Wearing a mask to collect your kid from primary school
Wearing a mask to collect your kid from primary school
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Seanrof

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280 posts

84 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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A few weeks ago , my lads headteacher sent out a letter reccommending that parents wear a mask when collecting and dropping off their kids.
As it was reccommended only, I was one of only a handful that didn't.
I didnt see the point as you walk by yourself across the playground to where the kids are waiting, and yours is then ushered towards you, and you both walk out through the car park. Kids don't wear them, the teachers don't wear them.
When I picked my lad up Friday, I counted only one other dad not wearing one. As I got near to my son, the head teacher turned and looked at me. I said good afternoon and she looked visibly put out, and just smiled back.
Yesterday in her weekly letter, she has now announced that masks for parents are mandatory as soon as we walk through the gates. At no time fo we go in the building, and people keep their distance from each other , so In an open air environment with teachers not wearing them, how an this be compulsory ?
To add that the school work sent out over the last 3 months of lockdown was a disgrace at his school compared to others, this has just made my p 1ss boil.

Angpozzuto

1,092 posts

133 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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You're only being asked to wear a mask, it's not like they're asking you to get shafted by a horse. I don't understand why people are so bothered by a bloody mask

foliedouce

3,094 posts

255 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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We’re not allowed on the school grounds of my daughter’s primary school, we have to wait at a certain gate (they’ve created 4 of them for different years). The head sent an email to ask that we ensure adherence to social distancing whilst we wait (although a fair few parents don’t seem to bother), the kids are then brought to the gate when it’s time to leave. No mention of masks

In regards to your question, then I guess they can mandate whatever they want on school property, and they want to be overly careful so they can’t be blamed if there’s a Covid case, I get that, it’s the way the world seems to work these days, it takes 1 case and an unhappy parent to start a legal case that the school didn’t show a duty of care.

If you object that much, then why not just pick him up from the gate and not go into school property?

CharlieGee

159 posts

139 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Her mistake was in only 'recommending' it to start with, she'll be getting it in the neck from parents who have opted in but can see others who haven't. I do agree that wearing masks in the situation you describe is unnecessary, and she can't make you, but she can ban you from the site.

a311

6,202 posts

201 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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They've always been required at my daughter's school premises since return in September. Similar scenario to yours you don't go anywhere near any staff and you're stood outside with other parents, while they've staggered start and finish times any distancing from other parents is difficult.

Compliance is high accept the lanyard wearers. A bit like wearing one in a supermarket I don't like doing it mainly due to the fact that wearing a peice of cloth vs a properly fitted mask does bugger all-if they were so effective why the autumn/winter resurgence. If it makes the staff etc feel a bit safer I'll do it. Hope they go completely this year though.

bitchstewie

64,412 posts

234 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Because it's their property so it's their rules.

It's two minutes out of your day.

Just wear one.

Douglas Quaid

2,616 posts

109 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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They sent an email telling us to do it at my kids school. Thankfully there are other people that don’t do it either. It’s all theatre and completely pointless to wear a mask outside in a playground.

Funny username

1,500 posts

199 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Douglas Quaid said:
They sent an email telling us to do it at my kids school. Thankfully there are other people that don’t do it either. It’s all theatre and completely pointless to wear a mask outside in a playground.
Assuming the school services under 11’s who aren’t subject to mask wearing by law, it’s all a load of theatre.

So my 6 year old spends all day in a classroom, no mask but when I have to pick up, I have to wear one for approximately 2 minutes? Wtf. Kids exempt from catching/spreading?

Fluid

1,750 posts

209 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Private property. Her school, so her rules.

Short Grain

3,432 posts

244 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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As stated, they're in charge so their rules. 2 Minutes wearing a mask, or wait outside the gates. Not really hard is it? Do you wear one to go into shops that require them, to buy something you want?

frisbee

5,492 posts

134 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Turn up wearing a plastic bag over your head, joking and laughing about how much fun it is. Complying with their rules while setting a terrible example for the kids.

Ntv

5,177 posts

147 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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They are depending on the A’s yet unpublished evidence showing masks are really good at stoping the spread outdoors

Or they are just being woke clowns


CoolHands

22,375 posts

219 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Wear this, with a mask underneath so they can’t chuck you out in case they check haha


Hub

6,998 posts

222 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Is it that hard? Just do it!

Same at my daughter's school for months, it's only a few minutes a day and it can get quite crowded around drop off and pick up times. They work hard to keep the schools running and the kids learning, and any cases will mean whole bubbles having to isolate so they want to prevent that if they can.

Shnozz

30,138 posts

295 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Pointless or not, I really don’t get why the U.K. are so intolerant to sticking a mask on their face for a few minutes every so often. On the continent these have been mandatory outside of ones home non stop and it’s complied with by the majority. In the U.K. many seem compelled to post on the internet or question the policies of any institution that dare suggest visitors to their property must comply. I’d far rather a school to any children I had exercised excess caution than the other way.

Pothole

34,367 posts

306 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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First world problem. Stop whining and mask up, OP.

danllama

5,728 posts

166 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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Seanrof said:
A few weeks ago , my lads headteacher sent out a letter reccommending that parents wear a mask when collecting and dropping off their kids.
As it was reccommended only, I was one of only a handful that didn't.
I didnt see the point as you walk by yourself across the playground to where the kids are waiting, and yours is then ushered towards you, and you both walk out through the car park. Kids don't wear them, the teachers don't wear them.
When I picked my lad up Friday, I counted only one other dad not wearing one. As I got near to my son, the head teacher turned and looked at me. I said good afternoon and she looked visibly put out, and just smiled back.
Yesterday in her weekly letter, she has now announced that masks for parents are mandatory as soon as we walk through the gates. At no time fo we go in the building, and people keep their distance from each other , so In an open air environment with teachers not wearing them, how an this be compulsory ?
To add that the school work sent out over the last 3 months of lockdown was a disgrace at his school compared to others, this has just made my p 1ss boil.
Just ignore it. All the people telling you to just do it also think it's acceptable to force a vaccine into your arm against your wishes. Disgusting people.

Edited by danllama on Sunday 21st March 08:31

andy43

12,611 posts

278 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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OMG that’s awful.
I can only suggest a letter to the governors followed by pulling your kids out to homeschool them instead.

bitchstewie

64,412 posts

234 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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danllama said:
Just ignore it. All the people telling you to just do it also think it's acceptable to force a vaccine into your arm against your wishes. Disgusting people.
No they don't.

But if you want to come into my house you're going to do so according to my rules even if you disagree with them.

It's not a difficult concept.

CoolHands

22,375 posts

219 months

Sunday 21st March 2021
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To all the pros, a school is not a headteacher’s own personal fiefdom