Selling an inherited car- siblings
Selling an inherited car- siblings
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Patrick Bateman

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13,022 posts

197 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Has anyone dealt with this scenario themselves?

I'm selling my late dad's car after running it for almost a couple of years after he died. Would it be typical to then split the eventual sale of the car with any siblings in this case? Would you factor in any repairs etc. as to how it was split?

It was ultimately my decision to keep the car but then I did have to spend a load of money on it immediately to get it in usable condition. I've spent about £3500-4000 on maintenance in total. Add to the fact I dealt with pretty much everything when he died, house clearance and all that grief, I'm not sure if I'm selling myself short by thinking of splitting the sale money down the middle.

Jasandjules

71,983 posts

252 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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What were the terms of the car in the will? Gifted directly to you?

Patrick Bateman

Original Poster:

13,022 posts

197 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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No terms or specifics, the will was 15 years out of date and very generic.

Canon_Fodder

1,775 posts

86 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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You have had use of the car that your sibling jointly owned

You have maintained the vehicle and it cost you money but you took that risk

50/50 is the way to go here

Jasandjules

71,983 posts

252 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Patrick Bateman said:
No terms or specifics, the will was 15 years out of date and very generic.
Ok so what was agreed with the siblings then? They just let you take the car?

T6 vanman

3,420 posts

122 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Ask siblings what they think ..............

Are we talking a VW Lupo or an Aston Martin??

Julietbravo

221 posts

113 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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I would have thought that it was split when the will was executed. You had the car for a couple of years, your siblings had other things. You use it and sell it - as they do can with the things they got when the estate was settled.


Patrick Bateman

Original Poster:

13,022 posts

197 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Jasandjules said:
Ok so what was agreed with the siblings then? They just let you take the car?
Correct.

It's a Jaguar XJ, worth about £5k on a good day I'd estimate.

vaud

58,063 posts

178 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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You've had a couple of years use.

I'd suggest talking to your siblings and offer to absorb some of the cost of the repairs and see their reaction.

Also agree what reference you are going to use for the sale price, and what is the lowest you will collectively accept.

If you have an ebay account you can use advanced search to show the prices things sold for, not the asking price.

texaxile

3,661 posts

173 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Does it come under "chattels"?

If so, how were they divided?. That might give you an answer.

Patrick Bateman

Original Poster:

13,022 posts

197 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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The 'estate' was so small that there wasn't legal involvement here. We're talking about 10 grand in savings/shares where I dealt directly with with bank/investment company and his car that was left.

BrettMRC

5,563 posts

183 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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Simple answer is this:

"I'm going to be selling Dad's old car soon, do any of you want first dibs before I do?"

Then let nature take it's course.

Pistom

6,215 posts

182 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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So you've acted as Administrator then?

I think that you should look at what the car was valued at at the time of your dad passing and share that value proportionally.

The fact that you've decided to get it on the road and use it was your decision, you could have sold it as it was but chose not to.

Had you spent money on it to make it easier to sell and that was the sole purpose of the expense then it would have been reasonable to charge that to the estate but not considering you've had the use of the car.

Now that is the position of reasonableness but your siblings may think differently so as others have said, discuss with them as they may be glad to have seen your dads old car getting back into use and not see it the way I've outlined above.

TwigtheWonderkid

47,955 posts

173 months

Monday 17th October 2022
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My father in law died with 2 cars. 1 was sold and the money split between us and my wife's sister. I kept the 2nd one and we paid my sis in law half it's value at the outset. So it was sorted at the beginning, not at the end.

Cyberprog

2,304 posts

206 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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Pistom said:
So you've acted as Administrator then?

I think that you should look at what the car was valued at at the time of your dad passing and share that value proportionally.

The fact that you've decided to get it on the road and use it was your decision, you could have sold it as it was but chose not to.

Had you spent money on it to make it easier to sell and that was the sole purpose of the expense then it would have been reasonable to charge that to the estate but not considering you've had the use of the car.

Now that is the position of reasonableness but your siblings may think differently so as others have said, discuss with them as they may be glad to have seen your dads old car getting back into use and not see it the way I've outlined above.
This seems like a valid way of handling it - value it when you go it, and split that value.

Watchthis

537 posts

85 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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Sad times when you're quibbling about splitting a few £k with your brother or sister. Sell it and split the money equally, maybe your conscience will thank you for it one day

NDA

24,833 posts

248 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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You've had use of it for a couple of years free of charge.

I'd sell it and give all the money to the sibling (s).

Patrick Bateman

Original Poster:

13,022 posts

197 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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Watchthis said:
Sad times when you're quibbling about splitting a few £k with your brother or sister. Sell it and split the money equally, maybe your conscience will thank you for it one day
Sad times? Thanks for that. If you read my original post this is what I was thinking in the first place. The whole point of the thread was to check this was fairly typical and I wasn't doing myself out of anything.

Maybe you'd question it too if you had a sibling but you dealt with 99.9% of all the st on your own after a parent's death.

Wacky Racer

40,661 posts

270 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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Watchthis said:
Sad times when you're quibbling about splitting a few £k with your brother or sister. Sell it and split the money equally, maybe your conscience will thank you for it one day
This.

Asking them to pay towards any repairs when they have not had use of the car is not on. (imo)

Do the decent thing. smile

omniflow

3,592 posts

174 months

Tuesday 18th October 2022
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Two options as I see it:

1. Split the sale price equally between all siblings including yourself
2. Determine what the car would have been worth at the time you acquired it (excluding money you spent on it), split that value between all siblings including yourself and add on interest / opportunity cost of that money to compensate your siblings for the fact that they had nothing whilst you had the car.