£25k Dad Car
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TorqueMaverick

Original Poster:

27 posts

109 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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I'm just coming out of my MK3 Focus RS and my budget will be around £25k, less is better but can also be stretched a little.
Needs to have enough space in the back for two car seats with adults fitting comfortably in the front as the RS was too squashed. A bigger boot would be a plus too.
I only do 4k miles a year but would Ideally like something newer with less miles than previous car which was 2016 & 54k.
I'm currently thinking M3's but had a few M lights of this generation so feel the interior is a bit too similar and a little dated now, also not sure if the ride may be too firm like the RS was.
Can't help but keep looking at Velar's as they seem very good value these days but not sure I'm ready to fully throw myself into a real dad car just yet! Plus I also hear they are very unreliable but at the same time see them everywhere so not sure what's the deal there?
I normally replace my cars every 2-3 years which is way I'm leaning more towards something big like the Velar while the babies are still in big car seats then buy a 911 when the kids are old enough to jump in the back themselves (We dream)
I live on the Isle of Man so the thought of the M3 for the 1 lap over the mountain at TT is very appealing ... its also feels wasted for the other 364 days a year.
Anyway looking for thoughts on the above as they are two very different ways of carrying the family around or is there anything else I should be looking at instead?

Juan B

634 posts

27 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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I'd probably go M3 for the money / needs, and especially with only doing 4k miles a year.

C43 estate is a kind of in between option, if you could get a lower milage one in budget.

66HFM

798 posts

48 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Something like an S4 Avant rather than the full fat RS4, allowing for your young children to have some form of space

ilikejam

1,191 posts

139 months

cerb4.5lee

41,674 posts

203 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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I think I'd go in the direction of the F80 M3 or similar, and I think that you'll get bored of the Velar quite quickly to be honest. I have both a F82 M4 and a GLE400d for reference, so I have experience of both of the ways of doing it. That is just my take on it though.

JonnyWhitters

863 posts

105 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Ben's channel has hours of great videos designed to help people in your situation find something interesting an exciting.

Worth a look, if you haven't already been over there

https://www.youtube.com/@dadcars

Tindersticks

2,698 posts

23 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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440i Gran Coupe is a sleeper. Get one with an MPPSK and it sounds damn good. Loads of space and a good looking car. Probably better for a family wagon than an M3 IMHO.

blue_haddock

4,860 posts

90 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Skoda Superb with the golf R engine in it?

As much room as the kids will ever need and very discrete.

https://www.autotrader.co.uk/car-details/202411086...


Quattr04.

979 posts

14 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Golf R
Focus ST estate
Civic type R
Octavia VRS
Audi s4
340i touring
Volvo v60 T8
C43 estate

Torque-2-Me

Original Poster:

27 posts

109 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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66HFM said:
Something like an S4 Avant rather than the full fat RS4, allowing for your young children to have some form of space
Good call and maybe the fast estate is the way to go.

Torque-2-Me

Original Poster:

27 posts

109 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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ilikejam said:
Actually really like this. Leaning more towards the fast estates. Thanks

Torque-2-Me

Original Poster:

27 posts

109 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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JonnyWhitters said:
Ben's channel has hours of great videos designed to help people in your situation find something interesting an exciting.

Worth a look, if you haven't already been over there

https://www.youtube.com/@dadcars
Yes i am a subscriber, he does offer some great insights even though the reality of fitting 4 children into a Maserati Grand Turismo for the daily school run doesn't appeal much to me

cerb4.5lee

41,674 posts

203 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Torque-2-Me said:
66HFM said:
Something like an S4 Avant rather than the full fat RS4, allowing for your young children to have some form of space
Good call and maybe the fast estate is the way to go.
A fast estate is a great shout, because they're generally lighter and a more focused driving tool over an SUV I reckon.

There is another argument in that you won't always want to be driving in a spirited manner if you have the family in with you as well. So you could actually go for something "less" exciting to drive perhaps?

48Valves

2,623 posts

232 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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540i with a remap and suspension refresh.

All the space and go you will ever need.

Belle427

11,342 posts

256 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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340i Touring maybe.

Matt_T

1,142 posts

97 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Kia Stinger
Lexus GS-F

...just some left-field ideas

BlueMR2

9,262 posts

225 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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MisanoPayments

579 posts

65 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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I cannot speak for Mercs or BMWs as don't follow them enough re specs but in case it bothers you as it would me, if looking at S4s, quite a lot don't have auto hold - the button for it is next to the handbrake.

blue_haddock

4,860 posts

90 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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Matt_T said:
Kia Stinger
Lexus GS-F

...just some left-field ideas
My boss has a stinger and its actually pretty good, certainly a decent leftfield choice.

Matt_T

1,142 posts

97 months

Thursday 20th February 2025
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blue_haddock said:
Matt_T said:
Kia Stinger
Lexus GS-F

...just some left-field ideas
My boss has a stinger and its actually pretty good, certainly a decent leftfield choice.
https://www.pistonheads.com/buy/listing/17999906