The wealthier you are - the less you spend
The wealthier you are - the less you spend
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Pistom

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6,424 posts

190 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I didn't want to derail another thread with this comment and I'm not sure how true it is but I'm paraphrasing another poster who said that the people they know who are truly wealthy seem to live ordinary lives and I think I've seen the same.

In contrast, some of my friends on the lowest incomes seem to spend most.




LunarOne

7,341 posts

168 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I remember a discussion where someone said "Have you ever noticed how tight rich people are?"
I responded "How do you think they got rich?"

But once you have everything you need to live a comfortable life, you don't need to keep spending. Those that do spend to be new money who like to flash their wealth. Old money types prefer to be much more understated about their wealth.

Monkeylegend

29,529 posts

262 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I agree, I am wealthy beyond belief but very rarely spend on anything frivolous.

ChocolateFrog

34,954 posts

204 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I think that's most likely rubbish.

I worked at my fair share of wealthy people's properties.

There's nearly always a gardener and a cleaning as the absolute minimum.

More often of steady trickle of trades, au pair, team of gardeners, team of housekeepers etc etc.

That doesn't offset the fact they drive an old Volvo and holiday in Norfolk.

98elise

32,770 posts

192 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I'd be surprised if that's true.

Even if you don't have any extravagant spending habits you will generally spend more on food, a bills etc.

There will be wealthy people who have quite ordinary spending habits, but there are lots of people who really have to budget. Something a wealthier doesn't have to worry about.

Mr E

23,089 posts

290 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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The Sam Vimes theory of boots and socioeconomic unfairness.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boots_theory

jimKRFC

535 posts

173 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Ah the Vimes "boots" theory of socioeconomic unfairness"...

Beaten to it.

Slow.Patrol

5,682 posts

45 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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A book I am currently reading made a statement to the effect of:-

"For the first time in history, the poorest of society are the most obese".

My benefit claiming SiL regularly has Dominos pizza delivered. I have never had food delivered to my house in my life

Unexpected Item In The Bagging Area

7,428 posts

220 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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LunarOne said:
Those that do spend to be new money who like to flash their wealth. Old money types prefer to be much more understated about their wealth.
All together now: Money talks but…

richhead

3,473 posts

42 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Slow.Patrol said:
A book I am currently reading made a statement to the effect of:-

"For the first time in history, the poorest of society are the most obese".

My benefit claiming SiL regularly has Dominos pizza delivered. I have never had food delivered to my house in my life
thats not about money, its laziness,
People that arent lazy tend to have more money.

LimaDelta

8,521 posts

249 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Luxury goods are a tax on the poor. Anyone with real money gets the stuff for free.

To quote Withnail, "Free for those who can afford it, very expensive for those who can't"

boyse7en

8,208 posts

196 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Slow.Patrol said:
A book I am currently reading made a statement to the effect of:-

"For the first time in history, the poorest of society are the most obese".

My benefit claiming SiL regularly has Dominos pizza delivered. I have never had food delivered to my house in my life
I've never had a Dominos Pizza, delivered or not. £15 for a pizza is more than I am willing or able to spend.
I'm not sure whether that means I am richer or poorer than your SiL

BoRED S2upid

21,089 posts

271 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I agree.

Cars for example I don’t see wealthy people with lease cars which must be the most expensive way to run a car. Instead they are likely to buy outright and run them for decades. Proper old skool wealth.

Downward

5,700 posts

134 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Guess if you bought solar and battery storage a while ago you’ll be getting paid to produce electric while folk who probably could do with help with their bills wouldn’t be able to afford to invest in this.


chazwozza

990 posts

217 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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You don't get rich by giving it away... The wealthiest 2 people I knew were so damn tight it was unreal. Think having a bbq and they put a pile of charcoal on consisting of about 3 pieces!! He was from Yorkshire though...

Roofless Toothless

7,583 posts

163 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Slow.Patrol said:
A book I am currently reading made a statement to the effect of:-

"For the first time in history, the poorest of society are the most obese".

My benefit claiming SiL regularly has Dominos pizza delivered. I have never had food delivered to my house in my life
I’ve had next door’s delivered to my house several times. Does that count?

They don’t appear to work, have two kids in there, the place reeks of marijuana, and have regular call outs from the police, who seem to be about as good as finding them as the deliveroo driver. I got their breakfast once!

RizzoTheRat

29,063 posts

223 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Unexpected Item In The Bagging Area said:
LunarOne said:
Those that do spend to be new money who like to flash their wealth. Old money types prefer to be much more understated about their wealth.
All together now: Money talks but…
Dirty cash I want you oo oo?

dxg

10,807 posts

291 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Old money vs new money...

GetCarter

31,305 posts

310 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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I personally know two multi millionaires very well, and they spend money 'liberally'.

Both have multiple houses in different countries, staff to do 'stuff', car collections to die for, and £1k for a meal out for four is not uncommon.

I'm sure there are many frugal rich people... but plenty splash the cash.

Puzzles

3,638 posts

142 months

Monday 16th September 2024
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Unexpected Item In The Bagging Area said:
All together now: Money talks but…
Yeah those stately homes are whispering hehe