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Sohaib-ijiiv

Original Poster:

363 posts

93 months

Thursday 27th August 2020
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I find myself in a position where I have a stable job I started 2+ months back but have an offer of another one.

Both have pros and cons and I've been thinking hard about it and I cannot make my mind up so I turn to PH for advice.

Current job pros are:

Pays well
100% stable
My manager is great
Company is going strength to strength

Cons:

It is very boring and I'm light on work most of the time, it's mind numbing
I'm doing work I did at the start of my career
Will have to commute via train once we all return to the office
CEO is controversial and has clearly said money>people regarding covid19

The offer pros:

Pays well
Also 100% stable
I'd be the first through the door doing what I do and would be leading it
Commute will be via car once we return to the office
Growing business

Cons:

Owner is a bit erratic
No one above me to learn from
Business is stable but has poor reviews from customers (around 11% are negative)
Longer working hours (30 mins a day)
Owner works 18 hour days and I get the inkling he expects the same to a degree from employees
Out of hours contact is very much on the table

Money wise the new one is paying approx £500 more per month.

Would love to get others opinion on the matter.


StevieBee

14,801 posts

278 months

Thursday 27th August 2020
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These sort of posts tend always to need more insight than can be given on such a platform but if you're looking for an 'on the basis of what you've written' reply then go for option 2.

Embrace the challenge, ride the wave.... you'll only develop if you push yourself outside of what's comfortable.

Good luck,




Ninja59

3,691 posts

135 months

Thursday 27th August 2020
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Honestly, I would stay put.

It might be 30 minutes extra on the contract, but it would concern me if the owner is erratic and does 18 hour days and sort of makes it sound like everyone must be doing as much as "me".

Having worked for someone like that, well frankly put, never again. That particular "character" nearly drove me to breaking point, until I flat out refused to do anything out of hours (in my review meeting no less), I left for that and various other reasons soon after. But this was a particular moment of where our working relationship became fractured.

All in all, whilst I respected him initially, personally I have little to do with him now and have little respect for him as a result.

Drezza

1,465 posts

77 months

Thursday 27th August 2020
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I'd stay put, sod working more than my contractual hours for a slave driver, I value my time too much for that. Risky time to be chopping and changing jobs too.

fuzzyyo

371 posts

184 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Always have to remember that the owner of 2 will be putting in those hours because his company (and therefore his bank balance) will directly benefit from it. You have to ask yourself if you're going to be expected to regularly doing similar amounts of overtime, is the benefit back to you of the new job worth it.

philwhite

261 posts

204 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Having worked in a 'salaryman' environment before it's just not worth the stress. Being called a part timer for working your contracted hours or criticised for using all your holiday entitlement wears thin after a while. I'd stay put especially given the current environment.

smashing

1,613 posts

184 months

Friday 28th August 2020
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Ninja59 said:
Honestly, I would stay put.

It might be 30 minutes extra on the contract, but it would concern me if the owner is erratic and does 18 hour days and sort of makes it sound like everyone must be doing as much as "me".

Having worked for someone like that, well frankly put, never again. That particular "character" nearly drove me to breaking point, until I flat out refused to do anything out of hours (in my review meeting no less), I left for that and various other reasons soon after. But this was a particular moment of where our working relationship became fractured.

All in all, whilst I respected him initially, personally I have little to do with him now and have little respect for him as a result.
Mine did drive me to breaking point...never again. My favourite was chasing calls and emails on Christmas day...guy had 0 life and basically expected everyone else to also have 0 life.

CourtAgain

3,777 posts

87 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Better the Devil you know...

In this climate, not worth the aggro, even if the job is 'mind numbing'... it's better than getting burnt out by a bad employer. Although reviews aren't everything, if there's a high staff turnover, it's a sign something isn't quite correct. Make the most of your current role before the Second Wave of Covid in winter.

irocfan

46,444 posts

213 months

Saturday 29th August 2020
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Number 1 - no question. If you were working for yourself then it's your choice to do 18 hour days. Doing said days because the boss/owner expects everyone to work the same as him is a no-no (unless there's a possibility of partnership for example)

covmutley

3,287 posts

213 months

Tuesday 1st September 2020
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You haven't been in job 1 long. Are they just easing you in gently?

Unless your role is a highy defined one, Perhaps you will be given more and better stuff to work on??

TheGreatDane

Original Poster:

363 posts

93 months

Wednesday 2nd September 2020
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Hmm general consensus is pretty clear.

In terms of easing me in, no its basically what I will be doing for the foreseeable.

It's on par salary wise with my previous job, but responsibilities and scope have taken a massive downgrade - Job 2 would put those back in line + an additional £10k.

Most of the day I'm twiddling thumbs and it's making me go a bit mad.

AndrewO

679 posts

206 months

Wednesday 2nd September 2020
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Go for No2 smile

Work long hours if needed...learn and keep moving every 2yrs. Or stay and learn something new in your spare time to fill in the gaps.....then leave.

anonymous-user

77 months

Thursday 3rd September 2020
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I've done No1 ; mind-numbing.

I've also done No2 ; owner/manager who works all hours, has management meetings that go on until 10 at night and calls me on a Sunday to talk about stock reports.

Both have a detrimental effect on a persons well-being.

I assume the extra money quoted is gross so how much will you actually pick-up.

For what it's worth, I would go for mind-numbing because it gives the opportunity to immerse yourself in your own thoughts during the day and have time to do 'other' things, as long as you have internet access without being over-looked. It's how I found a few good forums to read. If it's mind-numbing you can always up your output to make up for browsing time.



amusingduck

9,608 posts

159 months

Friday 4th September 2020
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Sohaib-ijiiv said:
Cons:
No one above me to learn from
That's a hidden pro, if you ask me smile

There's no better way to learn than to have a task that needs doing and nobody has a clue how to achieve it.

TheGreatDane

Original Poster:

363 posts

93 months

Friday 4th September 2020
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It would be an additional £500 net to me per month.

I spoke with the owner of 2 and I mentioned my concerns candidly, his answer was he doesn't expect anyone to do late work or on weekends but if poo hits fan, then yes I will have to - which he said is 1-2 times a year.


dundarach

5,962 posts

251 months

Friday 4th September 2020
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Stay

But I suspect you'll end up going smile

TheGreatDane

Original Poster:

363 posts

93 months

Friday 4th September 2020
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I'm leaning towards 2, won't deny that.

More so than the money its the added responsibilities, being head of a department that I can build myself + no more public transport once things return to normal.

Will think it over the weekend.

mercedeslimos

1,843 posts

192 months

Saturday 5th September 2020
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The only downside to 2 seems to be the when st hits the fan times. Twice a year my arse. I get asked by my boss to do extra bits and pieces often during the busy summer season. I get extra pay over and above the standard hourly rate, and it is appreciated. I get the feeling with you it would be like it or leave instead, and once or twice becomes regularly. Couldn't hack that for an extra monkey.

sociopath

3,433 posts

89 months

Saturday 5th September 2020
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It doesnt work for everyone, but I never stayed anywhere long, always moved on, never regretted it.

My wife on the other hand stayed in the same company for 30 years (the blue oval one).

In my view it depends what sort of person you are, but if you've got itchy feet now, what will it be like with a year of mind numbing tedium added in?