Anybody else's wife sulk unnecessarily?
Anybody else's wife sulk unnecessarily?
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caziques

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2,814 posts

192 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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Why do women do it?

66 and 64, just had a super holiday in Australia, flew to Adelaide, booze cruise train to Perth, back to Brisbane to see daughter and grandson (2 1/2), back to NZ late last Friday....

and another monumental sulk. No conversation, almost no engagement since last Saturday.

No money worries, yet here we are...day 4.

No faffing, not keen on shopping, sensible with money, but oh boy does she like to have a good sulk.

Suggestions welcome.

Lo-Fi

1,281 posts

94 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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What's brought it on?

HTP99

24,787 posts

164 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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After a fantastic time away, including visiting family she has come back to her hum drum life and won't see the family again for a long while, that is why she has a mood on.

My wife used to get the grump on for a few days when back from a holiday, just leave her to it, she'll be OK in a few days.

anonymous-user

78 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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Yes, over the daftest things too. I put it down to the fact she is just a genuinely grumpy and unhappy type.

MitchT

17,089 posts

233 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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I had a girlfriend who was an Olympic grade sulker. Didn't last long. My current OH (with her 13 years as of yesterday) doesn't sulk but is an Olympic grade faffer. Basically your stuck with one thing or another.

I think it's like when you're speccing a new car and you want the enhanced bluetooth with wireless phone charging option, but it only comes as part of a package that also includes keyless entry, which you don't want. If you want the no-faff option it comes as a package that includes sulking. If you want to avoid sulking then you don't spec that pack but then you don't have faff-free. If you go for an older model from before the point when these silly packages were introduced, you might find one that was specced with faff-free and no-sulk by its original owner, but the BJ provision has expired and costs a lot to extend on a monthly basis.

vikingaero

12,532 posts

193 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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caziques said:
Why do women do it?

66 and 64, just had a super holiday in Australia, flew to Adelaide, booze cruise train to Perth, back to Brisbane to see daughter and grandson (2 1/2), back to NZ late last Friday....

and another monumental sulk. No conversation, almost no engagement since last Saturday.

No money worries, yet here we are...day 4.

No faffing, not keen on shopping, sensible with money, but oh boy does she like to have a good sulk.

Suggestions welcome.
You probably put your fork down on the plate the wrong way and this has created a butterfly effect of immense disproportion. biggrin

Time for an upgrade to a 2005 model? biggrin

PositronicRay

28,677 posts

207 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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MitchT said:
I had a girlfriend who was an Olympic grade sulker. Didn't last long. My current OH (with her 13 years as of yesterday) doesn't sulk but is an Olympic grade faffer. Basically your stuck with one thing or another.

I think it's like when you're speccing a new car and you want the enhanced bluetooth with wireless phone charging option, but it only comes as part of a package that also includes keyless entry, which you don't want. If you want the no-faff option it comes as a package that includes sulking. If you want to avoid sulking then you don't spec that pack but then you don't have faff-free. If you go for an older model from before the point when these silly packages were introduced, you might find one that was specced with faff-free and no-sulk by its original owner, but the BJ provision has expired and costs a lot to extend on a monthly basis.
How about a budget Eastern European brand?

MitchT

17,089 posts

233 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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PositronicRay said:
How about a budget Eastern European brand?
Depends if it has type approval for your region. The authorities might confiscate it!

WyrleyD

2,277 posts

172 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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Probably 'cos you are in NZ, winter, enough to give anyone the miseries being in that woker than woke place!

Dylano

237 posts

39 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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I had a girlfriend who loved a good sulk, often for no apparent reason at all or other times it would start off in a sort of jokey, lighthearted way when she'd pretend to be upset by some triviality, but it would then morph into a genuine full on sulk.

JQ

6,606 posts

203 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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MitchT said:
I had a girlfriend who was an Olympic grade sulker. Didn't last long. My current OH (with her 13 years as of yesterday) doesn't sulk but is an Olympic grade faffer. Basically your stuck with one thing or another.

I think it's like when you're speccing a new car and you want the enhanced bluetooth with wireless phone charging option, but it only comes as part of a package that also includes keyless entry, which you don't want. If you want the no-faff option it comes as a package that includes sulking. If you want to avoid sulking then you don't spec that pack but then you don't have faff-free. If you go for an older model from before the point when these silly packages were introduced, you might find one that was specced with faff-free and no-sulk by its original owner, but the BJ provision has expired and costs a lot to extend on a monthly basis.
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Super Sonic

12,683 posts

78 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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Pretty sure they all do that...

Countdown

47,715 posts

220 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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I sulk a hell of a lot more than my wife,

Ascayman

13,249 posts

240 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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MitchT said:
I had a girlfriend who was an Olympic grade sulker. Didn't last long. My current OH (with her 13 years as of yesterday) doesn't sulk but is an Olympic grade faffer. Basically your stuck with one thing or another.

I think it's like when you're speccing a new car and you want the enhanced bluetooth with wireless phone charging option, but it only comes as part of a package that also includes keyless entry, which you don't want. If you want the no-faff option it comes as a package that includes sulking. If you want to avoid sulking then you don't spec that pack but then you don't have faff-free. If you go for an older model from before the point when these silly packages were introduced, you might find one that was specced with faff-free and no-sulk by its original owner, but the BJ provision has expired and costs a lot to extend on a monthly basis.
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kiethton

14,511 posts

204 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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my wife has only just finished sulking because I was mildly intoxicated on Saturday evening (I blame the golf club captain pouring wray and nephews down my throat), didn't keep her updated on my plans, dragged her and the baby out for a curry and then made a load of noise throwing up said curry and wray and nephews that night

Monkeylegend

28,537 posts

255 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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caziques said:
Why do women do it?

66 and 64, just had a super holiday in Australia, flew to Adelaide, booze cruise train to Perth, back to Brisbane to see daughter and grandson (2 1/2), back to NZ late last Friday....

and another monumental sulk. No conversation, almost no engagement since last Saturday.

No money worries, yet here we are...day 4.

No faffing, not keen on shopping, sensible with money, but oh boy does she like to have a good sulk.

Suggestions welcome.
A bit like poking a bear but have you asked her what she is sulking about ?

Mind you 4 days of peace and quiet I suspect you haven't felt like asking her just yet.

Fozziebear

1,840 posts

164 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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My daughters mother used to sulk for days, I just used to ignore it and she'd snap out of it. Latest wife doesn't sulk about anything, extremely tolerant of my random behaviours, she's obviously building up to murder me......

PositronicRay

28,677 posts

207 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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kiethton said:
my wife has only just finished sulking because I was mildly intoxicated on Saturday evening (I blame the golf club captain pouring wray and nephews down my throat), didn't keep her updated on my plans, dragged her and the baby out for a curry and then made a load of noise throwing up said curry and wray and nephews that night
I had to Google that.

https://www.thewhiskyexchange.com/p/44122/wray-nep...


Not surprised TBH, I'm irritated and not even married to you.

kiethton

14,511 posts

204 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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PositronicRay said:
kiethton said:
my wife has only just finished sulking because I was mildly intoxicated on Saturday evening (I blame the golf club captain pouring wray and nephews down my throat), didn't keep her updated on my plans, dragged her and the baby out for a curry and then made a load of noise throwing up said curry and wray and nephews that night
I had to Google that.

https://www.thewhiskyexchange.com/p/44122/wray-nep...


Not surprised TBH, I'm irritated and not even married to you.
think a lot more downmarket....

https://www.urban-drinks.de/en/wray-nephew/

In fairness I still made it up to do all the baby's feeds/nappy changes so she was grateful at least

grumpy52

5,978 posts

190 months

Tuesday 18th April 2023
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Does this include the model that sulks because they dreamed you had some indiscretion with another model . Three days of silence and messages via her child before I found out what the problem was .
Not as bad as when my sister visited with her attractive and busty friend who I had known for years . Wife had the hump for a week, things didn't improve when said busty friend bought wifes Mini when we sold it because of her needing a larger car .