Grammar check please - this is driving me nuts
Grammar check please - this is driving me nuts
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jagnet

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4,442 posts

231 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Example sentence: "John's mother regularly works long hours".
Should the word "mother" be capitalised?

I say no. It's a common noun, so should be written in lowercase. Only if it were being used as a proper noun would you write it as "Mother".
I'm being told that this is incorrect, with the argument being put forward that "the word 'mother' is a pronoun as it is being used to replace the name of the person and so must be capitalised".

I disagree with just about every aspect of the counter argument, but I'm doubting myself now and it's driving me up the wall. Have I let myself down? Would my English teachers be collectively shaking their heads in disappointment?

Zarco

20,968 posts

238 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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You are correct.

shih tzu faced

2,597 posts

78 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Good question, not really sure. You’re asking in the right place though, this sort of thing should be right up the street of PH’s grammar police. They’ll bloody love it!

In other news all hours are the same length. There are no long ones hehe

IJWS15

2,203 posts

114 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Don't capitalise as it isn't a proper noun (name).

You only capitalise "he" and "she" at the start of a sentence and they are used to replace names (proper nouns).


Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Not capitalised.

anonymous-user

83 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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You’re right.

The supposed logic of the argument put forward against you would have all pronouns capitalised. Eg in the sentence: “John’s mother worked very long hours for him”, “him” would be capitalised.

Capitalising pronouns is called reverential capitalisation: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reverential_capita... and is almost exclusively reserved for deities in everyday writing.

jagnet

Original Poster:

4,442 posts

231 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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shih tzu faced said:
You’re asking in the right place though, this sort of thing should be right up the street of PH’s grammar police. They’ll bloody love it!
hehe PH never fails on such matters. Thanks to all for confirming.

The background to it is that Mrs Jagnet had a job interview recently which included a task to correct the spelling, grammar and general errors in a short piece of text. The text was littered with kin terms and so she failed the interview on the basis of that task, despite overall doing a very good job on it. I was convinced that she was correct for the reasons stated but they refuse to accept that they could possibly be wrong.

Frustrating, but perhaps a lucky escape as it turns out.

Mrs Jagnet has long since moved on but I just haven't been able to get it out of my head for the last week.

bigandclever

14,347 posts

267 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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jagnet said:
Jagnet
Make your mind up! smile

jagnet

Original Poster:

4,442 posts

231 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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bigandclever said:
jagnet said:
Jagnet
Make your mind up! smile
hehe

See reverential capitalisation above. I know my place biggrin

Skyedriver

23,358 posts

311 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Countering the argument above, I'd have said Mother rather than mother. In the same way I write "my Son" not "my son". It's a definitive person not anyones mother.
But what do I know, it's 52 years since I passed English Language "O" level (at the second attempt).


sociopath

3,433 posts

95 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Skyedriver said:
Countering the argument above, I'd have said Mother rather than mother. In the same way I write "my Son" not "my son". It's a definitive person not anyones mother.
But what do I know, it's 52 years since I passed English Language "O" level (at the second attempt).
It shows whistle

BrokenSkunk

5,101 posts

279 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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bigandclever said:
jagnet said:
Jagnet
Make your mind up! smile
You've got a lot of repressed feelings, don't you Friday?

ikarl

4,048 posts

228 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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your correct

wink

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Skyedriver said:
Countering the argument above, I'd have said Mother rather than mother. In the same way I write "my Son" not "my son". It's a definitive person not anyones mother.
But what do I know, it's 52 years since I passed English Language "O" level (at the second attempt).
As has been said, capital letters are used in the first word of a sentence or when referring to a "proper" noun i.e. a noun which is actually a genuine name. An example using the word mother would be when referring to the word "mother" in general terms (and it doesn't matter whose mother you are referring to. My mother, your mother or Fred's mother never get a capital "m". However, if "mother" is part of a proper name, such as the name of a song e.g. "Mother of Mine", then capitals would be appropriate.

dontlookdown

2,497 posts

122 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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This is like the difference between government and the Government - only uc G when referring to a specific government. Or in this case, a specific mother.

But tbh I think 99% of encountered usage would be mother in either case. I am not sure the capital really adds very much to one's comprehension.

Skeptisk

8,897 posts

138 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Besides pedants and perhaps editors does anyone bother with capitals for proper nouns? Isn’t it about time such nonsense died out? It is interesting to see other languages have made life easier by getting simpler.

Eric Mc

125,609 posts

294 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Why is it simpler? Are people becoming more stupid that we have to make things simpler for them. Maybe making people use their brains a bit is a good thing.

Dumbing down for the sake of dumbing down is just plain dumb.

Gary29

5,199 posts

128 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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It's a no from me.

jagnet

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4,442 posts

231 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Thanks everyone, it puts my mind at rest. Waking at 5am to thoughts concerning grammar was getting a bit ridiculous.

vaud

59,340 posts

184 months

Tuesday 26th July 2022
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Eric Mc said:
Why is it simpler? Are people becoming more stupid that we have to make things simpler for them. Maybe making people use their brains a bit is a good thing.

Dumbing down for the sake of dumbing down is just plain dumb.
True, but language usage (and vocabulary) evolves. English more than, say, French (who even enacted laws to protect French).