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Ranger 6

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7,515 posts

270 months

Thursday 17th October 2024
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Soho Farmhouse - [url]https://www.sohohouse.com/houses/soho-farmhouse[\url]

My daughter took my wife for a night and they're both raving about the place. My wife wants to go for a significant Birthday next year.

Picky I know, but it's a 'members club' with all the associated charges and I really CBA to sign up for something I'll only use once.

I said this to SWMBO, and suggested there's bound to be somewhere else as good. However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'

My question is - there must be somewhere either equal or better - what are your suggestions, oh wise PH folks? thumbup

Mr Magooagain

12,416 posts

191 months

Thursday 17th October 2024
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Ranger 6]Soho Farmhouse - [url said:
https://www.sohohouse.com/houses/soho-farmhouse[\u...

My daughter took my wife for a night and they're both raving about the place. My wife wants to go for a significant Birthday next year.

Picky I know, but it's a 'members club' with all the associated charges and I really CBA to sign up for something I'll only use once.

I said this to SWMBO, and suggested there's bound to be somewhere else as good. However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'

My question is - there must be somewhere either equal or better - what are your suggestions, oh wise PH folks? thumbup

Neptune188

347 posts

198 months

Thursday 17th October 2024
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Estelle Manor is just around the corner...

https://estellemanor.com/

Ranger 6

Original Poster:

7,515 posts

270 months

Thursday 17th October 2024
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Thanks - that looks good with the whole spa 'thing'

Ranger 6

Original Poster:

7,515 posts

270 months

Monday 21st October 2024
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Bump for the Monday crowd

theplayingmantis

5,439 posts

103 months

Tuesday 22nd October 2024
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Oh my the down form Londoners yuck! next you will be going to daylesford wink

but maybe thyme near lechlade/fairford fits the bill sort of? not cotswold proper, and even then its debatable if its cotswolds. slightly less pretencious than SF...just.

i like it. and the swan at southrop is decent.

Stephanie Plum

2,797 posts

232 months

Tuesday 22nd October 2024
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The Newt?

davek_964

10,552 posts

196 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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I fully admit I'm not an expert in relationships - but if this happened "However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'" - I think I'd admit defeat and go where she wanted.

Whatever you choose isn't going to be where she wants to go.....

Collectingbrass

2,610 posts

216 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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davek_964 said:
I fully admit I'm not an expert in relationships - but if this happened "However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'" - I think I'd admit defeat and go where she wanted.

Whatever you choose isn't going to be where she wants to go.....
This. Take the hint...

akirk

5,775 posts

135 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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https://calcot.co/

Calcot Manor as a much better alternative...

but ultimately what Soho Farmhouse offers is that you can be 'part of the crowd' with others just like you - if that works then it is hard to replicate elsewhere, if that makes you run a mile then Calcot Manor Hotel would be much better

Ranger 6

Original Poster:

7,515 posts

270 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Collectingbrass said:
davek_964 said:
I fully admit I'm not an expert in relationships - but if this happened "However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'" - I think I'd admit defeat and go where she wanted.

Whatever you choose isn't going to be where she wants to go.....
This. Take the hint...
laugh thanks both

In essence I see it as a challenge and am looking for somewhere (not necessarily in the Cotswolds) that provides good surroundings and a decent standard of food. A few years ago we quite enjoyed Ellenborough Park and even their bar food was good.

I have been distinctly unimpressed with the Soho Farmhouse menus and I really enjoy good quality food. I have suggested going back to the Hand and Flowers rather than trekking to somewhere where we would stay in a pig shed.

Ranger 6

Original Poster:

7,515 posts

270 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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akirk said:
https://calcot.co/

Calcot Manor as a much better alternative...

but ultimately what Soho Farmhouse offers is that you can be 'part of the crowd' with others just like you - if that works then it is hard to replicate elsewhere, if that makes you run a mile then Calcot Manor Hotel would be much better
Thanks - yes, you guessed, I'm running!

Will have a look at the other suggestions - Swan, Newt etc.

akirk

5,775 posts

135 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Ranger 6 said:
akirk said:
https://calcot.co/

Calcot Manor as a much better alternative...

but ultimately what Soho Farmhouse offers is that you can be 'part of the crowd' with others just like you - if that works then it is hard to replicate elsewhere, if that makes you run a mile then Calcot Manor Hotel would be much better
Thanks - yes, you guessed, I'm running!

Will have a look at the other suggestions - Swan, Newt etc.
Swan at Southrop is part of the Newt setup - When the owner of the manor moved in, she started to buy up around her, effectively rebuildng an estate there - and then developed the whole spa side and cookery school at the Newt.

Possibly a better option if you wanted to do e.g. a cookery course - not sure I would choose it as much for a spa retreat - and definitely not over Calcot which I think is superb (35 yrs of living in that area and know the people well).

Ranger 6

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7,515 posts

270 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Ta thumbup

Antony Moxey

10,192 posts

240 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Collectingbrass said:
davek_964 said:
I fully admit I'm not an expert in relationships - but if this happened "However I was quickly shut down with a scathing look and retort that 'nothing's like it, so don't bother looking....!!'" - I think I'd admit defeat and go where she wanted.

Whatever you choose isn't going to be where she wants to go.....
This. Take the hint...
Or just say: fine, you two go and enjoy yourselves, I'll see you when you get back.

theplayingmantis

5,439 posts

103 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Ranger 6 said:
akirk said:
https://calcot.co/

Calcot Manor as a much better alternative...

but ultimately what Soho Farmhouse offers is that you can be 'part of the crowd' with others just like you - if that works then it is hard to replicate elsewhere, if that makes you run a mile then Calcot Manor Hotel would be much better
Thanks - yes, you guessed, I'm running!

Will have a look at the other suggestions - Swan, Newt etc.
its not the swan, the swan is just a pub, its thyme where you stay.

theplayingmantis

5,439 posts

103 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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akirk said:
Swan at Southrop is part of the Newt setup
no its not.

DeejRC

8,514 posts

103 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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Er…pretty much most places.
Why does she want to go there, what does she think it does that, well, so many other places don’t do?

Is it the spa? The food? The views? Or is it the “brand”, the name and its poncy “celebs come here” rep?

akirk

5,775 posts

135 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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theplayingmantis said:
akirk said:
Swan at Southrop is part of the Newt setup
no its not.
Sorry smile not Newt - Thyme

all sounds similar!
thanks!

theplayingmantis

5,439 posts

103 months

Wednesday 23rd October 2024
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akirk said:
theplayingmantis said:
akirk said:
Swan at Southrop is part of the Newt setup
no its not.
Sorry smile not Newt - Thyme

all sounds similar!
thanks!
Yes although I didn't explicit state it in my original post I thought I had implied it by association. But possibly was not very clear.