Martial arts for 6yr old
Martial arts for 6yr old
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Buffalo

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5,482 posts

284 months

Friday 29th December 2023
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My 6 yr old son has watched far too many transformers cartoons and is forever doing (for want of a better description) martial arts type moves. Often pretending to hit people. Not in any viscious way, but he lacks context when such moves are appropriate.

He's not a particularly tough kid, but at the same time sinces he's interested in the moves (and actually is pretty agile) I wondered about taking him to some classes, mostly to learn discipline around the use of the skills and also to give him a focus.

I know very little, but what type would be a good place for him to start with? I can see judo, taekwondo, and others are taught around us.

Douglas Quaid

2,639 posts

115 months

Friday 29th December 2023
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Judo is a great idea for a young kid.

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 29th December 2023
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Douglas Quaid said:
Judo is a great idea for a young kid.
Yup, Judo is a great shout. I started at 6, served me well

Buffalo

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5,482 posts

284 months

Wednesday 3rd January 2024
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Thanks all. What of the other disciplines? Does it make much difference, if key focuses are strength, confidence, discipline, etc.?


anonymous-user

84 months

Wednesday 3rd January 2024
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Buffalo said:
Thanks all. What of the other disciplines? Does it make much difference, if key focuses are strength, confidence, discipline, etc.?
Judo is wonderful for developing functional strength and will give your kid a confidence in defending themselves without having to hit someone, which is usually the point they get in trouble and/or hurt THEMSELVES. That said any martial art taught by a responsible coach will be invaluable to learn self discipline, give confidence and improve fitness levels.

The physiques of competent judoka more closely resemble that of traditional collegiate or Greco-Roman wrestlers, deep, thick physiques with commensurate levels of strength. The physiques of those who practice striking arts tend to be more fast twitch explosive muscles that can be more aesthetically pleasing but lack the overall functionality. Please note that's not a hard and fast rule, just an observation.

Edited by anonymous-user on Wednesday 3rd January 16:19

mikef

6,158 posts

281 months

Wednesday 3rd January 2024
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Taekwondo is good for both self-defence and fitness, but there is a whole GrandMaster Flash cultish side to it, which is a bit disconcerting

the-norseman

15,848 posts

201 months

Wednesday 3rd January 2024
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BJJ or Judo

WestyCarl

4,068 posts

155 months

Wednesday 3rd January 2024
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Atv 6 I would find a Martial Arts school that you and him are happy with, for me this would come before the actual martial arts, they will all give him a good grounding.

Later on when early teens he can take up which specific one appeals most.

Pete102

2,388 posts

216 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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Judo or Brazilian Jiu Jitsu supplemented by a striking art such as Kickboxing.

The Judo / BJJ generally appeals to children as, when taught by a competent instructor, it can be more like "playing" rather than something to be endured in the early days.

I would steer away from things like Karate since they are often not that fun, or even that effective in situations your child will likely end up in.

Above all, it has to be fun for them.

Jamescrs

6,421 posts

95 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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My daughter did Taekwondo for a couple of years around that age and it was a very good setup for kids classes, she lost interest eventually which was a shame but thats kids, will be down to what's available in your local area.

MBVitoria

2,533 posts

253 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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Another vote for Judo. I started a bit older at about 10 but over the years have seen countless kids from 5 upwards take to it.

Can't comment on BJJ etc as I've not trained in it but having seen some vids online of youngsters using joint locks and chokes which worries me. In Judo submissions aren't used until 16 plus when they have the judgement and understanding of how to do the technique properly.

Most Judo classes in my experience are cheap too, only a couple of pound mat fees and are run by volunteer enthusiasts (my family ran a club for 25 years, only taking money for expenses).

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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Both of my girls (7 and 5) go to a local Taekwondo class and I couldn't recommend it highly enough. The have fun, it's great fitness, it helps build confidence, teaches self-defence, discipline. Our one is fairly costly (especially with two of them going) but it's worth every penny.

MBVitoria

2,533 posts

253 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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For me, the ethos of judo is what makes it perfect for kids. As you know, it's all about mutual respect and self improvement and the aim to be useful to society.

I despise watching pro boxers trash talking in the build up to a bout, likewise the unsporting celebrations that you see in UFC. I get that it sells tickets but when kids are watching that type of behaviour, it really doesn't sit right with me.

Kano's definition says it all!

"Judo is the way of the highest or most efficient use of both physical and mental energy. Through training in the attack and defence techniques of judo, the practitioner nurtures their physical and mental strength, and gradually embodies the essence of the Way of Judo. Thus, the ultimate objective of Judo discipline is to be utilized as a means to self-perfection, and thenceforth to make a positive contribution to society."

JQ

6,817 posts

209 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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My recommendation would be to find somewhere local to you that's very highly recommended, irrespective of discipline. At an early age it is the quality of the coaching, the staff and the other kids that make all the difference.

Mazinbrum

1,378 posts

208 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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anonymous said:
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You a bouncer?

C5_Steve

8,944 posts

133 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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Any martial art, if taken seriously, will help with discipline and self-control. So I agree with others, perhaps find what's local and well-recommended and see how he gets on.

I grew up in a reasonably rough area of London and my parents were keen for me to learn something to learn to defend myself. Dad wanted boxing, Mum wanted something less confrontational and more defensive. Ended up joining the local Jiu-Jitsu club at 5 and did it until adulthood.

Jiu-Jitsu is a mix of Karate and Judo, so you have the striking from Karate with the throws and ground work of Judo (roughly speaking). Like Judo it's a great way to learn to defend yourself because it doesn't rely on you being bigger or stronger than your attacker and it features a lot of ground work which is where most scuffles end up. Very popular with women for this reason. All techniques are taught from the point of you being attacked, it's reactionary so it's teaching you how to deal with something, rather than how to start something.


anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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anonymous said:
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Used Judo a lot during my working life, saved me many times, seriously.

anonymous-user

84 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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wyson said:
You a bouncer or copper?
Worked doors from aged 17 till I was 50 man, had a few doors by the end. Changed careers at 50, the physical stuff ain't needed anymore, but the conflict management is!

sleepezy

2,140 posts

264 months

Friday 5th January 2024
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Another one for judo. I am literally outside a village hall waiting to pick up my now 17 year old son. He's been going since he was about 6 too, about to enter a competition to try to grade black and loves it; he's learned some useful skills along the way.

Bright Halo

3,982 posts

265 months

Saturday 6th January 2024
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Another for Judo.
I started at about 8 and at the time we all thought we wanted to “progress” to Karate.
It wasn’t until some years later after studying Karate, Kung Fu, Ju-jitsu etc that I realised how great Judo was/is.
Those early lessons stay with me until this day (57). Learning how to fall and roll correctly, balance, positioning, controlling and using an opponent’s body weight is great stuff.
If he then wants to go onto mma of bjj the Judo will serve him well.