Hygiene issue with work collegue
Hygiene issue with work collegue
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whitesocks

Original Poster:

1,006 posts

68 months

Thursday 10th December 2020
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How do you approach a work collegue who's hygiene is less then adequate?

I work with a bloke who reeks of B.O (Seriously, it's fking awful) and others at work have begun to notice and complain. He seems to have ignored a couple of warnings about it before, but nothing really seems to be sinking in. How would you deal with this? And have you ever had a work collegue with questionable hygiene in the past?

Drezza

1,465 posts

76 months

Thursday 10th December 2020
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Buy him a Lynx Africa for his secret santa

craigjm

20,414 posts

222 months

Thursday 10th December 2020
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Raise it with his manager and let them deal with it.

bearman68

4,915 posts

154 months

Thursday 10th December 2020
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At every opportunity shout out, "fk me man you stink". No point beating about the bush, get it out there, and well known. Sorted!!.

anonymous-user

76 months

Thursday 10th December 2020
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The civil service would promote him to another department so he becomes someone else's problem.

Drumroll

4,361 posts

142 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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Awkward one, if we are honest most of us don't realize when we "hum" a little.

Are you in a managerial role? if not raise the issue with your manager and let him deal with it.

If you are a manager then you will need to discuss it with him, but don't be confrontational about it. There could well be a medical reason for it. kidney or liver disease for example, as well as the obvious one of being overweight.

It could be they have issues at home etc.

Or it could just be poor personal hygiene.


(or he could have covid, one of the symptoms is lack of smell, or it is their way to keep people away from them (joke))


shed driver

2,873 posts

182 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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A few years ago I had to have the same talk to one of my colleagues, turns out he had been kicked out of his home and was living in his car.

His work didn't deteriorate, but could only get showered and wash his clothes on his days off as his mother lived 2 hours away.

Then asking if everything is okay with him and then gently broach the subject of hygiene. He may not realise. Has he had Covid? Loss of the sense of smell is common.

SD.

Bullet-Proof_Biscuit

1,058 posts

99 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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We had exactly as above in 2014, he was living in a second generation Vauxhall Astra in faded red.

Hugo Stiglitz

40,540 posts

233 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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I had this. A top lad as well. I just approached him discreetly. He thought I was joking at first which made it uncomfortable but it worked.

whitesocks

Original Poster:

1,006 posts

68 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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Cheers for the suggestions

I'm not management, but I can have a word with my store Manager about him.

mickyh7

2,347 posts

108 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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Drumroll said:
Awkward one, if we are honest most of us don't realize when we "hum" a little.

Are you in a managerial role? if not raise the issue with your manager and let him deal with it.

If you are a manager then you will need to discuss it with him, but don't be confrontational about it. There could well be a medical reason for it. kidney or liver disease for example, as well as the obvious one of being overweight.

It could be they have issues at home etc.

Or it could just be poor personal hygiene.


(or he could have covid, one of the symptoms is lack of smell, or it is their way to keep people away from them (joke))
I can assure you that if you shower every day, use Deodorant, and change your clothes when appropriate.
You will not 'Hum' And you will know you do not 'Hum'
It's totally unacceptable to have to work with these people.
Management must earn their wages when this happens.
It happened once here.
You knew the Guy had been in a room 20 minutes after he had left!
He is now 'Sorted'

craigjm

20,414 posts

222 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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whitesocks said:
Cheers for the suggestions

I'm not management, but I can have a word with my store Manager about him.
It’s the only sensible thing to do. Some of the other suggestions here will just make the situation worse or get you in to trouble but then what else do you expect with PH “advice”

Autopilot

1,333 posts

206 months

Friday 11th December 2020
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When social distancing stops, tell him it still applies to him.

Joking aside, had a similar position before and in that instance resulted in him going to the Docs as he claimed he showered every morning but stank by the time he came in to work. It did get sorted though as it was bad!!! The whole office could smell him from all four corners.

klan8456

963 posts

97 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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This kind of stuff is delicate, and is exactly why HR exists. Use them.

craigjm

20,414 posts

222 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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klan8456 said:
This kind of stuff is delicate, and is exactly why HR exists. Use them.
The OP suggests he works with, not the manager of the individual, The correct route is to raise it with his manager and then for his manager to deal with it in partnership with HR not for him to go to HR directly. In many companies HR will only communicate with managers.

anonymous-user

76 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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craigjm said:
Raise it with his manager and let them deal with it.
This.

I used to work in an office with a really fat guy called 'Big Mike', and he was about 55 years old and enormous. He had that horrific 'fat person smell'. You know the one. That really tangy stench that smells like a cross between chopped onions and B.O, with a slight dribble of piss added in.

It was really awful.

Thankfully he worked on a different floor to me, but the other people he sat near always complained about him when they came up to our floor.

Eventually after several of them had complained to his manager about the working conditions being 'unsuitable because of Mike', the manager had words with him.

I don't think it went very well because Big Mike was a belligerent sort, and nothing was ever his fault. He started throwing all sorts of accusations of bullying at the management and claiming he had medical conditions that made him fat, and they had to make allowances for them.

It got a bit messy, he realised everyone around him had probably complained, and then he eventually left.

So yeah, it can get really tricky so best left to the persons line manager.

whitesocks

Original Poster:

1,006 posts

68 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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Update -

Said co-worker was pulled into a meeting with members of management today to 'discuss' his cleanliness issues.


untakenname

5,248 posts

214 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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klan8456 said:
This kind of stuff is delicate, and is exactly why HR exists. Use them.
Yep go via HR, worked with someone who smelt due to a medical issue and another colleague called them out on it in front of others so was fired.

lyonspride

2,978 posts

177 months

Monday 14th December 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
This.

I used to work in an office with a really fat guy called 'Big Mike', and he was about 55 years old and enormous. He had that horrific 'fat person smell'. You know the one. That really tangy stench that smells like a cross between chopped onions and B.O, with a slight dribble of piss added in.

It was really awful.

Thankfully he worked on a different floor to me, but the other people he sat near always complained about him when they came up to our floor.

Eventually after several of them had complained to his manager about the working conditions being 'unsuitable because of Mike', the manager had words with him.

I don't think it went very well because Big Mike was a belligerent sort, and nothing was ever his fault. He started throwing all sorts of accusations of bullying at the management and claiming he had medical conditions that made him fat, and they had to make allowances for them.

It got a bit messy, he realised everyone around him had probably complained, and then he eventually left.

So yeah, it can get really tricky so best left to the persons line manager.
F**k me, do people have nothing better to complain about?
And I know the answer because I worked in an office for 6 years, those people had NOTHING to complain about, but they still found something, no matter how trivial.
Many years ago I spent 3 years in an electronics factory, it was noisy, always full of solder flux fumes, where people weren't allowed to go to the damn toilet between breaks, and drink? coffee? food? at your desk? Not a chance........ So you can understand why I get irate at whiny pencil pushers complaining about arbitrary sh*t.


roadsmash

2,667 posts

92 months

Tuesday 15th December 2020
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“You smell fking disgusting.”