Families are choking on the £100 casual meal out
Families are choking on the £100 casual meal out
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Skyedriver

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21,987 posts

303 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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A Telegraph article from a few days ago, I've abbreviated it to fit the title but it read
"Middle-class families are choking on the £100 casual meal out "

Which brings us to a discussion my wife instigated, she hadn't read the article but had been chatting to a colleague at work about our own local restaurants and the prices they were charging now. We're in a "tourist" area, folk from around the globe although local folk aren't particularly well off, most in hospitality, fish farms etc.

A few examples
Starter: Poached egg on toast with black pudding £9.50

Mains: Fish & Chips £18.50
Potato Cakes £18.50Salmon £24
Chicken Supreme £19
Mac cheese £16.
Sea Bass Fillet £22
10oz Sirloin £35

Dessert £8.50

Now I appreciate there's staff to pay, rates, electric etc the additional NI now adds to cost but for 3 adults (me, wife, son) a meal out is getting expensive for the average family.
Even fish and chips carry out is around £11

We've a celebratory meal tonight and having looked at the weather and the cost we've bought 2 good size pieces of Halibut and two Sea Bream fillets. £27. I enjoy the occasion of eating out but tonight we're eating in.

As an aside, there was a programme last night Deborah Meaden at a bakery in Glastonbury. Wife zoomed in on some lovely looking chocolate tray bakes £1.70 Same item up here would be £3.50.

OK, all the above is just a grumble from an old man shouting at clouds but I've had my say.

Edited by Skyedriver on Friday 3rd October 12:56

Terminator X

19,281 posts

225 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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£10 starter, £20-40 for a main, another £10 for dessert. Throw in a few glasses of wine and it's getting on for £70-£90 a head daan sarf. We have pretty much stopped eating out. Must be grim for these places now.

TX.

ChocolateFrog

34,629 posts

194 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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We're just getting to the point where there's families that will go out for food and families that won't.

Almost certain we haven't bought a family meal that cost more than £100 for 4 of us, ever.

Mainly because it's wasted on the kids so you're just inflating the cost of your own meal while having the ambiance ruined by kids who've had enough after 20 minutes. Not worth it.

ChevronB19

8,522 posts

184 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Terminator X said:
£10 starter, £20-40 for a main, another £10 for dessert. Throw in a few glasses of wine and it's getting on for £70-£90 a head daan sarf. We have pretty much stopped eating out. Must be grim for these places now.

TX.
It’s very easy to do exactly the same in the far north of England (Carlisle). And I’m talking your utter bog standard ‘gastropub’ actually buys its food in and warms it up.

Googie

2,021 posts

147 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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A trip to Prezzos or similar with my niece and nephew is pushing a £100 these days and that’s with soft drinks only..

C5_Steve

7,192 posts

124 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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When I was a kid, we never ate out. Wimpy for a special occasion was the most, never got takeaways. Couldn't afford them (lived in/live in London). It seems as I've gotten older, more and more families would default to cheap takeaway instead of cooking.

Now seems to be leaning back the other way with less able to afford to eat out and needing to cook at home. Does seem to be driven by a general rise in costs of everything related to hospitality and food. Just look at the price of chocolate as one example.

I should say I'm lucky enough now to not have to really worry about the costs of eating out (just the two of us) but I've certainly noticed the cost of meals creep up at even the most basic places. I'd now rather spend twice the amount for a really amazing meal than something bang average, unless it s a takeaway where I don't have to leave my home.

alangla

6,155 posts

202 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Lunch (1 course) in Nando’s for a family of 4 cost over £50 a couple of weeks ago. I basically can’t afford to eat out unless it’s a supermarket cafe or something else with a kids eat free offer.

croyde

25,379 posts

251 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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I rarely eat out now. The prices are ridiculous for what is mainly sub par food and service.

Even popping out for a Ruby is bloody expensive.

Restaurants/Pubs may complain about the overheads but surely dropping the prices and then actually being busy would help everybody.

butchstewie

63,170 posts

231 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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I don't eat in restaurants often but I don't mind paying for top quality food.

I don't understand the £8-12 sandwich or jacket potato or soup that a lot of bang average cafes seem to be moving towards.

pinchmeimdreamin

10,663 posts

239 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Skyedriver said:
10oz Sirloin £3
How Much yikes


Chris Type R

8,686 posts

270 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Googie said:
A trip to Prezzos or similar with my niece and nephew is pushing a £100 these days and that s with soft drinks only..
Tastecard or similar makes brings Prezzo prices closer to where (I think) they should be.

theplayingmantis

5,481 posts

103 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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pinchmeimdreamin said:
Skyedriver said:
10oz Sirloin £3
How Much yikes

Cheap though it may be, anywhere that serves 'hunters chicken' let alone has it on a 'specials' board is to be avoided like the plague if you want decent freshly prepared food. Imho

pinchmeimdreamin

10,663 posts

239 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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theplayingmantis said:
Cheap though it may be, anywhere that serves 'hunters chicken' let alone has it on a 'specials' board is to be avoided like the plague if you want decent freshly prepared food. Imho
and you are allowed your opinion, even if it is wrong smile

Mobile Chicane

21,746 posts

233 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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I'll splurge on M* but pub food is an absolute no.

In rural Surrey £100 is barely two courses for two.

On the other hand, it's quite a bit of properly aged butcher's steak and decent cheese.

Countdown

46,814 posts

217 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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theplayingmantis said:
Cheap though it may be, anywhere that serves 'hunters chicken' let alone has it on a 'specials' board is to be avoided like the plague if you want decent freshly prepared food. Imho
What's wrong with Hunter's Chicken ?

ChrisH79

255 posts

35 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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I live in the north east and whenever I go out to eat it’s at least £50 for 2 of us. Unless dinner is 5 guys or Nandos. A good meal can easily run to £50 a head.

Skodillac

8,630 posts

51 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Spotted locally whilst out on a bike ride. Wonder what they charge on Saturdays.


Mabbs9

1,528 posts

239 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Chris Type R said:
Googie said:
A trip to Prezzos or similar with my niece and nephew is pushing a £100 these days and that s with soft drinks only..
Tastecard or similar makes brings Prezzo prices closer to where (I think) they should be.
When they named Prezzo I don't think they meant it to be expensive!

Sheepshanks

38,890 posts

140 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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Countdown said:
theplayingmantis said:
Cheap though it may be, anywhere that serves 'hunters chicken' let alone has it on a 'specials' board is to be avoided like the plague if you want decent freshly prepared food. Imho
What's wrong with Hunter's Chicken ?
I had it in two pubs recently - one was really good, the other was horrendous, like they'd put a piece of processed cheese on top of it. The better one was slightly cheaper. Unfortunately that pub burned down the night of our visit!

Fastchas

2,779 posts

142 months

Friday 3rd October 2025
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I always find the dessert price as a barometer for the price of eating out.

'We're paying £9.50 now for a dessert?'

It's a slice of fancy cake.