner damage your hair and you get a better barnet if you just run water through it. This does mean you have endure two or three weeks of greasy hair and scratchy head but soon enough the natural oils start to condition it. She gave it a go at the start of lockdown and I have to say, it works very well. From nothing other than a water wash, she has stunning looking hair!
^^^^
This.

Had long hair for 30 years, and although I used to use a little shampoo, for the last 20+ years just run water through it, towel dry, then brush it and leave to fully dry naturally (don't go anywhere near a hairdryer).

I guess that saves quite a bit on shampoo etc over the years.
Also I've not been to the barber for 30 years - Mrs C&C just trims a couple of inches off the end every few months.
Lengthwise, it's just below shoulder length, and I'll usually have it in a ponytail - especially for work (IT Manager).

As has also been mentioned by several posters, I'd agree it looks better with a beard, which I've also had for 30 years. These days the hair's getting very grey, and the beard is nearly white, but I'm not planning on changing either anytime soon. smile

djcube

545 posts

99 months

Saturday 8th August 2020
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Not cut my hair for about 10 years, wanted to see how long it would get. Answer is just about to my shoulders. Actually I do cut it, just around my temples, that hair refuses to grow no more than a couple of inches so I trim when I'm doing my beard, which is short, long stubble really.

I need to tie my hair back out of the way, I do it two ways with a third occasionally for a change, that way is a bit girly apparently. And an alice band sometimes.