How to tell a woman she has a hairy top lip .....
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Anyone got any good ideas on how to and not get a slap or instantly become and ex friend ?
Basic situation is this. Nice girl I know was getting the micky taken out of her for the top lip fuzz by some guys I know. To be honest, they do have a point. It is quite noticeable, which is odd given she is young, good looking and generally dresses smartly and seems to take pride in her appearance.
Basic situation is this. Nice girl I know was getting the micky taken out of her for the top lip fuzz by some guys I know. To be honest, they do have a point. It is quite noticeable, which is odd given she is young, good looking and generally dresses smartly and seems to take pride in her appearance.
Whoops......think you are in serious danger of being one down on a friend 
Or worse...cruising for a bruising
She obviously hasn't got any decent mates as this is a well discussed area between us better sex. Surprises me how much as well
The best solution...?
Hey, i'm not givin' secrets away that easily
Or worse...cruising for a bruising
She obviously hasn't got any decent mates as this is a well discussed area between us better sex. Surprises me how much as well
The best solution...?
Hey, i'm not givin' secrets away that easily
Easy...and should make you look good if she's nice too
Take her quietly to one side, then tell her you've had enough of the others taking the p*** out of someone you consider to be "nice". Then give her the full SP...
You come out of it as a concerned friend, and the others look like the tuuats they clearly are...
Job done
>> Edited by monkeyhanger on Wednesday 3rd August 22:06
Take her quietly to one side, then tell her you've had enough of the others taking the p*** out of someone you consider to be "nice". Then give her the full SP...
You come out of it as a concerned friend, and the others look like the tuuats they clearly are...
Job done
>> Edited by monkeyhanger on Wednesday 3rd August 22:06
Fish, where are you? Monkeyhangar has the best answer.
This is a common occurrence with women who have fair skin and dark hair. Can't be helped. Sometimes the sun bleaches it and you don't notice, and sometimes, you have to just go ahead and bleach it yourself or shave it off. This is not at all the same situation as post-menopausal women who grow whiskers. (that's why it still happens to some women who are young)
When I was a teenager, my sister (redhead) who wouldn't ever have such a problem, used to tell me about it (I'm dark haired), but I thought she was just being mean. It wasn't like she ever said it in a nice way, though. Then my mom finally told me that she had to do the same thing, so I didn't feel so bad and finally did it.
Anyway, the best approach is to tell her, as a friend, that you think she's being made fun of and it's unfair because she's a pretty girl etc. and she shouldn't have to put up with their remarks.
Reminds me of one time, a male friend at work was telling me that I had some lipstick on my teeth, and fearing I would get mad at him, said, "you know, only a true friend would tell you that, rather than let you go all day like that!". I thought it was a laugh that he was so worried about it. I didn't mind him saying so.
This is a common occurrence with women who have fair skin and dark hair. Can't be helped. Sometimes the sun bleaches it and you don't notice, and sometimes, you have to just go ahead and bleach it yourself or shave it off. This is not at all the same situation as post-menopausal women who grow whiskers. (that's why it still happens to some women who are young)
When I was a teenager, my sister (redhead) who wouldn't ever have such a problem, used to tell me about it (I'm dark haired), but I thought she was just being mean. It wasn't like she ever said it in a nice way, though. Then my mom finally told me that she had to do the same thing, so I didn't feel so bad and finally did it.
Anyway, the best approach is to tell her, as a friend, that you think she's being made fun of and it's unfair because she's a pretty girl etc. and she shouldn't have to put up with their remarks.
Reminds me of one time, a male friend at work was telling me that I had some lipstick on my teeth, and fearing I would get mad at him, said, "you know, only a true friend would tell you that, rather than let you go all day like that!". I thought it was a laugh that he was so worried about it. I didn't mind him saying so.
Wacky Racer said:
Get a hand mirror, and paste a photo of Magnum PI on it. When she looks in the mirror it may give a hint
I hope this helps.
Blimey!!!! He's aged a bit.....
Yep.
With a beard to match his wooly jumper, too.
I don't suppose he drives a 308 any more. Looks more like a 2CV man these days.
Handle with care, it could go off at any time!BliarOut said:
Just set her home page on her PC to www.chickswithhairytoplipproblems.org.uk
Job's a good un!
HTH
Damn you i clicked on that!
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