How did you get poor?
How did you get poor?
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Wacky Racer

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40,098 posts

265 months

Friday 3rd October
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Following on from the How did you get wealthy? thread....

What goes up, sometimes goes down unfortunately.

Bad business decision?, investments? Divorce? Illness?


200Plus Club

12,290 posts

296 months

Friday 3rd October
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Loose cars and fast women perhaps? !

Oil Trash

179 posts

95 months

Friday 3rd October
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200Plus Club said:
Loose cars and fast women perhaps? !
Everything else I just wasted

Furbo

1,941 posts

50 months

Friday 3rd October
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Wacky Racer said:
Following on from the How did you get wealthy? thread....

What goes up, sometimes goes down unfortunately.

Bad business decision?, investments? Divorce? Illness?
Wife and children.

BlindedByTheLights

1,821 posts

115 months

Friday 3rd October
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Paying nursery fees for 9 years.

Simpo Two

89,834 posts

283 months

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I know a chap who inherited a successful business from his father. He was a millionaire overnight. The only problem was that he was no good at business, was generally too far nice and got shafted by successive business partners. He ended up divorced and pretty much skint. It's sad that a kindly character with a willingness to help people ended up like that.

Drumroll

4,238 posts

138 months

Friday 3rd October
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Maybe you just start off poor and never get that "leg up"

croyde

25,026 posts

248 months

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Alcoholic ex wife who also gambled.

vw_99

216 posts

61 months

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Alcoholic girlfriend that abused my son and made false claims against me.

skylarking808

973 posts

104 months

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Put my principles ahead of chasing my tail in the rat race.


Sheets Tabuer

20,500 posts

233 months

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Divorced twice.

croyde

25,026 posts

248 months

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Ouch frown

Simpo Two

89,834 posts

283 months

Friday 3rd October
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Drumroll said:
Maybe you just start off poor and never get that "leg up"
Reminds me of a cartoon I saw once...

Two tramps sitting on a park bench. One says to the other 'Yeah I started off penniless too. Not sure went wrong'.

Sir Keith Stormer

168 posts

3 months

Friday 3rd October
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Some like me didn’t get poor but were born into a poor family, didn’t stay that way, grew up, worked hard, invested wisely, became un poor.

NDNDNDND

2,510 posts

201 months

Friday 3rd October
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Simpo Two said:
I know a chap who inherited a successful business from his father. He was a millionaire overnight. The only problem was that he was no good at business, was generally too far nice and got shafted by successive business partners. He ended up divorced and pretty much skint. It's sad that a kindly character with a willingness to help people ended up like that.
I studied architecture, which is years of education and accruing experience for a very mediocre earning these days.

I've set up my own, solo practice now. It's interesting being faced with the reality of demanding money from people for your services, particularly when the 'value' of what you do is difficult to quantify.

I would much rather help people than gouge money out of them, which is why I continue not to make very much.

Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

40,098 posts

265 months

Friday 3rd October
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Sir Keith Stormer said:
Some like me didn t get poor but were born into a poor family, didn t stay that way, grew up, worked hard, invested wisely, became un poor.
Wrong thread.

Simpo Two

89,834 posts

283 months

Friday 3rd October
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NDNDNDND said:
I studied architecture, which is years of education and accruing experience for a very mediocre earning these days.

I've set up my own, solo practice now. It's interesting being faced with the reality of demanding money from people for your services, particularly when the 'value' of what you do is difficult to quantify.

I would much rather help people than gouge money out of them, which is why I continue not to make very much.
There's lots of mid-ground between 'gouging' at one end of the scale and 'wking for coins' at the other. But presumably you quote before starting, so if the price is too high they won't hire you so they won't get gouged. For your own sake, you should charge what your work is worth.

I have a friend with the same problem (artist). He's good, but charges 1990s prices because he needs the work and doesn't want to scare customers off. He relies on people telling their friends. He's about £7K in credit card debt. If you're self-employed you have to have enough confidence in your skills/products to ask the going rate or thereabouts.

NDNDNDND

2,510 posts

201 months

Friday 3rd October
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Simpo Two said:
There's lots of mid-ground between 'gouging' at one end of the scale and 'wking for coins' at the other. But presumably you quote before starting, so if the price is too high they won't hire you so they won't get gouged. For your own sake, you should charge what your work is worth.

I have a friend with the same problem (artist). He's good, but charges 1990s prices because he needs the work and doesn't want to scare customers off. He relies on people telling their friends. He's about £7K in credit card debt. If you're self-employed you have to have enough confidence in your skills/products to ask the going rate or thereabouts.
The RIBA used to publish tables of recommended fees, which meant that both clients and practitioners knew where they stood. Unfortunately these were withdrawn on the wake of the credit crunch for reasons that were either ideological or inscrutable and the profession has been stagnating since.

As with your artist friend, without some external guidance you're left to a process of trial and error, slowly ratcheting up prices until clients start to baulk... I've not got there yet.

CMTMB

52 posts

13 months

Friday 3rd October
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Not poor yet, but my wife was made redundant today and was the main earner so I'm hoping she'll find another well paying job before the redundancy pay runs out, or things will get.. interesting.

happytobealive

134 posts

124 months

Friday 3rd October
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NDNDNDND said:
The RIBA used to publish tables of recommended fees....
Learning how to price your services is the most basic skill you will need to run your own successful business. You shouldn't need an industry body to tell you the answer. I'd start by taking an average of what you closest three competitors charge and then moving the price up from there.