Neighbour throwing eggs
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wjwren

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4,484 posts

164 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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My 40 yr old neighbour was throwing eggs the other night. My daughter had an 18th party around 10 friends round. 2 Sonos one speakers on which I'd limited the volume to 60%. At 11pm the neighbour lent over the fence and told them to shut the F up. Then lobbed an egg. We had a BBQ in the summer and had eggs thrown and couldn't work out where they were from.
Should I stock up on eggs?

Rtype

366 posts

134 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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I'd stock up on bacon and baguettes!

mickyh7

2,347 posts

115 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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Just make less noise.
Or invite the neighbours.

monthou

5,338 posts

79 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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It's my son's 18th on Saturday. He's expecting about 10 mates. If he's in the garden playing loud music at 11pm he'll get more than eggs thrown at him.

Wills2

29,572 posts

204 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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He shouldn't be throwing things but clearly you're annoying him (and I'd wager not for the first/second time) with your noise and 11pm is probably a good time to stop playing loud music outside.

Go speak to him and resolve the situation I also think inviting people round or at least telling them before hand and saying if it's too loud please come and tell us etc..stops people getting upset and thinking you're taking the piss.


Antony Moxey

10,692 posts

248 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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I think I would get REALLY childish at egg throwing. I don’t mind being asked to turn down music and would be happy to do so (although maybe not so if I was invited to ‘shut the F up’ as in the OP’s case), but if a neighbour started lobbing eggs over the fence at a BBQ I would buy literally hundreds and hundreds of them and completely bombard the back of his house with them, and probably more childishly especially if he was in the back garden.

steveo3002

11,201 posts

203 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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behave yourself and people wouldnt get so upset they throw things at you?

Zetec-S

6,881 posts

122 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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Not defending your neighbour's choice of language or the egg throwing, but 11pm is getting on a bit for music outside. Noise tends to carry more at night as well. A few weeks back I was woken at about 3am by a couple of people having a conversation at the end of our road. They were talking in low voices and were probably about 80 yards away from our bedroom window, but it was enough to disturb me.

steveo3002

11,201 posts

203 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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with halloween coming up the police would blame kids if you took revenge ..not that im suggesting it

Antony Moxey

10,692 posts

248 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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anonymous said:
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I get the ‘how would I feel’, which is why I said I’d have no problem if asked to turn music down (unless, as I also said, they decided to be overly aggressive when asking). However, in the OP’s case with egg throwing, I’ll be the better man by having more eggs…

Giles_L

1,091 posts

228 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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11 feels late to me for having outside music. Your neighbour sounds like a dick and the sensible thing would have been to knock on your door to ask you to keep a lid on it. If I were you I'd go round and have an adult word and try and get things back on friendly terms as it's not worth having neighbour issues if can be avoided.

Red9zero

11,184 posts

86 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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Six of one and half a dozen of the other I think biggrin
11pm is a bit late though and throwing eggs is a bit of a dick move. Someone near us has obviously annoyed some local oiks and they keep getting their windows egged. Absolute nightmare to get off apparently.

PorkInsider

6,579 posts

170 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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You need to get tooled up, OP.

I'd suggest getting extra flour in, as well as eggs, ready to return fire.

Glassman

24,943 posts

244 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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Next time he throws one, a loud, "OW!" Then go and knock on his door.



Edited by Glassman on Thursday 28th October 11:52

PurpleTurtle

8,859 posts

173 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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10 teenagers and music outside at 11pm ... it's going to be noisy.

Why not be a bit more considerate? Why don't they just go to the pub?

The egg throwing is childish but I appreciate their annoyance.

essayer

10,410 posts

223 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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Were you in at the time? scratchchin

abzmike

11,979 posts

135 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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It isn't just the music though - a group of teens are not listening quietly, there will be raised voices, laughing etc. After 11 on a weeknight, I can understand his irritation, if not his methods of expressing them.

The Mad Monk

11,456 posts

146 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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wjwren said:
2 Sonos one speakers on which I'd limited the volume to 60%. At 11pm the neighbour lent over the fence and told them to shut the F up.
Having loudspeakers playing "music" in the garden is very council.

Couldn't your daughter's guests converse?

QuattroDave

1,816 posts

157 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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The Mad Monk said:
wjwren said:
2 Sonos one speakers on which I'd limited the volume to 60%. At 11pm the neighbour lent over the fence and told them to shut the F up.
Having loudspeakers playing "music" in the garden is very council.

Couldn't your daughter's guests converse?
Indeed. One usually retires to the library to listen to ones gramophone.

Cascade360

11,631 posts

114 months

Thursday 28th October 2021
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QuattroDave said:
The Mad Monk said:
wjwren said:
2 Sonos one speakers on which I'd limited the volume to 60%. At 11pm the neighbour lent over the fence and told them to shut the F up.
Having loudspeakers playing "music" in the garden is very council.

Couldn't your daughter's guests converse?
Indeed. One usually retires to the library to listen to ones gramophone.
Living in a housing estate and playing loud music with ten teenagers past 11pm isn't really on.