Who here has a big age gap with their partner?
Who here has a big age gap with their partner?
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paulguitar

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31,948 posts

132 months

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Mrs Guitar is 21 years younger than me. We've never found it to be of any great significance, having been together 14 years.

Does anyone else here have a significant age gap with their other half? Any issues caused by it, or no worries?



vetrof

2,768 posts

192 months

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10 years, together 25, all plain sailing.

CTO

2,884 posts

229 months

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10 years here. Wife > Me

Couldn’t be more happy thumbup


Edited by CTO on Saturday 1st November 19:26

juice

9,446 posts

301 months

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9 years (my wife is older) here, will be together 30 years in 2027 and just celebrated our Silver wedding anniversary in Sept this year.

White-Noise

5,430 posts

267 months

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6.5 my elder here. She is wonderful I am so lucky.

TwigtheWonderkid

47,147 posts

169 months

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paulguitar said:
Mrs Guitar is 21 years younger than me. We've never found it to be of any great significance, having been together 14 years.
How old are you/ A friend is 12 years younger than her husband. Been happy for 30 years, but when he retired and she had years of work ahead, resentment began to surface. Now she's coming up to retirement and wants to go on adventures, and he's late 70s and not interested, she's very unhappy.

When your wife is 60 and still full of life, travel or whatever, you'll be 81 and wanting to stay in and watch Countdown.

fooman

311 posts

83 months

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It also depends on your age, if your partner is 10 years younger and you are 35 that's ok, but if you are 25 that's problematic.

Macneil

1,024 posts

99 months

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TwigtheWonderkid said:
How old are you/ A friend is 12 years younger than her husband. Been happy for 30 years, but when he retired and she had years of work ahead, resentment began to surface. Now she's coming up to retirement and wants to go on adventures, and he's late 70s and not interested, she's very unhappy.

When your wife is 60 and still full of life, travel or whatever, you'll be 81 and wanting to stay in and watch Countdown.
Mrs M's father remarried a much younger woman after a divorce, they were very happy. He died a couple of years ago and after nursing him in his last year or so now lives alone in the middle of nowhere, very very lonely and maybe another 30 years to get through alone.

dandarez

13,793 posts

302 months

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TwigtheWonderkid said:
paulguitar said:
Mrs Guitar is 21 years younger than me. We've never found it to be of any great significance, having been together 14 years.
How old are you/ A friend is 12 years younger than her husband. Been happy for 30 years, but when he retired and she had years of work ahead, resentment began to surface. Now she's coming up to retirement and wants to go on adventures, and he's late 70s and not interested, she's very unhappy.

When your wife is 60 and still full of life, travel or whatever, you'll be 81 and wanting to stay in and watch Countdown.
Not necessarily. Nothing in life is guaranteed.
I suspect Paulguitar started this thread re the news of Buzz Aldrin's wife dying a few days ago at the age of 66.
They married just under 3 yrs ago.
Buzz will be 96 in less than 3 months time.



jimothyc

697 posts

103 months

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The wife is 3 days older than me, doesn't seem to be a problem. We still like the same stuff.

Wacky Racer

40,164 posts

266 months

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Been married 45 years, Mrs WR is eight years younger than me,

However, when I was 21, my partner was 44, that relationship lasted nearly five years.

Age is just a number.

Wacky Racer

40,164 posts

266 months

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jimothyc said:
The wife is 3 days older than me, doesn't seem to be a problem. We still like the same stuff.
laugh

gl20

1,184 posts

168 months

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fooman said:
It also depends on your age, if your partner is 10 years younger and you are 35 that's ok, but if you are 25 that's problematic.
This is why the ‘half your age + 7’ formula was invented.

paulguitar

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TwigtheWonderkid said:
paulguitar said:
Mrs Guitar is 21 years younger than me. We've never found it to be of any great significance, having been together 14 years.
How old are you
I'm 107, she's 86.




Randy Winkman

19,718 posts

208 months

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Wacky Racer said:
jimothyc said:
The wife is 3 days older than me, doesn't seem to be a problem. We still like the same stuff.
laugh
And you can have joint birthday parties.

PlywoodPascal

5,974 posts

40 months

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gl20 said:
This is why the half your age + 7 formula was invented.
I’m two which means I should only enter into relationships with 8 years olds or older

r159

2,439 posts

93 months

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My Mrs is only 5 years older, but quite a few things happened in that 5 years (or as a consequence)...

Decimalisation
Moon landing
Turn of decade
O levels to GCSEs (difference of exam when 16)
Vietnam war ended
England were still world cup holders

Not that I ever, ever bring them up..

BunkMoreland

2,757 posts

26 months

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A girl I briefly dated was the result of her dads second marriage. He was about 20ish years older than her mum. And he died (of age related illness) when she was in her 20s, which was obviously hard

Her step brother and step sister were also 20ish years older than her. And as a result she didn't really have much to do with them past her early years as they moved out and had families of their own.

She was nice enough (until she dumped me laugh) But she did have a habit of dressing like someone older than the 35 she was.

Rough101

2,828 posts

94 months

37, 17, but the time had come to testify to reason.

DavieW

889 posts

127 months

8 years older than my wife.
A mate of mine in 10 years older than his wife.
We were mates, the girls were mates and fate took over.