'Mother' banned by University
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LordGrover

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34,080 posts

236 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Let's hope this is an exaggeration or misinterpreted.

According to The Spectator -- From now on gender-neutral terms are in vogue in Manchester, which means that ‘man’, ‘woman’, ‘mother’ and ‘father’ are no longer appropriate for use in university materials, to be replaced by ‘individuals’ and ‘guardians’.

Where will it end? scratchchin

anonymous-user

78 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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How would you describe an absent or deceased parent then?

"I'm sorry, I don't know my 'individual whose life choice was not to be my guardian despite being my birth giver'".

eldar

24,902 posts

220 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Personchester University?

anonymous-user

78 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Potentially, but Manchester is actually a very early example of a transgender city.

Named after a mammary gland shaped hill, but calls itself 'Man'.

deckster

9,631 posts

279 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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LordGrover said:
Let's hope this is an exaggeration or misinterpreted.

According to The Spectator -- From now on gender-neutral terms are in vogue in Manchester, which means that ‘man’, ‘woman’, ‘mother’ and ‘father’ are no longer appropriate for use in university materials, to be replaced by ‘individuals’ and ‘guardians’.

Where will it end? scratchchin
Well it's an opinion column from Steerpike in the Spectator, so we can be pretty sure that it's not a dispassionate examination of the facts.

And letters that got sent home from my school back in the 80s were always addressed to "parent/guardian" not "mother and father" so I'm not quite sure what the issue is.

Register1

2,279 posts

118 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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What the f is it all coming to.
Bent seems to be the way now.

Red9zero

10,552 posts

81 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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What day is it on Sunday then ?

NextSlidePlease

6,108 posts

165 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Not sure what to think of that, who is getting offended by the terms man, woman, mother and father enough for them to apply these changes?

I am all for modern inclusive society but for those that dont fall into existing terms or categories create some new ones, refer to yourself however you want, have your own section of cards in clintons, have at it, but there will always be men and women, and mothers and fathers no matter how hard people try to erase the terms from society.





BoRED S2upid

20,983 posts

264 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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That’s all well and good until someone tries to write anything using such guidance and it becomes complete nonsense.

JeffreyD

6,155 posts

64 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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BoRED S2upid said:
That’s all well and good until someone tries to write anything using such guidance and it becomes complete nonsense.
If you read the actual guidance linked in the article it seems remarkably straightforward and sensible.

Still, mission accomplished as I clicked, some piss was nicely warmed and the agenda propagated.


Electro1980

8,933 posts

163 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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FFS, how about following the link and reading the source before getting all offended?

All they have done is updated the university style guide and advise that, where possible, gender neutral terms are used.

It’s not a ban. It’s not an attempt to stop anything other than unthinking use of outdated terms. It’s just an attempt to make people think about the wording they are using.

LordGrover

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Thursday 11th March 2021
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JeffreyD said:
If you read the actual guidance linked in the article it seems remarkably straightforward and sensible.

Still, mission accomplished as I clicked, some piss was nicely warmed and the agenda propagated.
Guidance

I guess it depends on how strict adherents become and whether dissenters will be admonished.

warch

2,941 posts

178 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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We were using gender neutral terms when I was an undergraduate in 1996 so I wouldn't worry too much about this.

There is a certain amount of sense to it. I was recently writing a publication about the memorialisation of the First World War. Initially I was going to use the period correct term 'serviceman' to refer to the people who are memorialised but I did a bit of research and discovered that quite a few memorials also included women, so went with 'service personnel' instead.

Randy Winkman

20,994 posts

213 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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LordGrover said:
JeffreyD said:
If you read the actual guidance linked in the article it seems remarkably straightforward and sensible.

Still, mission accomplished as I clicked, some piss was nicely warmed and the agenda propagated.
Guidance

I guess it depends on how strict adherents become and whether dissenters will be admonished.
I agree that from what I can tell it seems very reasonable. Not like in the old days when we would have simply have been told "get your mother to sew a name tag into your jumper", "ask your father to make you X", "show this letter to your mother and father". That's obviously not good guidance for tutors and never was.

Colonel Cupcake

1,342 posts

69 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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eldar said:
Personchester University?
Don't you mean Perdaughterchester University?

Son implies man and aren't all men evil?

TriumphStag3.0V8

5,153 posts

105 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Electro1980 said:
FFS, how about following the link and reading the source before getting all offended?

All they have done is updated the university style guide and advise that, where possible, gender neutral terms are used.

It’s not a ban. It’s not an attempt to stop anything other than unthinking use of outdated terms. It’s just an attempt to make people think about the wording they are using.
So If I am understanding this correctly, "Mother" and "Father" are outdated terms?

selym

9,573 posts

195 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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TriumphStag3.0V8 said:
Electro1980 said:
FFS, how about following the link and reading the source before getting all offended?

All they have done is updated the university style guide and advise that, where possible, gender neutral terms are used.

It’s not a ban. It’s not an attempt to stop anything other than unthinking use of outdated terms. It’s just an attempt to make people think about the wording they are using.
So If I am understanding this correctly, "Mother" and "Father" are outdated terms?
I'm open to change - if only to avoid being hoiked up on a crucifix come the revolution - but I'd like some examples of unthinking use of outdated terms; if I know someone who identifies as something else other than their birth 'type' then out of courtesy I'd use the correct description. If I don't know about the personal choices and identities of a large group of people, a student body maybe, I'm sure it couldn't be regarded as unthinking if I use the traditional terms?

JuanCarlosFandango

9,557 posts

95 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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Electro1980 said:
It’s not a ban. It’s not an attempt to stop anything other than unthinking use of outdated terms. It’s just an attempt to make people think about the wording they are using.
That's what I find irritating about it. The unthinking use of outdated terms is how a language develops The deliberate use of politically loaded terms is an attempt to impose a certain world view by loading the language with values such as, from the guidance "race and ethnicity are social constructs", "gender can be fluid" and "Groups of individuals from the same religion should be referred to as a community."

As though it were self evident that these things are true. As though addressing "ladies and gentlemen" was somehow oppressive bullying likely to send an otherwise happy trans person into a tailspin of depression. As though the "Muslim community" from Nigeria to Iran to Indonesia is somehow aligned in its interests, or as though calling a man who is chairing a meeting a chairman is going to dash the hopes of ambitious young women and make them decide to be housewives instead.

I agree with being broadly neutral in things like using first or given name instead of Christian name on official forms. It's a simple recognition that not everyone filling in that form will be a Christian. Demanding that everyone buys into their values on race, gender and identity and expresses this in clumsy and loaded language is a different thing altogether.

Terminator X

19,635 posts

228 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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How will they deal with Shorpe?

TX.

JeffreyD

6,155 posts

64 months

Thursday 11th March 2021
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TriumphStag3.0V8 said:
So If I am understanding this correctly, "Mother" and "Father" are outdated terms?
No

You use the term "parent/guardian" and then once you know the person involved you can move to less general language.

It's not rocket science and it's very easy to achieve with a little thought.