Inappropriate behaviour from a Taxi Driver
Inappropriate behaviour from a Taxi Driver
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surveyor

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18,604 posts

207 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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I have a daughter who turns 17 soon, and works in bar:restaurant on Friday and Saturday evenings.

There are occasions when we are not able to collect her, and we have found what we believed was a reliable local taxi driver to use on those occasions.

Over recent trips his behaviour has concerned me a little, a few weeks ago he invited himself to the driveway to look at her car and proceeded to chat to her for about 20 minutes - he did try inviting himself in but she told him that her mother was inside with friends.

He’s shown her what he said is her house when passing (which I don’t actually think is his house) and come up with a couple of stories that I don’t believe.

Last night his greeting when she got in the car was ‘hello sexy’. It’s made my daughter uncomfortable and I think is something inappropriate to say to a 16 year old girl.

Clearly we will not be booking him again, but I’m minded to report his behaviour to the taxi licensor. I’m not sure if this is overkill or not?

Looking for advice really.

LordHaveMurci

12,325 posts

192 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Personally, I’d be having a ‘Dad chat’ with him & I’m not a powerfully built director, but I do have a daughter who was 16 not that long ago.

Pistonheader101

2,206 posts

130 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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surveyor said:
Last night his greeting when she got in the car was ‘hello sexy’. It’s made my daughter uncomfortable and I think is something inappropriate to say to a 16 year old girl.
Get back out the car

surveyor

Original Poster:

18,604 posts

207 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Pistonheader101 said:
surveyor said:
Last night his greeting when she got in the car was ‘hello sexy’. It’s made my daughter uncomfortable and I think is something inappropriate to say to a 16 year old girl.
Get back out the car
Yes that’s another chat I do need to have with her.

NiceCupOfTea

25,536 posts

274 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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I’d definitely be reporting that.

Tabs

1,079 posts

295 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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I used to be a Private Hire driver. That behaviour should not be tolerated. Assume he is a proper driver with a plate on the rear, and a badge around his neck or on display inside the car?
If he's a one man band, report to the council. If from a Company, speak to the operator.
It's OK to have a laugh and a joke with some people, but that behaviour is crossing a line.

Jamescrs

5,908 posts

88 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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A report to taxi licencing is probably a good option.

Taxi drivers generally take taxi licencing contacting them pretty seriously as it's their licence to operate at stake.

Also if he's doing it to your daughter he's likely to be doing the same to other young girls in his car, I have two daughters myself so quite sensitive to this sort of thing

Jimmy No Hands

5,065 posts

179 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Errr yeah no, that's creep behaviour full stop. A stern word appropriate.

NicheMonkey

463 posts

151 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Report it now before someone becomes a victim

deckster

9,631 posts

278 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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NicheMonkey said:
Report it now before someone becomes a victim
100%. This guy should not be left alone with young ladies and definitely should not be driving a taxi.

P. ONeill

1,455 posts

75 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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NiceCupOfTea said:
I’d definitely be reporting that.
Hard to fathom why it hasn’t already been reported. Seriously creepy behaviour.

bitchstewie

64,355 posts

233 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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I expect with the benefit of hindsight there were similar questions asked about John Worboys.

Draxindustries1

1,657 posts

46 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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At one point a few years ago I did work for a taxi company and got to know a few of the drivers as they dropped off/ picked up cars.
One particular driver ended up in court for inappropriate behaviour with a 15 year old when doing the council contract school run.
Another was prosecuted for 83mph in a 30mph bus lane with three kids in the car.
A basic crb check for taxi drivers needs to be more stringent, it's very very easy to get licensed..
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Rozzers

2,981 posts

98 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Immediately find someone else to protect your daughter, then report to protect others.

anonymous-user

77 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Rozzers said:
Immediately find someone else to protect your daughter...
This guy, perhaps:


Pica-Pica

16,081 posts

107 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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Unacceptable, especially in a public-facing rôle. Have a stern word with him or the company, or simply report it. Someone needs to be pulled up sharply concerning that. This is not the 1960s, and even back then, in a public place, a sharp slap across the face would have ensued, and the guy would be publicly humiliated (a risky response now probably).

CharlesdeGaulle

26,882 posts

203 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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I agree that behaviour is inappropriate and needs to be stopped. Did you hear him say that, or are you acting on what someone else/your daughter said?

CouncilFerrari

665 posts

80 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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deckster said:
NicheMonkey said:
Report it now before someone becomes a victim
100%. This guy should not be left alone with young ladies and definitely should not be driving a taxi.
Absolutely agree with this. It's not an overreaction to report this fella, he sounds a fking creep.

Getragdogleg

9,863 posts

206 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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How old is he so I can measure the creep factor more accurately?


surveyor

Original Poster:

18,604 posts

207 months

Sunday 25th September 2022
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CharlesdeGaulle said:
I agree that behaviour is inappropriate and needs to be stopped. Did you hear him say that, or are you acting on what someone else/your daughter said?
Clearly, it would not be a surprise to hear that I did not hear him say it.

Having said that my daughter is generally quite level-headed, and unlikely to have made this up.

Getragdogleg said:
How old is he so I can measure the creep factor more accurately?
Hard to say. We shared a taxi with the daughter on one occasion, but I was leathered. Late 30's. Maybe.