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Well, that happened to me when I received my wife’s life insurance , it was a lot more. It’s currently sat across multiple cash accounts not to break the £85k ceiling, each in various bonds that mature at different time which will require me to complete my tax returns and I fill my isa up every year.
This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
Edited by oldaudi on Monday 14th August 16:04
Watchthis said:
Let's say you came into some money, maybe £100k. What would you do with it?
Pay off the mortgage? Put it in a savings account? Buy premium bonds? Buy a fancy car?
£25k to each of the kids. Our mortgage is paid off, we have sufficient for a nice (but not PH) lifestyle. they will benefit from it far more than m and Mrs CPay off the mortgage? Put it in a savings account? Buy premium bonds? Buy a fancy car?
Changed my mind! I fancy one of . these
Edited by Countdown on Monday 14th August 16:21
oldaudi said:
Well, that happened to me when I received my wife’s life insurance , it was a lot more. It’s currently sat across multiple cash accounts not to break the £85k ceiling, each in various bonds that mature at different time which will require me to complete my tax returns and I fill my isa up every year.
This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
Do not let yourself become consumed by sadness try each day to lift yourself from grief towards living the best life you can now you are alone,This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
Edited by oldaudi on Monday 14th August 16:04
your wife loved you your children love you as do other family/friends I presume, do the best by them to make the rest of your life worth living.
VTC said:
oldaudi said:
Well, that happened to me when I received my wife’s life insurance , it was a lot more. It’s currently sat across multiple cash accounts not to break the £85k ceiling, each in various bonds that mature at different time which will require me to complete my tax returns and I fill my isa up every year.
This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
Do not let yourself become consumed by sadness try each day to lift yourself from grief towards living the best life you can now you are alone,This isn’t a boast because I didn’t earn this and I’m currently living my life as if I still don’t have it.
The kids are sorted, I have no mortgage anyway, premium bonds are full and I genuinely don’t know what to do with it. My current house feels too big now that it’s population has been reduced by 25% I’m still earning well I got a pension pay out and I get monthly top ups from her ex employer in the form of pensions payments too.
We would’ve loved this extra cash when she was a live, now I feel that I don’t deserve it/ it’s her money so I don’t spend it. So, in answer to your question I think it really depends how you get it.
If I won £100k I would love to buy a brand new Porsche 911 of some sort if that was enough.
Edited by oldaudi on Monday 14th August 16:04
your wife loved you your children love you as do other family/friends I presume, do the best by them to make the rest of your life worth living.
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