Separated but not divorced SDLT question.
Separated but not divorced SDLT question.
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s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Monday 17th April 2023
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My wife and I separated around 18 months ago. She initiated a divorce, which reached decree nisi stage. At this point, she decided that she would prefer to stay married. In principle, I've no objection to this. We haven't seen each other for around 9 months, and we live 250 miles apart now.

She's bought a house near her home town. I assume it's in her sole name - it's definitely nothing to do with me, I don't even know where she now lives.

My Google skills are clearly lacking. What I'd like clarifying is the SDLT position if I were to buy another house. Are we linked as long as we're married, such that I'd be liable for the 3% surcharge? If not, how do I go about proving that I'm buying a property in my own right?


Countdown

47,805 posts

220 months

Monday 17th April 2023
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It looks like you CAN avoid it if you can prove you're in the process of getting divorced.

https://goodyburrett.co.uk/when-is-a-married-coupl...

However if both of you are going to remain married then i think the surcharge will be payable.

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Monday 17th April 2023
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Thanks very much. It seems a very grey area. I can see it would be an obvious loophole, but it also seems to penalise people in the situation I find myself.

The impression I get from your link is that I, and my estranged wife, might be subject to an investigation if I happen to buy a house.

Countdown

47,805 posts

220 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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I think the issue is that you and she have for some reason decided to stay formally married. HMRC don't know the underlying reality.

if you can prove that your intention is to get divorced then you don't have to pay the 3% surcharge. However if, 5 or 10 years later, you're still formally married then you can see why HMRC would want the SDLT.

z4RRSchris

12,423 posts

203 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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why stay married.?

vulture1

13,620 posts

203 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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z4RRSchris said:
why stay married.?
Incase she can't find another man?
So she can buy a house under both names
Husband is on the hook for financial issues?

I see no advantage to the OP of this arrangement.

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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z4RRSchris said:
why stay married.?
It's a good question, also raised by Countdown in more depth. During the process of separation and selling the marital home, I was diagnosed with incurable lung cancer. My wife would prefer to be a widow than a divorcee.

I'm aware of the Inheritance (Provision for Family and Dependents) Act 1975, and I'm as sure as I can be that she won't challenge my will. Even if she does, I'll be dead. It won't affect me in any way.

aaron-j9c9a

144 posts

60 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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OP, I have alarm bells ringing in my head but if this your agreed route then fair enough.

If you gave that reason for not wanting to pay the 3% I doubt it would be acceptable because it sounds like a way of enriching a person just before you die.

Money and wills do funny things to people so don’t think that she won’t contest it because in reality you are still married.

z4RRSchris

12,423 posts

203 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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s2sol said:
It's a good question, also raised by Countdown in more depth. During the process of separation and selling the marital home, I was diagnosed with incurable lung cancer. My wife would prefer to be a widow than a divorcee.

I'm aware of the Inheritance (Provision for Family and Dependents) Act 1975, and I'm as sure as I can be that she won't challenge my will. Even if she does, I'll be dead. It won't affect me in any way.
fk, sad to hear that.

markiii

4,225 posts

218 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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indeed sorry to hear that OP, but sounds like she wants he cake and eat it. prefering to be a Widow over a Divorcee seems all to her benefit

z4RRSchris

12,423 posts

203 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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"lets get divorced!"
- "oh you wont be here for long"
- lets stay married, it financially suits me better.

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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Perhaps optimistically, I have a very high opinion of her. The only reason I'd need to buy a property would be to reduce my estate's IHT liability. I'm just looking at the numbers to see if the 40% of the additional £175k allowance is worth the hassle and cost of actually buying a home. At the moment, it's almost certainly easier to carry on my nomadic lifestyle.

anonymous-user

78 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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z4RRSchris said:
"lets get divorced!"
- "oh you wont be here for long"
- lets stay married, it financially suits me better.
Although it is harsh, it does read exactly like that. May I ask if you diagnosis was before or after she instigated divorce proceedings?

Do you have children together? If not I would be inclined to piss it all up the wall in as short a time as possible doing every single thing I had always wanted to do.

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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I'm pretty sure financial reasons weren't the driving force in the request to stay married. Regardless, the question I'd hope to have an answer for was whether I'd be liable for the additional SDLT if we remain married but separated. The answer seems to be a vague yes, probably.

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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Joey Deacon said:
Although it is harsh, it does read exactly like that. May I ask if you diagnosis was before or after she instigated divorce proceedings?

Do you have children together? If not I would be inclined to piss it all up the wall in as short a time as possible doing every single thing I had always wanted to do.
The diagnosis was after we'd mutually decided to part. Initially, she suggested we didn't sell the marital home and stayed together during my illness. It was at my instigation that we ultimately parted, because I wanted to piss it all up the wall as quickly as possible, and I felt I would probably do things she wouldn't like to see.
There's a big difference between incurable cancer and terminal cancer, and I may still have a few years, rather than a few months. I can't go too wild.

Edited by s2sol on Wednesday 19th April 17:04

GT4P

5,826 posts

209 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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Firstly sorry to hear of your prognosis but a thought to the original question, if your wife’s house is in her name solely (or put in her name solely)and her main place of residence and you buy a property solely in your name as solely your main residence then normal stamp duty applies married or not?

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Wednesday 19th April 2023
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GT4P said:
Firstly sorry to hear of your prognosis but a thought to the original question, if your wife’s house is in her name solely (or put in her name solely)and her main place of residence and you buy a property solely in your name as solely your main residence then normal stamp duty applies married or not?
I'd hope so, and that's what I'm trying to find out. That said, I can see why the revenue would question such an arrangement.

GT3Manthey

4,744 posts

73 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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s2sol said:
I'd hope so, and that's what I'm trying to find out. That said, I can see why the revenue would question such an arrangement.
Sorry to hear of your cancer findings OP.

No ones yet asked if you have any Children to consider during the inheritance process?

I'm just wondering if this may change things from a decision making process

Edited by GT3Manthey on Thursday 20th April 14:18

s2sol

Original Poster:

1,267 posts

195 months

Thursday 20th April 2023
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GT3Manthey said:
Sorry to hear of your cancer findings OP.

No ones yet asked if you have any Children to consider during the inheritance process?

I'm just wondering if this may change things from a decision making process

Edited by GT3Manthey on Thursday 20th April 14:18
I've got two children, and the will is sorted. It's really the additional SDLT liability I'm interested in.