Engagement Rings
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gbbird

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5,197 posts

274 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Just discussing with some colleagues at work, and none of us seem to know the answer - whats the score if you buy an expensive engagement ring as a surpise, but she says no when you pop the question :eek: ?

Can you take them back for a full refund, or do you just have to be sure she will say yes?

Plotloss

67,280 posts

300 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Doubt they will refund it but you could sell it on...

shadytree

8,291 posts

279 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Or hope the next girl doesn't have fat fingers

Would have thought you could take it back.

You're not posting on behalf of DOWNSHIFT are you ?

>> Edited by shadytree on Tuesday 4th October 14:32

406

3,636 posts

283 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Some shop will refund if you tell them first. Mainly the bigger ones like Goldsmiths.

HTH

Dave

Living Alone and Single but not sad

406

BliarOut

72,863 posts

269 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Discuss "sale or return" options with the jeweller first

Plotloss

67,280 posts

300 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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BliarOut said:
Discuss "sale or return" options with the jeweller first


Are you a glass half empty type then?

vixpy1

42,699 posts

294 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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How about you sound out the idea with the girl in question?

cotty

42,244 posts

314 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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vixpy1 said:
How about you sound out the idea with the girl in question?


vixpy1 in non OXO related response shocker

vixpy1

42,699 posts

294 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Ok then..

Make sure you try her ring for size before taking her up the OXO tower..


better?

blueyes

4,799 posts

282 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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I got a refund (I changed my mind before I proposed- found out she didn't have a reflection in the mirror) and I managed to swap the ring for a nice watch... my "escape" watch as I call it.

406

3,636 posts

283 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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cotty said:

vixpy1 in non OXO related response shocker




vixpy1 said:


Make sure you try her ring for size before taking her up the OXO tower..


better?



Ah, Everything is back to normal

>> Edited by 406 on Tuesday 4th October 15:44

AlexH

2,505 posts

314 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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If you go to Elizabeth Duke at Argos you can probably exchange it for a toaster (maybe not top of the range though) if she doesn't say yes...

Chim Girl

6,268 posts

289 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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If you're not sure she's going to say yes, then IMHO you shouldn't be asking her to marry you.

Marki

15,763 posts

300 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Chim Girl said:
If you're not sure she's going to say yes, then IMHO you shouldn't be asking her to marry you.


Yeah but there is sure and then there is sure ,,,, strange things Girls

kerfuffle

5,253 posts

284 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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Yeah, don't bother asking. Just the slip the collar and leash on her and you'll get years of faithful service out of her.

vixpy1

42,699 posts

294 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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AlexH said:
If you go to Elizabeth Duke at Argos you can probably exchange it for a toaster (maybe not top of the range though) if she doesn't say yes...


Just imagining some confusion here if he buys the wrong gift to start with...

and wips out a toaster and slams that on her hand..

kerfuffle

5,253 posts

284 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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With this lump of glass chavtat I thee wed

GregE240

10,857 posts

297 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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vixpy1 said:

AlexH said:
If you go to Elizabeth Duke at Argos you can probably exchange it for a toaster (maybe not top of the range though) if she doesn't say yes...



Just imagining some confusion here if he buys the wrong gift to start with...

and wips out a toaster and slams that on her hand..
Actually, given the quality of ED's jingle-jangle, a finger sporting one of Dualits finest might not be such a bad idea.....

How you could impress your friends.....a toast making engagement ring.....

cotty

42,244 posts

314 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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GregE240 said:

vixpy1 said:


AlexH said:
If you go to Elizabeth Duke at Argos you can probably exchange it for a toaster (maybe not top of the range though) if she doesn't say yes...




Just imagining some confusion here if he buys the wrong gift to start with...

and wips out a toaster and slams that on her hand..

Actually, given the quality of ED's jingle-jangle, a finger sporting one of Dualits finest might not be such a bad idea.....

How you could impress your friends.....a toast making engagement ring.....


And of course you know who's going to make all the toasts at the wedding reception

nervous

24,050 posts

260 months

Tuesday 4th October 2005
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works every time tho. Ive got an account with ratners. and somewhere that sells jewelry.